How can I get completely over my ex?
Q. It's been 2 years since we broke up and i can't get over him.. We were together for almost 2 years.. He was my first love,my first long,serious relationship,he was everything to me,we loved each other,we went abroad to study together,we were there ...
A. 19 March 2012: Hello,
I felt the same way after my first love. He only used me for convienence and sex but I always thought he loved me. It took me 2 1/2 years to get over him completely. I found that the reason why was because I was constantly checking up on hi... (read in full...)
Boyfriend lied and the trust is gone
Q. So my boyfriend lied to me and now the trust is gone. Long story short, last friday he went out with his friends and I went out with mine and he phoned me afterwards (after I phoned him to say goodnight) to say he had a good night at a local pub. ...
A. 30 January 2011: Thanks for the comments back. I just wanted to add that I dont control him, he goes out with his friends ALOT, plays sports, etc. and I was out with my friends. There was no problem. I just phoned him to say goodnight. Also, my problem with the... (read in full...)
We've been working on our relationship but he still calls the woman he cheated with
Q. I need some much needed advice. I have been with my fiance' for 9 yrs now and engaged for 4yrs. We planned a trip to get married in florida in 2006. He is my rock, best friend, lover and I feel I am the same to him. About 3 weeks before we were to ...
A. 7 March 2010: It seems that he is not going to give her up. He is not taking your relationship seriously. Move on before you're actually married to him and have more problems to deal with. Good luck!... (read in full...)
I need your opinion guys... is he playing with me?
Q. Ok,so there's this guy and he is my 'friend'. About a month ago we were talking and i had the guts to tell him i like him. He told me he likes me back but i didn't believe him..i still don't. He has a reputation of been a liar and a player. We are ...
A. 15 February 2009: I know a guy like this. They LOVE the chase. Just like that guy, he liked to touch girls inappropriately. He also has more girl friends than guy friends and I later found out that he is a player. Im sorry to say, but those type are just trouble and ... (read in full...)
Depressed and confused, did she mean more?
Q. Did she mean more? This guy I've liked for a while, got into a relationship over the summer with a girl who he hung out with, texted constantly, made presents for her and planned to fly to see her on his spring break. However, he flirted with oth...
A. 17 December 2008: No, I didnt know he was a player from the beginning at all. Its the stories that recently came out that Im seeing it... (read in full...)
Does anyone understand why he is now ignoring me?
Q. I need a good, clear, understandable explanation to this puzzling problem Why would a guy I've had a past with and admitted before that he liked me, text me (sometimes 5 times a day), talk to me online, tell me about his life and what he's doing,...
A. 15 December 2008: By the way, Im not a rebound because we even talked during his 4 week relationship which everyone knew he was going to cheat anyways. thats in the past though and shouldnt affect why he's very recently given me the cold shoulder... (read in full...)
I've never had a date or a boyfriend, is there something wrong with me?
Q. Hi I'm a 25 year old female and I've never been on a date or Had a boyfriend. I feel like there's something wrong with me, is there?? Help would be good, as I feel alone in this problem....
A. 19 November 2008: Hi, no, there is nothing wrong with you. Im almost 21 and I've never been in a relationship either. I just look at it as though Im waiting for the right guy to come around who will make me smile and want to wake up every morning rather then settling ... (read in full...)
How do I ask a guy something without being pushy?
Q. I dont know how to talk to this guy. Any suggestions? He's been distant recently. We did have a past and I found out he's a player and I only want to be friends, but he will randomly ignore me then talk to me. Lately, he's ignored all my texts and...
A. 2 November 2008: I understand, I wasnt sure, I had an idea that he is a jerk and likes to play people. He's like a chameleon in the fact that he acts how other people WANT him to act, but I guess, he just really doesnt care what I think anymore. Thank you for your ... (read in full...)
What to do after a one night drunken fling?
Q. Me and this guy goes to university together, he is in some of my classes, and recently we got closer. we been flirting and stuff, and one time we went clubbing together and we kissed and spent the night together, but we didnt do anything else apart ...
A. 24 October 2008: I know you might not like to hear this, but it sounds like he is using you for attention. The flirting, kissing, texting sounds like he wants someone there, but with no strings attached, you know what i mean? It sounds like he wants a good time from ... (read in full...)
I am so angry and frustated about being ignored by someone I genuinly care about.
Q. I am so angry and frustated about being ignored by someone I genuinly care about. They ignore my calls, ignore my text messages. I sent them an email to tell them how I was feeling which they responded to. They said they would be back in touch soon ...
A. 23 October 2008: Hi,
I completely understand where you are coming from because I am in the same situation right now. Except, this guy Im having trouble talking to has a past with me. Just like you, he decides to randomly ignore me or talk to me when he wish... (read in full...)
If a college girl spends nights nude in bed with her boyfriend, and gives him handjobs, but no sex, would she be thought of as a slut?
Q. If a college girl spends nights nude in bed with her boyfriend, and gives him handjobs, but no sex, would she be thought of as a slut?...
A. 5 October 2008: No, its her boyfriend, not a multitude of guys and if its not sex, like you claim, i would not say she's a slut, no... (read in full...)
There was no connection on our first date! What now?
Q. well as i sayed earlier, i was on that date with this girl, well it was realy is for me, we stayed in a cool place, and then we walked and talked for like 5 hours, but she was always smiling, and laughing, but the problem is she never leted me close ...
A. 27 September 2008: Are you saying you or her didnt have any feelings on the first date? If I were you, I would go out again and just get to know her a bit more, maybe she was shy or didnt want to come on too strong. She how things go and when you do get to kiss her, ... (read in full...)
There was no connection on our first date! What now?
Q. well as i sayed earlier, i was on that date with this girl, well it was realy is for me, we stayed in a cool place, and then we walked and talked for like 5 hours, but she was always smiling, and laughing, but the problem is she never leted me close ...
A. 27 September 2008: Did you feel a connection or are you saying she didnt? If you felt one, I would consider going out with her again and see how things go, dont give up yet. Maybe she was shy, maybe she didnt want to come on too strong or wants to take things slow. Go ... (read in full...)
We broke up a month ago and finding out he may be in a new relationship hurts me so much. What can I do to stop this?
Q. Dear cupid, My ex boyfriend and I have been broken up for about one month. He basically dumped me because he said we were having problems. We were together for four years. Now I sometimes go on his myspace page ... I guess because I really miss hi...
A. 10 September 2008: Sounds like he's on a rebound relationship. You cant get into another relationship that fast after such a long commitment and be serious about it in my opinion. From my experience, I know it may be really hard, but cut yourself off from him com... (read in full...)
I like my best friend but he does not feel the same, how can I get over him?
Q. I need help. There is this boy who is my best friend and I’ve always liked him but the last couple of weeks we hooked up but he doesn’t feel the same. I cant get him out of my head but i know it can never be but its absolutely killing me!!! He ...
A. 28 June 2008: Im going through the same thing
Just keep telling yourself that something better will come along..that this isn't meant to be and there will be a guy who will love every bit of you
If he cant see that, then he doesnt deserve you.
Other tha... (read in full...)
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