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Q.   I am a 18 year old asian boy and I love a boy who is 13 . we are same sex and we love each other.But the other people don't accept it and want to forbid it.He is a dependent and live with his elder siblings.They are controlling him everythi...

A.   18 January 2009: let him grow up first and get to the legal age limit! if you love him as much as you say you do then you will wait for him! then go for it if it is what you both want! x... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my difficult friend?

Q.   Okay, so I have this problem with a friend. He's perfectly nice when sober if a bit oblivious to the way he behaves. But he's a hard drinker and when he drinks he acts in a strange way. we're both gay and when we go to gay clubs, he is only really ...

A.   18 January 2009: i think you are missing something here hun! have you ever thought that your friend may be actingb this way around you because he is actually in love with you! think about it hun x... (read in full...)

Fiance having sex with other guys won't admit it!

Q.   What do I do if I know my fiance is having sex with other guys but he won't admit it to me???...

A.   18 January 2009: Plain and simple! If he won't admit it and you have conclusive proof then get rid of him! x... (read in full...)

I'm so tired of living with this curse, what have I done to deserve this?

Q.   dear cupid : my life is like hell . i am from a very respectful family "Muslim family" working in a respectful job as an engineer, the problem is that I am gay and I have known it long time ago... but as per my religion and traditions as a ...

A.   18 January 2009: ok hope im not being offensive here! but it is 2009 get your parents told and start living your life the way you want to! your nearly 30 for gods sake! get a spine and tell the world! you are the only person who is making yourself unhappy! ... (read in full...)

What must I do to keep him?

Q.   i'm a gay guy, aged 23 and i fell in love with this guy, aged 36. i really, genuinely love this guy and would do anything for him. however, he is the type that looks around, not only to other guys but women also. last weekend he broke up with me and ...

A.   18 January 2009: ask this man if he really loves you! if he does ask him why he broke up with you ask him if theres something that he wants from you that your not giving him talk to him its the only way you will get to the bottom of this hun! thats the thing with ... (read in full...)

If I don't give him what he wants, will he drop me for someone older?

Q.   Hey people I'm 13 years old + I'm going out with a 16 year old guy. I know technically it doesn't matter but I've been told by almost everyone I know that it is "immoral", he is "too old", and I should "stick to people my own age". Please don't gi...

A.   18 January 2009: forget it hun! he is of the age of sexual concent you are not! do you realise that having sex with him could get him in serious trouble if the authorities found out? it would be classed as rape of a minor! do not do it! for his sake as well as yours ... (read in full...)

How do you know when its love?

Q.   How do you know when you love someone? Is their a certain way u feel? ...

A.   18 January 2009: hun love is when your so at ease with someone you feel comfortable with them comfortable is love do not let anyone tell you that being comfortable with someone is boring and your heading for the rocks! you feel like your right arm is gone when ... (read in full...)

Married & cheating with a co-worker

Q.   I cheated on my wife with a co worker (we made out once). I completely regret and I wish didn't. My wife always has been faithful towards me. She has no I idea what I have done. Should I tell her? The co worker keeps flirting with me and I can't ...

A.   18 January 2009: grow up you did wrong! you have two choices here! either tell your wife and risk losing her or forget the affair ever happened stop flirting with the co worker and get on with your marriage! x... (read in full...)

Do I say yes and have a niggle in the back of my every time we kiss. Or say no and forget him.....

Q.   Dear cupid. I have a bit of a dilemma. There is a boy who's 16. I went out with him a while ago. But we split because he wanted sex and I wasn't ready. Anyway a few months down the line he has asked me out saying he will go really slow this tim...

A.   18 January 2009: this guy was sixteen and had an affair? think you need to forget him and concentrate on yourself! am assuming that your only a chicken yourself? do a bit of living before entering into a relationship hun x... (read in full...)

He wants to have sex with other girls before he marries me...

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for over 2 years now. We are both in our early 20's and I've been thinking about our future together. He's told me that he doesn't know if there will be a future with us. He says he loves me and wants to marry ...

A.   18 January 2009: theres only 1 answer to that hun get rid! he obviously has no respect for you and neither does he love you he cant do nif he wants sex with other women and who is to ssay that after your married it wont continue x... (read in full...)

Suspicious of my husbands sexuality

Q.   please help! i have been married almost 4 years, and have been together 15 years. in the beginning my husband and i could not get enough of each other. now my husbands behavior is bothersome to me. i have suspicions that he could be bi. i caught him ...

A.   18 January 2009: hi have you tried aking your hubby? it does seem to me that his behaviour has changed somewhat dont let this question eat away aat you just ask him outright watch his facial expressions and if he gets mad and fidgety and overly denies it then you ... (read in full...)

Am I bisexual, or just a cross dresser?

Q.   hi im 24yr straight male who likes to dress in girls clothes. not very often. Recently i met this guy and have became good freinds. he is bi and we started having sex a few months ago and meeting each other once a week with me dressing as a girl ...

A.   18 January 2009: hi i would say that if your enjoying sex with this man then you could be either gay or bi or just enjoy sex with men whilst dressed as a woman which could seem to define you as a crossdresser maybe you should try sex with this man as a male not a ... (read in full...)

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