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writes:okay, im overweight, and i have a 4 and half or 5 inch penis(its hard to measure...), i'm 17 and i get made fun of by these other kids i know for being a virgin, but i have to knowam i too small? will there really be someone out there who excepts me? its eating me up inside because i have a very hard time talking to girls because of this, and being a 30 or 40 year old virgin does not sound very fun in the future
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2008): well, actually, it is erect to that size, but... i dont know... im just so scared... i dont want to be that 30-40 year old virgin:(
ive been working out for 3 months, and i have in fact lost 20 pounds, but i have not seen any growth, and ive been told that i could be infact 6 or more, but me being very overweight holds me back, but when i lost 20 pounds, i looked at myself, and i did not see even the slightest difference
i dont know what to do anymore...i was never close with my girlfriend because of this, and we broke up because we were not so close, well, i guess now you see my dilemma
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): If you're very overweight, just your layer of abdominal fat will appear to take a little off your penis length. It could be half an inch or more.
Imagine a mailbox on a wooden post in the grass. If you let the grass grow tall enough then the wooden post starts to look shorter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Hey! Seriously, if u took a survey of 17 year old boys asking them how big their cocks are, I can bet you the average would be about, oh I dunno, 11 inches soft!! GUYS LIE ABOUT HOW BIG THEY ARE!!
Dont let this get to you, ok!
And I promise youll meet a great girl and fall in love. THeres loads of girls out there and the ones worth being with are the ones who love you for who you are not because u look like some guy off a TV show!! :-D DOnt worry about this, OK!?
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reader, Confuddled77  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 It's not the size of the boat, but the motion of the ocean.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (19 March 2008):
 Penisses come in all sizes, but yours is about average. One thing to consider is that the size depends a bit on your level of excitement. Messing around with a measuring tape will probably not give you as big an erection as being with a girl, unless you got a weird fetish.Yes, some women care about the size of a cock, just as some men only want a woman who is double-d. Black men on average got bigger ones and asians got smaller ones. Do all asian women date black men? BUT the most important thing to remember if you want to be a good lover is that your penis is NOT a magic wand you can just wave around and give pleasure to a woman with.A woman is much more likely to stay with a man who enjoys foreplay and gives her lots of it then one with a big dick who just rams it in for 5 minutes. If a big cock was all that a woman needed, not so many of them would be bi-sexual and the best selling sex-toys wouldn't be tiny vibrators for external use. But if your that worried, loose some weight and start excersing, fat doesn't help the erection at all.
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reader, Cherriepie +, writes (19 March 2008):
 hey hunny....
Your small penis is not the only way to pleasure a woman. There's oral and other ways to make a girl happy. So stop letting it hold you back. basically girls dont fall in love with a man's dick but the man himself, whatever the size of his penis.
On the other hand with relationships and hookups that were purely sexual I have always preferred men with larger dicks so I can't lie. I dont know i just enjoy and love the feel of a larger guy. I will cum a lot stronger and faster, so i will admit i prefer bigger ones.
When i was younger size wasnt really a factor, i didnt really think about it much but now with a few years behind me...yeah size does matter. I'm sure everybody's experience is different, but thats how it is with me.
I have a suggestion though hunny...if you are overwieght that can be a huge turnoff for a lot of girls too. maybe you should get your weight down and maybe you can gain some length in your penis too. just a thought. good luck, hun.
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2008): Awh honey, of course, there will be loads of girls that'll accept you. I take it thats flacid (not erect)? If you are, thats average size, if not a little bigger. You're not too small at all. Everyone makes a big deal out of cock size these days, and its crazy. A lot of girls I know wouldn't really think twice about it. I don't mean to generalize, but mainly sluts just care about penis size. It depends what type you go for.. But I, for one, certainly don't mind. And you don't sound small anyways :] good luck.
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