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writes: Hi,My boyfriend has booked to take me away for 5 days abroad, including valentines. We broke up after nearly 3 years together and have been apart 3 months. We got back with each other and have been together again 3 weeks. I have suddenly become very unhappy and quite depressed. I can no longer bear to go away with him. I don't think we are meant to be after all and getting back was a mistake. I feel so bad though as he has paid quite a lot for us to go away but I can't help how I feel and I am not sure why I have started to feel this way! I am worried I will be letting him down.Very sad x
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reader, Creampuff +, writes (1 February 2006):
 Its hard to say why u now feel this way as u didnt state why u broke up in the first place, maybe its the fact that that relationship broke for 3 months and in that time u accepted the break and ended that part of ur life and now getting back to it is not the same as before and the feelings for him have probably been severed. If you feel this way you shouldnt go on this holiday with him, you will both just have a terrible time and it wont be good for either of you, there's maybe a friend or someone he can take instead. Explain your feelings you need to be true to them find out what you want and take that path dont be worried about letting him down, be ture to urself and ur feelings.Takecare x
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