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Seriously considering having an affair.

Q.   I'll get straight to the point. I am very seriously considering having an affair. My husband has turned into a complete dead fish in the bedroom. He used to be very excited about me, he used to love to touch me, kiss me, lick me, sleep with me. He ...

A.   9 July 2012: My husband made love to me for the first time ever the other night, and every day since then has been great in and out the bed room... For those of you who gave me sincere answers, I truly appreciate it and want to say thank you. For those wh... (read in full...)

Husband thinks my high sex drive is pathetic

Q.   I'm 25 yrs old, 5ft 5, 124 lbs.... I am an attractive female, long burgundy hair, and I love sex... It is my absolute favorite thing on this earth. My husband is 5ft 10, brown hair, and about 20 lbs overweight. And he isn't a verry big fan of having ...

A.   9 July 2012: I've seen therapists since I was 12 about my sex "problem"... I was raped by my father repeatedly before I hit the age of 8, and was molested by my step brother... I'm fully aware of my problems with sex and all that entails. I talked to my husba... (read in full...)

Husband thinks my high sex drive is pathetic

Q.   I'm 25 yrs old, 5ft 5, 124 lbs.... I am an attractive female, long burgundy hair, and I love sex... It is my absolute favorite thing on this earth. My husband is 5ft 10, brown hair, and about 20 lbs overweight. And he isn't a verry big fan of having ...

A.   7 July 2012: Thank you so so much for responding to my question... He knows all to well how I feel about this, this isn't our first rodeo with this problem... It's been on going for almost 2 years. I've talked and talked to him about it until my gums bled. ... (read in full...)

Is it normal for a 28 year old man to lose interest in his wife after just 3 years?

Q.   This will be the second time that I have posted a question on this site, the last time was incredibly helpful for me! So here we go. Me and my husband have both just been discharged from the military, I was medically separated, he was honorably di...

A.   5 May 2012: I felt so alone until these answers came along, thank y'all so much. Y'all have no idea how helpful your comments really are. Love to you both.... (read in full...)

Does my BF deny masturbating to sexy girls' pictures online?

Q.   Actually I just wanted some opinions on this, thanks in advance!! : My bf has been seeing girls' pictures on Facebook (sometimes his friends, friends of friends... , or even some girls she doesn't know); besides FB, he also checks out sexy model p...

A.   29 April 2012: I had a very similar issue with my husband... I'm going to be straight with you. My husband said the exact same thing as your bf, just deny deny deny... I am very much like you, I am very open about sex and anything of that nature. I don't think ... (read in full...)

Wife got drunk and molested in her sleep at a party. How to put back together the pieces?

Q.   I trust my wife, and I truly believe her when she told me it was a mistake. My wife went to a party and drank. She felt too drunk to drive and didn't want to wake me and our child up to come get her. She texted me that she was staying the nigh...

A.   14 September 2011: All I heard when I read this was... Oh hell no. This woman is taking you for a ride my friend.... (read in full...)

My guy does all the work!

Q.   I don't have much sexual experience i cant even give a hand job...me and my man have been dating nearly 2 months and he does all the work and i feel bad coz i cant do anything. How can I go further? can you give me any tips?...

A.   14 September 2011: experiment, experiment, experiment girlfriend!! If you want to give your man some pleasure all your own, just start doing what feels right. play with your sexuality. I know this might sound crazy, but just start roaming around... with your mou... (read in full...)

His sex drive disappeared, why?

Q.   Hi, first of all thanks for taking time to read my problem !! Okay so, I've been with my boyfriend now for just over 2 years. We're both healthy, young adults. He works from 8-5 Monday to Tuesday and i work 9-5 Monday - Saturday. We pra...

A.   14 September 2011: Have you tried dressing up? Maybe surprising him in the shower? These things work sometimes with my husband, and his sex drive is almost non-existent. He was the same way as your boyfriend is... at first it was very hands-on, and after we got ... (read in full...)

I have fallen in love with a co-worker. He is straight and ten years younger than me

Q.   i have fallen in love with a straight guy and he is my co- worker. he 10 yrs younger than me. our friendship started in work and then we meet always in the work and one day i feel attached to him. we talk and laugh but nowadays he never answerd ...

A.   14 September 2011: I can understand exactly where you are coming from. At a very young age I developed what I thought was just a "curiosity" in another female. I fell deeply in love with her over time, she was a very good friend of mine and we spent oodles of time ... (read in full...)

Husband has been acting really shady lately

Q.   I need some advice... My husband has been acting real shady lately... He'll be on his phone in another room, and then jumps when I walk in the door. He carries his phone into the bathroom with him, won't go anywhere, even in the house, without his ...

A.   13 September 2011:  TheLaird1: Your advice is inspirational to me... Thank you so much. Yesterday, I told him I wanted him to go stay with his family in Dallas, and that when he's ready to act like a man and take his responsibilities as my husband then we'll discuss ... (read in full...)

Husband has been acting really shady lately

Q.   I need some advice... My husband has been acting real shady lately... He'll be on his phone in another room, and then jumps when I walk in the door. He carries his phone into the bathroom with him, won't go anywhere, even in the house, without his ...

A.   12 September 2011: I asked him to do the 24 hour trade off, he says he'll do it... ofcourse this is after I gave him an ultimatum of get right or get out.... (read in full...)

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