He only comes to see me when I have money, why can't I leave him? Is this love?
Q. I need to know why am I doing this repeated. My boyfriend, he fights with me over money, takes every penny I have to the last drop just to get what he wants. Realised now that he is married with a 1 year son and he claims to be married bcos of his s...
A. 18 July 2008: sweetie, its time to let go.
theres no effing way that this is love. He's using you and you can find SO MUCH BETTER. girl come on. you have to believe in yourself and finally show this guy where you stand. Screw him. Don't you DARE give this man ... (read in full...)
He keeps hurting me--but I love him!! What should I do?
Q. Me and my boyfriend, after going out a bit told me if i wanted to go to his house and i said yes after a while of hanging out he was pressuring me to have sex with him but after i told him no he got really mad and start pinning me to wall and ...
A. 27 June 2008: Girl listen, I dont even know you but i care about you enough to tell you to GET OUT.
If this guy cared about you, then he wouldnt have freakin pinned you to the wall and raped you.
yeah What you described in the story was considered as rape. Th... (read in full...)
Why do I suddenly miss this abusive ex?
Q. I left my ex fiance 8 months ago, and found a new love 3 months ago. I have been ok and over my ex for awhile, but yesterday i had a urge to look at his myspace. sure enough there is a new girl as his number 2 friend and she left pre-made comm...
A. 27 June 2008: This happens to everyone,
You dont miss him. You think you do, but you dont.
You miss the constant attention and the harrassment from him. You miss feeling wanted beyond belief.
dont let it get to you.
every girl needs a good cry once in a w... (read in full...)
He coming along way to visit me..should I 'put out" for him? I feel obligated..
Q. I've been on 3 dates with this a guy who lives 2hrs away from me. He's coming to visit me this weekend and staying over for a night. We get along really well and communicate via e-mail a lot. Am I expected to put out, since he's coming all the way ...
A. 27 June 2008: If i were you, I wouldn't. If you two were to sleep together, make sure that its just cuddling. You should make it obvious before he even gets to your house that you're not ready for sex. Its better to wait a little further in the relationship to ... (read in full...)
Will he come home or should I just move on?
Q. My boyfriend left me almost 2 weeks ago. He moved out a lot of his stuff but left a lot too . He called me while I was out with a friend like crazy because one of his friends saw me out and told him he talked me into driving home. We talked briefly ...
A. 27 June 2008: Move onnnnnnnn that is all. ... (read in full...)
He says he loves me, but then kicks up a massive fuss over small mistakes! What do I do?
Q. How can I stop missing him? Long story short: early in the relationship he asked about my past, I lied, came clean, he judged me and called me names (for my past) and became a bit controlling (I eventually stopped seeing my friends because ...
A. 27 June 2008: Give him up.
If ANY man is going to pick fights over small things, and blame them on you, then you dont need him. Yeah it sounds like it to me that you have more lust then love with him.
Girl you need to find a man who will let you have FREEDOM!... (read in full...)
He was my friend with benefits, but now he has a girlfriend!
Q. i have known this guy that i really like for 8 years and we have been kinda freinds with benifits, now he has a gf and he says he loves me and doesnt really like her. a couple of dayz ago we had an amazing nite together where we were cuddling and ...
A. 27 June 2008: FORGET HIM.
He's playing you. If he's with a girl and he fools around with you, then hes obviously a player. girl you can find SO MUCH BETTER.
... (read in full...)
How do you spot an abuser? What are the signs?
Q. I know a lot about abusive guys and how to spot one. I'm wondering if cussing at a girl is a sign of an abuser? Like have any guys out there called your girlfriend a "f***ing bitch"? But would never ever hit her? My boyfriend and I had a fight toni...
A. 27 June 2008: Hey, from what you say, and if its only been this once, you should refrain from talking to him until he apologizes. but if you think hes nice and caring, then don't walk away just yet. My boyfriend and i fight all the time, he gets jealous over the ... (read in full...)
I need opinions on this letter I've written the boy I like!
Q. I have a question. I was wondering if anyone could give me their thoughts on this letter I was going to mail to the boy I like telling him about an idea I had. Please give me ur honest opinon. Here it is: Hey (Anonymous) I want u 2 know that...
A. 27 June 2008: oh boy.
that may be a little to strong. instead of the whole "i've liked you since 7th grade..." you should just say, "I was wondering if you would like to go to a twins game just you and me, like as a date" because what your saying here is VERY ... (read in full...)
He's moving away, should I trust him?
Q. I have a boyfriend who live in the same state as me but different city. He use to live near me, and we been together for 3 months, and then he moved. i want to know if i should stay with him even those he is known for cheating on his girlfriends. ...
A. 27 June 2008: Girl, you shouldn't. He's going to think that he can get away with anything while he's gone. You don't want a man like that. You want a guy who you can trust 24/7...someone who you dont have to post about on a website. If you have any doubts at all ... (read in full...)
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