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not a genius just know what people need to here and want to hear most of the time.

i am a total disaster at fixing my own problems but can fix others with out a snag(mostly).

And just to state it because for some reason people always ask. No i am not gay and i mean that with no offence either.

Ok about me: i write. poetry, songs, comics, and even started a book i like all music(except some rap) and watch alot of movies. I live in scenic no-where kansas and agains't all reasoning love it here.

Quotes(mine):

"I'm a treasure trove of knowledge, you just have to know where to dig. sometimes you'll get a diamond, others, just rocks, empty space, and hot air."

"Taking the leap is just like sky diving. you can work up the courage and jump and if you do you may just have the time of your life or you can take you seat and wait to land never knowing what it would be like and regret it every day afterward..."

"Your hearts like a puzzle some people are going to mess with it and break it. But good friends always help you put it back together again. And maybe someone out there will see the beauty in it and cherish it and give you their puzzle too..."

"Competition has pushed man to excel, it's pushed us to do great things, learn great things, build great things. But this is not always a good thing because all good things can be used in ways they weren't intended..."

He didnt want to kiss me when we played spin the bottle, but he was happy to kiss the other girl!

Q.   Me and 2 friends of mine hung out in an abandoned old house today. We got bored so we played spin-the-bottle.When it came time for me and Matt(not his real name) to go in the other room he didn't seem to wanna make out with me and when I kissed him ...

A.   16 July 2009: take it from a guy who knows. it's not you. and you are over reacting a little. here is a couple reasons this may have happened. 1. guys are very self-conscious about their performance. from every thing to sex to holding hands. no joke. he may b... (read in full...)

I'm so lost ...

Q.   my BEST friend, we'll call him tyler. we've had off and on feelings for each other since fifth grade. well last year he got a new girlfriend, while my feelings were off. and she really changed him. she ended up not allowing us to talk..and so the ...

A.   16 July 2009: You are pretty much rowing the same boat i am... you like your best friend and don't know how to tell them and it's killing you. I know the feeling all to well. but no more about me. there's one easy way to solve it. go to Tyler's house when he'... (read in full...)

Should I have a relationship with the boy I have been raising even though he is another man's son?

Q.   I have been married for ten years. We have two sons. My wife recently told me she was having an affair with a coworker for five of those years. According to her, that man is the father of our youngest. Supposedly she broke it off six months ago ...

A.   16 July 2009: i agree with ilovebowsandcherries completely A dear friend of mine i've know since we were pee-wee's happened to be just like the youngest. the son of an affair of his dad's wife and he was 4 and a half at the time, and being his best friend w... (read in full...)

I had sex with my boyfriend's best friend!

Q.   Heyyah Every1 I dont no what to do it was my party on sataday and me and my boyfriend had an arguement and 1 of his best friends jordan, told me to come up stairs so he could talk to me ( we were both drunk ) and he were telling me to talk to da...

A.   13 July 2009: Kinda late to anwser this but not to imply anything but i think a guys P.O.V. is needed. You're doin the right thing telling him i know you think he'll be mad, or upset, or angery, ect. but you need to tell him and if i we're you i'd do it in person ... (read in full...)

Jealous of another student!

Q.   i was the smartest girl in class just after miss intelligent came over im alittle jealousd and all the teachers like her now even though i'm better than her in everything other than studies, what do i do? ...

A.   13 July 2009: compition has pushed man to excel... you can strive harder at studies or you can just know that no ones best at everything theres always someone better then you out there i know is not that big a help but not much you can do... (read in full...)

How does anybody forgive someone that has cheated on them?

Q.   I found out that my boyfriend of 8 months cheated on me. The girl he cheated on me with is suppose to be one of my good friends, and her boyfriend told me. I didn't talk for like twenty minutes, because I just sat there in shock. Apparently thus ...

A.   13 July 2009: its ok to forgive people who cheat on you but don't be blinded by how much you love him don't let him drag you on. don't let him play with you. And just acting like it never happened is a way to cope for alot of people and others may not have told ... (read in full...)

At first my boyfriend was sweet and respectful, but now he seems to just want sex!

Q.   ok well i jus started goin out wit my boyfriend at first he seemed really sweet and respectedful but when i finaly said i would go out wit him he changed he started say he was ganna f*** me so hard in my ass and jus made me start to really feel ...

A.   13 July 2009: this is hard to call because there are a couple types of guys (and this is in huge perseptive) he could just be trying to get you to laugh, or he could be being a total disrepective vulgar jerk, or he's saying it because he doesn't know what else to ... (read in full...)

Why is she ruining our friendship?

Q.   I have had this best friend since freshman year and we are now seniors...we are both lesbians and well, we have a weird friendship. i started out obsessed with her. then i got over it and we were best friends. i liked her on and off for years, t...

A.   13 July 2009: My guess is that she likes you but if things dont work out she doesnt want to lose here friend but thats just my guess but i think thats it... (read in full...)

I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me....

Q.   I just found out my boyfriend cheated on me, and I feel like going to his house right now and just wailing on him. I feel so hurt as I have been played for a fool for these last couple of weeks and everybody knew and didn't tell me!!! I feel so...

A.   13 July 2009: I know this isn't a poetic anwser to your problem but here it is. end it, period, and if you expect things to get ugly call and as for the girl that was your "friend" don't listen to the excuses she has just tell her how you feel and then leave ... (read in full...)

I fancy my best mate's brother.

Q.   Dear cupid, I’ve got a problem and need some advice. There’s more than meets the eye to the problem, it’s not as simple as just, I fancy my best mate's brother. There’s more but I’ll try to keep it short. Basically like everyone in their first ...

A.   13 July 2009: Ok this has been a major problem with me a couple times over... and every time i always worry about the same things you're worried about. its not an easy problem to fix. but if you like this guy and expect to be kissed then you have to tell her just ... (read in full...)

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