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Our friends brought up the engagement issue, and he says he hasn't really thought about it, should I worry?

Q.   Hi everyone. The other day me and my boyfriend were in a takeaway talking to one of our friends and he was asking if we'd thought of getting engaged yet. My boyfriend just didn't say anything and i was looking at him with a bit of a disappointment...

A.   6 November 2007: Sounds like you have a guy with a good head on his shoulders. You stated he is getting his degree, and still living with his parents because of finances. He sounds very smart. He seems to want to be sure to get his degree and have a stable job ... (read in full...)

My mind is blanking out for no reason and I am not remembering what I do!

Q.   I need medical advice what to do. I am 14 and in the past few weeks I have had a few episodes where I don't remember what I have just done. For example, I was getting ready for bed, and decided to write a small list, I sat down with a pen and pape...

A.   6 November 2007: You could be having what is called mini seizures, or petite mal seizures. They are the ones that make you blank out but you dont fall in the floor and shake. My ex used to have them and if he didn't tell me he had one I would have never known it. ... (read in full...)

Boyfriend said he needs to sample the single life before we marry, now he's sleeping around, I love him but should I wait?

Q.   Ok I am in an odd situation... I've been with my boyfriend since high school and we have a great relationship we don't have many big fights. We are both second year university students now and he and I have been talking about the possibility of ...

A.   5 November 2007: I hate to say this but I think you should walk away. I know how bad it hurts to leave someone you love behind but think of this. If he is out there sleeping with other women, then decides that you are really what he wants, will you be able to ... (read in full...)

My wife needs to pee every time we try to have sex

Q.   Hi not sure if anyone can help me. After foreplay and sex, my wife spends most of the night going to the bath room for a pee. She says she pees each time but only a trickle. on saturday she counted 10 trips, we used a condom to see if that was...

A.   5 November 2007: I think you should go to the doctor and ask the doctor about intersticial cystitis. I have recently been diagnosed with that and it is a bladder problem, where the lining of the bladder has broken down and gotten holes in it. It causes everything ... (read in full...)

His ex wants him back and is using emotional blackmail. He's confused. What can we do?

Q.   I recently got involved with a guy I met a while ago, after swearing that I will never fall for another guy after my last break up 6 months ago. He has also been single for 6 months and also has a son out of the previous relationship. It was no ...

A.   21 September 2007: I am have been where you are. Dont stay. It will just hurt you in the long run. He will go back to her if he still has feelings for her and its obvious he does or he wouldnt let her manipulate him. Until he can get past his feelings of rejection ... (read in full...)

My bf told me he cheated on me w/ his ex after he gave me an STD! How will I move past this?

Q.   Me and my bf have been together for 2 1/2 yrs. I moved here to be with him after a long distance relationship. We both have two kids from other relationships that we raise. His ex wife cheated on him and left yrs ago and has never wanted him back...

A.   13 September 2007: I would like to thank all of you for your responses to my question. First I would like to say that I am very thankful for your insight. We are still talking and working on this. He has suggested us going to counseling together. Which for him to ... (read in full...)

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