I really don't understand why I feel the way I do
Q. I don’t really understand myself right now; I just wonder if anyone out there may understand or relate to why I feel the way I do. I feel down, bored like I’m ‘empty’ - unsatisfied, yet nothing seems to fulfill my boredom and ‘emptiness’. I n...
A. 10 May 2009: In all seriousness, and i'm not a Dr but it sounds like depression, and maybe you should tell your mom or dad you want to see a Dr or therapist, with depression it doesn't have to be for a reason, and it doesn't just go away because good things are ... (read in full...)
I feel hurt, unwanted and useless...
Q. A few months ago me and a girl hooked up and decided to become friends with benefits. All was well for a while - we had fun and we bonded and became pretty close friends in addition to the FWB deal. We had our differences, but nothing too extreme. I ...
A. 30 April 2009: If she was drinking and you know that's really not her thing, seems like your right about the overwhelmed, because if she had such strong opinions, she's not doing it for fun, she did it as a coping skill, not a good one, but still, sorry nothing ... (read in full...)
How can I apologize to someone I haven't spoken to in a while?
Q. To give a bit of back story, I'm a gay guy. I'm 21 and the person I need to apologize to is 15 (please don't turn this into a moral issue, my intentions are only amicable, and I would never force him into any sort of situation that would be ...
A. 29 April 2009: I wont say shit about the age, in this instance so not important, only because of the family things, and not being out, you all probably need an outside support system and others that can relate, and I've done the whole online keeping tabs, him ... (read in full...)
I feel hurt, unwanted and useless...
Q. A few months ago me and a girl hooked up and decided to become friends with benefits. All was well for a while - we had fun and we bonded and became pretty close friends in addition to the FWB deal. We had our differences, but nothing too extreme. I ...
A. 29 April 2009: You may have 2 be patient, but if she sees some time goes by and notices you didn't move on, she'll take notice, but what u said about not knowing if it's her or not having something to replace her that happens 2, but 2 read your words, I think you ... (read in full...)
Help! Why do I feel so guilty?
Q. So, there's this guy (we'll call him Sean), and his brother (we'll call him Aaron) and I have been very good friends for years (over a decade). "Sean" had been flirting with me for almost a year, and then one bad night of drunken tomfoolery led to ...
A. 28 April 2009: Okay, honestly i'd say stop thinking about what everyone else thinks, and all the reasons it can't work, We owe it to ourselves and children to follow our hearts. What if he's the one, how do you know who you'll find down the road? Why deny your ... (read in full...)
Told him I loved him, he cut contact, now he's back but just as a friend. What can I do?
Q. OK I posted a question a while ago about having a fall out with one of my closest friends because I loved them. Unconditionaly and irrevocably. (thanks for the replys) He wants us to be friends again and this is all I've ever wanted after mo...
A. 28 April 2009: I love you are strong words, and females are more emotional than males, you probably freaked him out, my advice is go slow, if you like hangin out with him, be cool with just that, don't get hung up on the relationship part, guys are more immature ... (read in full...)
His search shows him online friend finders
Q. My fiance who I have been with for 5 years, we have a 2 yr. old and my two children from previous marr. I have been finding under his history search for online friend finders. I am mad, he says Im ridiculous?...
A. 28 April 2009: Is it friend sites, or dating, could he be looking up old friends, or do you fear it's new ones, on one hand if it was a form of him looking to cheat wouldn't he go straight to dating or adult sites? and he could have cleared the history so doesn't ... (read in full...)
I'm scared to tell her that I'm going out with someone 12 years older
Q. I am 22, my bf is 34, and we love each other. My mother is 45 and yesterday she told me a guy who was 38 asked her to be his gf. (My mom has an amazing bf who is also 45 so obviously she won't date that guy.) My mom doesn't know about my relatio...
A. 28 April 2009: Well how open minded is your mother? You may try easing into it, ask her opinion on age differences, and before you get around to telling her make sure when you do you can express all of his qualities and why he makes you so happy, even when parents ... (read in full...)
I feel hurt, unwanted and useless...
Q. A few months ago me and a girl hooked up and decided to become friends with benefits. All was well for a while - we had fun and we bonded and became pretty close friends in addition to the FWB deal. We had our differences, but nothing too extreme. I ...
A. 28 April 2009: From everything I have read, you really did like her like her, so why not be more respectful to her feelings and give her the title, don't have commitment issues. When she's lashing out, it's because she feels rejected, she was good enough for sex ... (read in full...)
I'm a disaster when it comes to relationships
Q. Hi! I need some help to figure out my feelings. I'm a disaster when it comes to relationships. I like some guy and then I always end up dating him seriously without really falling in love with him...So, yeah, my relationships have all b...
A. 27 April 2009: Even though most of us crave being in a relationship, here lately I've started to realize untill we get that inner healing, It's hard to start fresh, I think your going to have to do some self analyzing, and just letting time pass wont cure things, ... (read in full...)
I've been out of the game for a while. Is she into me? What to do next
Q. Alright. Just a little background. I go to this gym frequently for the past year and a half. There is this pretty girl that works there, and I have had a huge crush on her since I saw her awhile back. Well, I finally decided to at least send her a...
A. 27 April 2009: She's joking so that's a good sign, and she used another good tactic, she asked you a question, that leads for you to get back in touch with her, so I'd see that as a positive, that's how you keep communication going, if she would have just gave you ... (read in full...)
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