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anonymous
writes: my BEST friend, we'll call him tyler. we've had off and on feelings for each other since fifth grade. well last year he got a new girlfriend, while my feelings were off. and she really changed him. she ended up not allowing us to talk..and so the only time we do is when they're fighting. but he means the orle to me and i can't ever get him out of my mind. i try to text him, and everything, but it kills when he doesn't text back. she hurts him all the time and i want to be the one to make him happy. he is my everything, and yet i'm not even in the picture. i'm not sure how to feel or what to do about my feelings bc he won't even talk to me because of her. how can i tell him, or forget about him ? or which should i do ? i'm so lost...thank you so much for any and all help.
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reader, Cale03 +, writes (16 July 2009):
You are pretty much rowing the same boat i am... you like your best friend and don't know how to tell them and it's killing you. I know the feeling all to well. but no more about me.
there's one easy way to solve it. go to Tyler's house when he's home and just talk. tell him you miss talking to him and that his girlfriends changed him. let him know that you're upset. the truth can do amazing things and if you feel the times right tell him you have feelings for him.
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