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female
age
30-35,
*iiLoveYoux
writes:this boy i really liked for a long time asked me out i said maybe at first because i thought they was messing about, past experiences they said they was just joking but it has been going on for too long. he asked out not long after again but the room was crowded and i was too shy and nervous to give my answer. OBVIOUSLY IT WAS YESS!!! i tried finding him but he wasnt around, he came the next day and tried making me jealous i thought two can play that game i didnt do it as bad as him but the look on he's face. he said to protect hes ego infront of people that he dont like me but i see it in hes eyes he always stares and u just know when someone likes you. i think i missed by chance even though hes still looking as if hes proving a point hes got with this girl now and has been with her for a week prehaps she was easy to get she barely known him less then a month, but he always walks past me with her tryna make me jealous as if hes proving a point that i had my chance, but he dont seem much happy hes often alone while shes independant doing her thing and still manages to watch me what do i do i really like him and wish i said yes. is it one of them situations where i lost the oppourinity. i mean i was about to confess how i felt about him till i saw him with her intimate what to do? if a girl gives so easy why wouldnt he think move on?
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reader, cmander  +, writes (16 May 2010):
if he's trying to shove it in your face that he's with someone else then i don't really think that you have missed your chance, i reckon you should talk to him just say that you do like him and that you didn't answer him because your shy and did'nt want to risk being made fun of if he was joking in front of everyone. i know what it's like to be shy i'm the same and would have done the same in your situation, us shy people can be our own worst enemys. so just talk to him privately whats the worst that can happen? he says no? at least you'll know where you stand and you'll be able to move on and stop stressing about the situation. it's not fun to keep wanting someone, it'll wear you down if you don't sort it out, it's not worth delaying it out.the longer you leave it, its more likely yes answer to did you lose your chance.best of luck.
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