What should I do? What is he trying to do?
Q. ive been in a very bad situation n dont khow what to do... ...me and my bf were sitting and talking when he said "would you mind if i tell you somdthing?" and i was like, "say it" and then he told me he likes another beautiful girl ...
A. 24 January 2011: what did he do in those three days? did he persue this other girl and it didn't work? or did he sleep with her and realise he wants you, thats after he slept with her. what will stop him doing it again if you simply accept him back. also he won't ... (read in full...)
I do want to be with him but there's no trust due to her getting pregnant and him leaving me again.
Q. Please dont judge! I need advice! My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year and a half now. We broke up for about 2 months from April-June last year and he started talking to this girl, I always believed in if you love something let it ...
A. 24 January 2011: forgiving someone is difficult, trust is part of this. can you ever trust him again? can you love him as a friend and give him the support you want to give him without opening yourself up to being hurt again. make yourself strong and let him sort ... (read in full...)
Who is being unreasonable in this situation?
Q. I currently own my own condo and moved in with my boyfriend several months ago. My boyfriend also owns his home. Because I currently have a tenant in my condo, I pay my boyfriend $700 per month plus 1/2 the groceries. My tenant's lease is up in a ...
A. 24 January 2011: it sounds like your boyfriend is either very money conscious and likes to keep things equal between the two of you, or is getting more from the situation. why do you pay him 700 each month if he owns his house and you own yours? what was the ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend has problems keeping an erection.
Q. Okay i am going to jump into this because i am very concerned with this issue. I have been with my boyfriend J for about six months, we have an amazing relationship but an issue because we cant have sex because he has problems staying hard my...
A. 24 January 2011: what changed between the times when you were happy in sex and when you weren't? it sounds like he saw many things that would seriously change someones idea of sexuality and sensuality.
i am guessing but maybe the hardness of sex might not be t... (read in full...)
I'd like our relationship to be on the best possible terms before she leaves for overseas
Q. Ok so a little over a month ago my girlfriend found out i sent some pictures to some girls. we broke up and now we talk and text a little but not to the extreme. there has been days where we dont talk at all and days where we talk all the time. also ...
A. 24 January 2011: what do you want with this girl? to be friends, a relationship? why were you sending a picture to another girl? if its harmless can you talk about it with your ex girlfriend? if its not harmless then why?
i can imagine from your girlfrie... (read in full...)
Should I tell him I think he looks better clean-shaven or at least with his beard trimmed?
Q. This might be a terribly shallow/silly question.. but Im starting to get involved with this guy.. who has a beard. I love beards, dont get me wrong, but I think he is so much more attractive when he had a tiny beard versus the mountain man beard it ...
A. 24 January 2011: tell him what you just wrote, his bone strucutre is great why hide it. he will probably like the idea of you thinknig about him and caring what he looks like if you are into a more serious relationship. maybe give him the space in the way you say it ... (read in full...)
Married and have feelings for another man
Q. I am a married woman. I have been married to the same man for almost 20 years. He loves me with all his heart. He is loyal, a good father to our kids, and he does everything for me. He puts up with me even when I am not nice to him. Any woman would ...
A. 24 January 2011: you have no guarentees what this attraction means for you. maybe its a sign that you are bored or that you need to change things in your life and marriage and has nothing to do with this other man although he has become the object of your need. or ... (read in full...)
Husband needs the aid of porn to have sex with me
Q. Why when my husband and I have sex we always have to have porn on. When it is not on and we are kissing sometimes he gets on hard, but most of the time he is soft until we have porn on every night. We were apart for almost 2yrs and he said this...
A. 22 January 2011: it sounds like porn has become a habit for him but also that he is oncredibly loyal to you and the other women he has been with. maybe even to the point of having sex always within a relationship. i am guessing at this part. maybe there are too many ... (read in full...)
Are there any tips to help me last longer when I decide to have sex?
Q. Hey, any tips? I ejaculate way too quickly. When a girl gives me a hand-job, I blow my load within two minutes. Any tips to help me last longer when I do get to the point of having sex?...
A. 22 January 2011: do you masterbate, touch yourself? a good way of lasting longer is to touch yourself until you are close to the edge and practice controling yourself again without ejaculating, then repeating. this will increase your control. it takes a bit of time ... (read in full...)
Am I just being used here or is he really in love with me?
Q. ok heres my question. ive had a bf for almost a year last week we were hanging out together went clubbing and i asked him how come he decided to come over to me the day we met? he told me that it was because he just had to have me and then he said...
A. 22 January 2011: nobody should feel so insecure about ones partner, especially if you are open and loving each other.
have you talked about it since he told he used you in the beginning? ,maybe question what sort of person he is. is he someone that stays in the p... (read in full...)
My friend set me up with a male friend of hers, but now she's acting jealous! Should I go through with meeting him?
Q. My friend wanted to set me up with one of her guy friends. I talked to him over e-mail and he wants to meet up. He lives in another state but said he would drive up to see me. I'm nervous because what if he sees me and isn't interested? I'm just ...
A. 22 January 2011: Hey
can you talk to your friend? there could be a whole list of things she is jealous or concerned about. Some for you greater good and some because of where she is at in her life. maybe she loves her fiance but would like the excitement of meeti... (read in full...)
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