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Is it considered cheating if she kissed another girl?

Q.   Ive beeen dating this girl for over a year and we talk about getting married.So its serious.I know I love her.But something bad happened and it really has hurt our relatoinship. The other night we was drinking with a few friends and she kissed a...

A.   2 September 2008: If this was the first time, I would have agreed with Kayluh's advice but its not - she's done it before and 'promised' she wouldn't do it again and then done it again! This says to me that either she is bi and wants something that she can only get ... (read in full...)

My much younger wife doesn't want sex? What should I do?

Q.   Dear cupid am a frustrated 63 year old male.the reason is my wife who is much younger than I is no longer interested in sex.She thinks that sex is unsanitary ,this wasn't a problem when we first met.I am beginning to adapt to an inferiorty ...

A.   29 August 2008: The message you sent me has not been repeated on here so I won't disclose the age should you mean for it to be kept private. However, I do not consider her to be that much younger than you. It may be possible that your wife's body is changing... (read in full...)

My wife left me, but now she wants to try again. I am torn between giving it another shot with her and this new girl I am nuts for.

Q.   This is long so I appreciate anyone who reads it. I am 47 and married with a 7 year old son. I work as a senior manager and have lots of people who work for me. About a year ago a 24 year old came to work with the company, I'll call her T. She is ...

A.   29 August 2008: Your wife left you. Please don't give her another chance to do it again. Whether you think you have a future with T or not you should remember that your wife lied to you and cheated over you. She made a decision to leave you and she went. If she ... (read in full...)

She's my friend's sister, how can I tell if she likes me back?

Q.   i like my best friend's sister but she's 4 years younger than me how can i tell if she likes me back ...

A.   29 August 2008: So I'm guessing she's aged 9-11? Well, her hormones may not have kicked in yet and she may have no interest in boys (in the way you like her) yet. And if I were you I'd give some thought to what her parents may think about it too. If you really want ... (read in full...)

Would I loose weight if I do this?

Q.   heyx i was just wonderin would i lose weight if i burn evrythin i eat. for example, any meal i eat, like 400 cals, i walk for an hour and burn that 400 would i lose weight by doin that or not? I eat alot, but exersise alot too so if i eat li...

A.   29 August 2008: Your body uses lots of calories each day just doing its normal basic functions. Physical exercise (for the purpose of exercising) could be seen as a sort of exercise 'supplement' really, like extra exercise to burn off the excess calories you have ... (read in full...)

I've been having pains near my stomach and it's starting to worry me.

Q.   hi, for the past couple of days, i have been having pains in my stomouch near the my hip bone when i eat it onli feels like a pin pocking me, but im gettin worried, because my friend said it could be my appendix? please could be able to tell me what ...

A.   29 August 2008: Go see your GP. They will be able to give you a much better answer than anyone on here. It may be nothing or it may be something but its better you find out sooner than later.... (read in full...)

He can't seem to decide if I should move in and I'm tired of waiting!

Q.   Need your opinion. My bf and I had been on a long distance relationship for about 4 years. We have talked about moving in together, but it does not seem to happens for several reasons. On May we were going to buy a place, but the deal did not go t...

A.   29 August 2008: I can understand why he is worried and lots of people could easily feel the same way - especially guys. But really how long are you going to wait to decide whether you are compatible or not? We're not talking about marriage yet - just see if you can ... (read in full...)

My much younger wife doesn't want sex? What should I do?

Q.   Dear cupid am a frustrated 63 year old male.the reason is my wife who is much younger than I is no longer interested in sex.She thinks that sex is unsanitary ,this wasn't a problem when we first met.I am beginning to adapt to an inferiorty ...

A.   29 August 2008: You don't really give us many details. How old is your wife? 20s 30s 40s? How long have you been together? How long were you having sex before she decided it was unsanitary? From the face of it - and I could be well off the mark here because you ... (read in full...)

I am attracted to my aunt and I want to have sex with her! What do you think?

Q.   My aunt is 42 and she's hot and very beautiful. We have a good relationship. We have never been totally alone, but we talk all the time when we see each other. I have noticed 2 times when she looks at me, she looks at me with a sexy-look, and w...

A.   27 August 2008: Go to the bathroom or your bedroom and think about her as much as you like but keep it between yourself and your hand. Its just a crush and in a few months you'll be glad you didn't move on it.... (read in full...)

My wife had a boob job, after I said no. I am leaving her!

Q.   My wife went and had a boob job and I find it absolutely disgusting. Once she had small, pretty breasts and I loved them just the way they were. she kept asking me if she should get them "done" and I told her no, not only no but, H--L NO!!!!! I ...

A.   27 August 2008: There are a lot of people on here saying you are shallow but let's face it, you cannot have a fulfilling sexual relationship with someone if there is something about them that turns you off. You are not shallow. If my girlfriend got a big tattoo ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend has a porn addiction. He does't seem to find me sexually attractive.

Q.   I have a problem and I really don't even know what to think of it anymore. I've been with my boyfriend for over a year now. He's kind, intelligent, gentle, loving, and generally amazing to me. The only problem is that he has a porn addiction. He's ...

A.   27 August 2008: Hi, I have a porn addiction and it has ruined several of my previous relationships. It does not mean he does not love you at all and it is very doubtful that he would prefer any of those women in skimpy clothes that you worry about either. He would ... (read in full...)

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