My cousin kicked and hit me after punching my mother. What can I do?
Q. I have a big problem. My family have three members. One is me. Another is my mother. The other is a cousin that has a bad habit. He is a man but I am a woman. He always disputes with my mother. Last week, when my mother and he violently disputed, he ...
A. 11 August 2005: Hi! In South Africa, we selebrated womens day on the 9th/8/2005. The presidnt gave a very powerful speech on Violence against women and Children.If you may allow me to quote, and here I go, "We must work together as a society to bring perpetrators ... (read in full...)
After I read the text messages, it was pretty obvious Mum's playing around. What do I do?
Q. Ive found text messages on my mum's mobile which confirms she is flirting and perhaps contemplating having an affair with another man. My dad is so in love with her she would ruin him and our family if he found out. I don't know what to do. I ha...
A. 11 August 2005: Hi young girl! I must admit itz a really difficult situation. You must treat here carefully. Remember if you act hurriedlly and your dad gets to know it, two things are possible
1. Either your dad may believe you and and confront your mum, but the ... (read in full...)
Any attempt at sex makes me squirm with discomfort. What's wrong with me?
Q. Hey I've been having this problem for quite some time now. I know that I don't fancy girls, I fancy boys, but despite that I don't get 'turned on' when heavy petting with a guy. I have tried to have sex on several occasions with my ex who was also...
A. 11 August 2005: Hi, I don't really wana rush into conclusions about your situation, but If this problem persist then I would advice you to read the book "Just for women" I have forgotten the author but will come back to you and let you know.
As for now I,m gona... (read in full...)
Why has our sex life almost dwindled to nothing? I do all the work and my boyfriend just lies there waiting for oral sex...
Q. Hiya Everyone! :oP I've been in my relationship for 2 years now. I don't understand how my sex life with my boyfriend has gone from really physical to almost nothing? It feels as though I am always instigating it. Then when he turns me down wh...
A. 11 August 2005: Baby I think you are a great woman from your description. You know what, people don't realise the importance of what they have until they loss it. I've been in a long distance relationship for over five years now because of my education which I'll ... (read in full...)
His reaction to my assault was unsypathetic and hurt me a lot. Should I give him another chance?
Q. Hi, I feel that my question somewhat difficult to answer and I know the answer ultimately has to from me but I think that it'd really help to get a couple of alternative perspectives on the matter. I have recently returned from working abroad. ...
A. 8 August 2005: First I must say I'm so sorry for such a bad experience. I must tell you that this guy really loves you and the impact that this bad news brought to him was a thunderous blow which resulted in a state of confusion and actually not knowing what to ... (read in full...)
We were having problems and he accepted a date from a client...
Q. My boyfriend and I have been going through lots of problems in the last month. We have been together almost 7 months now. In the last 4 days everything have improved immensley. He has started to act like himself again ie. wanting sex, giving me ...
A. 8 August 2005: I believe people learn from mistakes and from this situation the young man has learnt from his mistake. If I'm not wrong, there is a point you are telling me that he never enjoyed every single moment of the date because his mind was with you. If I ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend found out that I cheated and I hate myself for what I've done...
Q. Heya, I really need some advice on saving my relationship. I stupidly cheated on my boyfriend and got pregnant, altho I convinced myself it was my boyfriend's, I couldn't be 100% sure. Since we had only been together 6 months and I'm a student, m...
A. 8 August 2005: It is easy said than done that we should forgive and forget. I was avictim of the same situation when my girlfriend cheated on me with her former boyfriend and she got pregnant. She did not terminate the pregnancy and the baby is now abot 2 years ... (read in full...)
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