Boyfriend is in jail for violating probation, I'm doing all I can to help, but apparently I'm the "heartless evil bit*h". Why is he doing this to me??
Q. My boyfriend was sentenced to jail for 30 days for violating probation. His urine came up diluted, which means there was low levels of the natural substances in pee, indicating he added water to his pee sample. however, he swears he did nothing to ...
A. 5 April 2011: its not you, when men go to jail they lose all control to the outside world.. he probably feels worthless. i wouldnt deal with being called names like that even though he is in a difficult place there is no excuse for that, he should be sweet talkin ... (read in full...)
I'll decide to leave then I'll think about the way he cuddles me at night and I feel like I could never love someone like that ever again.
Q. Hi guys wondered if you could help me. Iv lived with my boyfriend about 3 years and he is a very mixed up guy who's hurt me a lot of times. He's paranoid and jealous, has abused me emotionally very majorly, frequently tells me I'm stupid etc, phy...
A. 9 February 2011: you wont have any regrets in the long run if you leave this guy.. you are right you deserve better.. trust me i know its hard to leave someone you love so much, and when you do leave you will feel like there is a piece missing.. its not easy but you ... (read in full...)
He's a brick wall! I can't read him!
Q. ok i need help! this guy i have been seeing for a month is driving me crazy! i am usually pretty good at reading people but he is a brick wall! so confusing. anyway, we have been sleeping together, thats all i thought it was going to be in the ...
A. 31 December 2010: well idk things are gettin more and more complicated! i havent heard from him since christmas day, and he was depressed because his ex wouldnt let him see his son.. i have txted him twice with no responce.. but he has done this to me before. idk i ... (read in full...)
First time he hasn't been in touch! Is it because of his son?
Q. I have been seeing this guy for the past few weeks. He is separated and shares a son with his ex part-time. Unfortunatly over the holidays he did not get to see his son and was pretty upset (understandably). During this time he was texting me a few ...
A. 31 December 2010: i dont think he is intentionally blowing you off.. he just needs time with his son.. this situation is always complicated in the beginning of a new possible relationship. just give him some time. he will contact you. once you get to know each other ... (read in full...)
Is there anything wrong with a young woman having a "sugar daddy"?
Q. Hi All, I am a young guy still trying to figure out life and love. I am wondering if you all can give me your opinion on a girl I met. I met this girl a few months back.She's gorgeous, a model, wants to be an actress.She's from Czech Republi...
A. 31 December 2010: well it doesnt really make her a bad person, but i would say that a woman that had any self respect wouldnt do that. sounds to me she is dependent on others to take care of her. also sounds like money is her main priority.. high maintence in other ... (read in full...)
Should I violate the no-contact rule and text back or just totally ignore her?
Q. Hi, I broke up with my girlfriend 2 weeks ago because I caught her in a lie that she totally denied. Her lie hurt me and I lost all trust in her although I still have feelings for her. I told her that I was through and that I have given her many ...
A. 31 December 2010: you can txt back if you want, but you need to really think if she is really worth all the trouble. in my opinion just by reading what you have typed, the trust is gone in your relationship, once the trust is gone it usually wont return, and if there ... (read in full...)
He has no facial or pubic hair. Is that weird?
Q. Hey guys, I'm wondering if it's weird that my 28 yr old bf has no chest or pubic hair or not? He has facial hair, and hair on his arms and legs, but has never had any hair on his chest and never had any pubic hair. He's a tall, strongly built man, ...
A. 27 December 2010: no its nothing to be concerned about, it could be part of is background.. my sister married an indian and he has no hair in those areas either.. i think that is awesome! enjoy it! :)... (read in full...)
How can I be a new, more confident me who doesn't think about the past?
Q. I have had a tough year with my bf and although things are next to perfect now...I still think about our past a lot [he broke my heart and messed me around a bit and took me for granted]. I wanna start the new year afresh...A new more confident me ...
A. 26 December 2010: you have to forgive, and move on.. relationships are going to have ups and downs of course, but if you can't learn to fully forgive then it won't work.. the fact that you think about the past means you haven't fully forgiven it or may be holding on ... (read in full...)
Does this show intense attraction or is it just an "in the moment" thing?
Q. My boyfriend isn't someone I was initially attracted to..he's handsome in his own way but its something that grows on a person, because I didn't think I'd end up with him. When we used to kiss more than a year ago I would get these monster ...
A. 26 December 2010: i would say that definately shows that you have a deep connection with him. and it seems that his looks seem to keep you from fully giving yourself to him. Are you afraid of what others will think? if you are, dont! you could have something very... (read in full...)
My Ex-Wife's New "Friend" With Whom She Appears To Have A Relationship Smokes Pot Regularly...And We Have A Young Son.
Q. Simply put folks, the above is what's going on. I found this out quite by accident and the source of the information is irrefutable. When, I in a roundabout way asked her about any bad habits he might have she straight up lied to me when I asked ...
A. 25 December 2010: no, you have every right to be concerned! i would definately confront her about the situation.. but of course be nice about it, and just ask that she have a little more concern about the future of your son.... (read in full...)
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