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Q.   I have been looking over my answers to posted questions and I think I offer pretty good advice. I do however see a pattern of getting into my own life experiences to make a point. I wondered maybe some might think I am self centered by doing so...

A.   19 January 2009: I've only just seen this post britt, you were the first person that I related to on this site even though our lifes experiences are very different. I think it's a great way to help others by telling us what you have been through and how u coped with ... (read in full...)

Why can't she be mature enough to realise that they are over now?

Q.   Hi I posted a question a while back about my boyfriend, I discovered he was going behind my back meeting with his ex of 5 years in a non sexual way apparently(dat was admitted by both of them) and believe me she wud hav told me if they did. Anyway...

A.   12 January 2009: Your so right, thank you for your thoughts on this, to my knowledge he has stopped all contact, since he spoke to her directly about not ringing him anymore she seems to have gotten the jist, I know it's going to take her time so I will just have ... (read in full...)

Revenge tips for me to hurt a guy's feelings.

Q.   hi I wanted a boyfriend all my life since I was 18 years and now I am 30 and I have never been asked out once and a lot of the guys I liked rejected me for someone who they find more sexually attractive than me. After all the rejection and hu...

A.   9 December 2008: Excuse me Tisha, but the day that I posted a question here and as soon as I read the advice posted back I responded immediately and I'm Irish too. I can't help this girl here, I don't think anybody can, she is too angry, full of resentment and need... (read in full...)

What do I do to prove to her that O will never lie to her or cheat on her again?

Q.   Hello, I'm having a problem with my girlfriend and it's all my fault, since a year now that we started this relationship, I've cheated on her and lied without knowing the reason why I did all this to her, though I lied because I don't want to lose ...

A.   5 December 2008: Emmanuel, First of all you should be ashamed of yourself for putting your girlfriend through this, I'm sure she did nothing wrong and is now left feeling what the hell she did do wrong. Its very unfair to play with her heart the way you have, but ... (read in full...)

Lost my erection, then said something that upset her - was I out of line?

Q.   hey - tonight i gave my girlfriend a nice long message with candles and music and then after some foreplay fingered her until orgasm. after she got some energy back from the orgasm we started kissing again en route to sex. however, i lost ...

A.   5 December 2008: Hi, now see this can be a bit of an awkward situation for a girl, while you definitely made every effort to have a lovely evening with your GF, it all went a bit wrong, the last thing you want now is for you both to feel awkward if this happens ... (read in full...)

He said he wants to forget about me but he doesn't even know me that well!

Q.   The guy I like, well people have told me that I had fallen for him and apparently is obvious, he told me that there was a connection and that because he didn't know me that well he didn't want anything more, because we don't have the same interests ...

A.   5 December 2008: hi, i wouldn't waste any more time on this guy, he seems to be playing some sort of mind game with you, he has told you 100% he wants to forget about you, when he doesn't know anything about you which I think is really lame, the whole point of ... (read in full...)

He broke up after he kissed another girl. Do I tell him that I'm still in love with him?

Q.   Me and my ex-boyfriend had a really stable relationship, that is until he kissed another girl and decided that because of it we couldn't be together "You deserve better" is what he said. The truth is I don't want better and I don't belive one kiss ...

A.   5 December 2008: I think you should tell him how u feel, as you said you had a very stable relationship so he's sure to understand where you are coming from. I'm not sure about his reason to call it off though, I mean these morals of his are a bit OTT. If he love... (read in full...)

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