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I still haven't met his teenage daughter after a year of dating and I'm tired of feeling like a mistress

Q.   Hi everyone! I've been dating my BF for over a year now and he has a 14 told daughter. last year, two months into our relationship, he suddenly disappears for 2 months without even a text or a call. Although I had just started to date him, I w...

A.   14 May 2017: I finally broke it off with him. It breaks my heart but it didn't seem like he was ever going to make changes for me to be included in all parts of his life. He was a priority in my life but I was never going to become a priority in his. I'm ... (read in full...)

I still haven't met his teenage daughter after a year of dating and I'm tired of feeling like a mistress

Q.   Hi everyone! I've been dating my BF for over a year now and he has a 14 told daughter. last year, two months into our relationship, he suddenly disappears for 2 months without even a text or a call. Although I had just started to date him, I w...

A.   9 May 2017: Thank you Honeypie. It's a frustrating situation. ... (read in full...)

I still haven't met his teenage daughter after a year of dating and I'm tired of feeling like a mistress

Q.   Hi everyone! I've been dating my BF for over a year now and he has a 14 told daughter. last year, two months into our relationship, he suddenly disappears for 2 months without even a text or a call. Although I had just started to date him, I w...

A.   9 May 2017: Hi again! Guess what? 4 months later and I still haven't met his daughter. He was supposed to move in at the end of April but didn't bc his daughter got super sick. He has until the end of this week to move in otherwise i's leaving him. This is ... (read in full...)

I still haven't met his teenage daughter after a year of dating and I'm tired of feeling like a mistress

Q.   Hi everyone! I've been dating my BF for over a year now and he has a 14 told daughter. last year, two months into our relationship, he suddenly disappears for 2 months without even a text or a call. Although I had just started to date him, I w...

A.   1 February 2017: Appreciate all the love and the support :)... (read in full...)

I still haven't met his teenage daughter after a year of dating and I'm tired of feeling like a mistress

Q.   Hi everyone! I've been dating my BF for over a year now and he has a 14 told daughter. last year, two months into our relationship, he suddenly disappears for 2 months without even a text or a call. Although I had just started to date him, I w...

A.   30 January 2017: Hi everyone! As promised, I want to give an update. My BF has asked for us to move in together. He is also arranging for his daughter and I to meet and she'll also be living with us part of the time. We haven't worked out all the details yet ... (read in full...)

I still haven't met his teenage daughter after a year of dating and I'm tired of feeling like a mistress

Q.   Hi everyone! I've been dating my BF for over a year now and he has a 14 told daughter. last year, two months into our relationship, he suddenly disappears for 2 months without even a text or a call. Although I had just started to date him, I w...

A.   10 January 2017: Aunt honesty, thank you sooooo much. It means a lot... (read in full...)

I still haven't met his teenage daughter after a year of dating and I'm tired of feeling like a mistress

Q.   Hi everyone! I've been dating my BF for over a year now and he has a 14 told daughter. last year, two months into our relationship, he suddenly disappears for 2 months without even a text or a call. Although I had just started to date him, I w...

A.   7 January 2017: That was rude of me. I can't be so judgemental by calling premadonna. He is trying to do the best he can for his child. Although, I don't agree with his methods, nonetheless he thinks he is doing the best. My problem with him is that he is being... (read in full...)

I still haven't met his teenage daughter after a year of dating and I'm tired of feeling like a mistress

Q.   Hi everyone! I've been dating my BF for over a year now and he has a 14 told daughter. last year, two months into our relationship, he suddenly disappears for 2 months without even a text or a call. Although I had just started to date him, I w...

A.   7 January 2017: Thank you sistergoldenhair! I'm just going to give him 3 more weeks and see what happens. He is not even aware what he's doing to his own daughter. I guess he feels guilty bc of the divorce but he is raising a premadonna. That's his choice how ... (read in full...)

I still haven't met his teenage daughter after a year of dating and I'm tired of feeling like a mistress

Q.   Hi everyone! I've been dating my BF for over a year now and he has a 14 told daughter. last year, two months into our relationship, he suddenly disappears for 2 months without even a text or a call. Although I had just started to date him, I w...

A.   5 January 2017: Aunt honesty! Thank you so much for your response. I don't think he was lying for the reason for ghosting, but he shouldn't have done it. He knows he has until the end of Jan and he says he is taking it seriously. I hope it all works out bc I ... (read in full...)

I still haven't met his teenage daughter after a year of dating and I'm tired of feeling like a mistress

Q.   Hi everyone! I've been dating my BF for over a year now and he has a 14 told daughter. last year, two months into our relationship, he suddenly disappears for 2 months without even a text or a call. Although I had just started to date him, I w...

A.   31 December 2016: Thank you Honeypie! It's so frustrating dealing with him and getting him to understand. He has taken being a "good dad" to another level. I feel like I'm wasting my time with him. I have given him until the end of January. I was so loving towa... (read in full...)

I still haven't met his teenage daughter after a year of dating and I'm tired of feeling like a mistress

Q.   Hi everyone! I've been dating my BF for over a year now and he has a 14 told daughter. last year, two months into our relationship, he suddenly disappears for 2 months without even a text or a call. Although I had just started to date him, I w...

A.   31 December 2016: Andie's thoughts, thank you so much for responding. Your answer was very helpful.... (read in full...)

I still haven't met his teenage daughter after a year of dating and I'm tired of feeling like a mistress

Q.   Hi everyone! I've been dating my BF for over a year now and he has a 14 told daughter. last year, two months into our relationship, he suddenly disappears for 2 months without even a text or a call. Although I had just started to date him, I w...

A.   31 December 2016: Helpmeeee. Scratch that. I rated you a 5. Lol. I haven't been on here for 6 years so had forgotten how this site works. ... (read in full...)

I still haven't met his teenage daughter after a year of dating and I'm tired of feeling like a mistress

Q.   Hi everyone! I've been dating my BF for over a year now and he has a 14 told daughter. last year, two months into our relationship, he suddenly disappears for 2 months without even a text or a call. Although I had just started to date him, I w...

A.   31 December 2016: Dear Helpmee! I was trying to rate your answer but I think I accidentally rated it as one star. Sorry about that. Thank you for the answer. He says he loves me but he says this is his situation. The mother is around but I feel like he takes ca... (read in full...)

I still haven't met his teenage daughter after a year of dating and I'm tired of feeling like a mistress

Q.   Hi everyone! I've been dating my BF for over a year now and he has a 14 told daughter. last year, two months into our relationship, he suddenly disappears for 2 months without even a text or a call. Although I had just started to date him, I w...

A.   31 December 2016: Hi! Thank you for the response. I think the same way that he doesn't communicate well with her. He feels guilty so he over compensates but I get left out all the time. He sees her everyday from 2:30 pm until 9:30 pm. She sleeps over his house 3-... (read in full...)

What do men find sexy?

Q.   What do men find sexy in a woman? Is it her smile, is it the way she carries herself, is it the way she looks, is it her attitude towards life, etc...? I really would like to men what men perceive as sexy in a woman. Thank you in advance. :)...

A.   23 November 2010: Nice anonymous female reader! Well said. I appreciate you input.... (read in full...)

Wife tied me up for bondage then proceeded to list all the things I did wrong, and no sex!

Q.   hi aunty,I got married for 6 months now..2 nights back,we decided for bondage sex,so my wife tied me down to the bed with handcuffs..intially she teased me and kissed..once I was tied up properly and at her mercy..she slapped me..and then yelled at ...

A.   22 November 2010: Omg, that is so mean. I think there were other ways of getting her point across. She left you tied up all night. That's pure brutal. Not to mention you've only been married for 6 month. Personally, I would get out of that relationship as fast ... (read in full...)

For men: Is it physical or personality?

Q.   I have a question for men and women. What do men find sexy, or what attracts them to a woman? Is it mostly physical, is it personality, etc...? ...

A.   22 November 2010: Wow! I really love all the answers. This is so refreshing to see how everyone, especially men, see things. Of course physical attraction is important, but it comforts me to know there are so few shallow people in the world. This whole experience ... (read in full...)

My husband just disappeared but is all over her facebook page!

Q.   21 years married 24 years together, two kids, I was happy I thought I had the best husband, he was so good to me then the unexpected happened 3 1/2 years ago he had an affair, from the internet, I was unable to forget....I fougnt with him ...

A.   22 November 2010: Omg, I'm so sorry. You and your kids seriously deserve so much better. I honestly think, this kinda behavious doesn't just develope overnight. I think that he might have been doing this way before you actually found out. Either way, he left and ... (read in full...)

For men: Is it physical or personality?

Q.   I have a question for men and women. What do men find sexy, or what attracts them to a woman? Is it mostly physical, is it personality, etc...? ...

A.   22 November 2010: Thank you everyone. I love all the responses. I just absolutely love how men think and how straight forward and easy going they are about everything. Thank you for all the great comments. :)... (read in full...)

For men: Is it physical or personality?

Q.   I have a question for men and women. What do men find sexy, or what attracts them to a woman? Is it mostly physical, is it personality, etc...? ...

A.   22 November 2010: Awesome... Thank you this helps very much. It actually makes me have more respect for men. :)... (read in full...)

Is he just playing mindgames with me and that's it? Advice?

Q.   I'm confused and lost. I'm totally in-love w my guy friend of many years. I never in a million years thought that he would be interested in a me. I never thought I was his type. Recently, he's been giving me compliments. Most of communications ...

A.   21 November 2010: Thank you Ranca! I guess I have to let him know but I've got no clue how I'm gonna bring this up. :( Thank you for the advice.... (read in full...)

Is he just playing mindgames with me and that's it? Advice?

Q.   I'm confused and lost. I'm totally in-love w my guy friend of many years. I never in a million years thought that he would be interested in a me. I never thought I was his type. Recently, he's been giving me compliments. Most of communications ...

A.   21 November 2010: Btw, I'm pretty sure he's not a shy guy. He has women drooling for him all the time and he pretty much knows it too I'm sure. At first, he was kinda hesistant to take this to the next level, so asked me via txt. He's not one of those typical shy ... (read in full...)

Is he just playing mindgames with me and that's it? Advice?

Q.   I'm confused and lost. I'm totally in-love w my guy friend of many years. I never in a million years thought that he would be interested in a me. I never thought I was his type. Recently, he's been giving me compliments. Most of communications ...

A.   21 November 2010: Hello QuirkLady! Thank you. I don't know if I just wanna believe you or what but that's what I was afraid of. I guess deep down inside I feel what you are saying to be true and feel stupid. What doesn't make sense to me is why would my guy ... (read in full...)

Is he just playing mindgames with me and that's it? Advice?

Q.   I'm confused and lost. I'm totally in-love w my guy friend of many years. I never in a million years thought that he would be interested in a me. I never thought I was his type. Recently, he's been giving me compliments. Most of communications ...

A.   21 November 2010: Thank you... I know his relationship history. We actually talk a lot about the people we date. Both him and I were in a long term relationshp for 7 yrs that ended many years ago. He has dated many girls and he's always ended them after a few ... (read in full...)

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