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Five years together. Am I just staying with him because I'm scared to be alone? Or are my doubts due to the other guy's crush on me?

Q.   Hi, it's been a while. I have been with the same guy for going on five years now... In those five years we have split up (once) for a period of about three months. We have been back together since last October, so for about a year now... That b...

A.   19 December 2015: Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it, and you were absolutely right. I love my boyfriend a lot... And there was a reason I went back. I'm glad I'm still with him. :)... (read in full...)

What's your opinion about "Nice Guys Finish Last?"

Q.   Hey there dearcupid girls. Hope your having a great time right now and being prepared for the holidays. Anyway, I just have one question. Why is it that like I'm treating girls so nice that they won't be my girlfriend or like me more then just ...

A.   17 December 2012: I think that most of the time, nice guys finish last because nice guys almost always seem to be too shy to put themselves in front of the girl and straight-up say "I can treat you well, we work well with each other, let's give it a shot." Girls admi... (read in full...)

Am I losing my libido?

Q.   Hi guys! It's me, again. That boyfriend that I've been talking about? Yeah, we've been together for over a year now, (hurrah, huzzah, love conquers all!) and I couldn't be happier with him. I do have a little problem, though. Recently, my li...

A.   17 December 2012: Oh, yes! He's extremely attentive to me when we do have sex. We communicate very well with each other in bed. He never pushes me beyond my limits and is deeply invested in our mutual satisfaction. I do feel loved and I do feel I am important as well ... (read in full...)

She doesn't feel the same - What do I do?

Q.   Hi, There's this girl I really like and she doesn't feel the same way what should I do?...

A.   17 December 2012: Brian, If there is anything I've learned about love and about crushes or any of the lot- it's that the second you think you can't live without this 'one' person- someone else could catch your eye. This girl may not return the feelings you... (read in full...)

Huge issue with boyfriend! How can I solve it?

Q.   I'm kinda stuck here... I don't really know what to do or say but first point... I don't want to be here bitching about my boyfriend's problems... I will expose his issues and mine as well... We are going through a rough path... I'm 18 and he's 17....

A.   17 December 2012: Ultimately, you have to do what makes you happy. Tell him, and be honest- that you are happy with who you have become and that you aren't a fifteen year-old girl anymore. You've matured and grown and learned from those experiences and it would be ... (read in full...)

Everything is not Ok. Never had a relationship. Do I need to feel better about me first? Or would the right partner make a difference?

Q.   I know you're not supposed to rely on other people for happiness but I feel like finding that one guy who understands me and clicks with me will help me get out of the slump I've been in for the past years now. It's really hard being gay,clos...

A.   16 December 2012: It sounds like you're really down on yourself! Self-esteem is an extremely difficult issue to manage and I understand that the way you view yourself can impact the way you look at your potential for romance in the future. I still have some ... (read in full...)

Am I losing my libido?

Q.   Hi guys! It's me, again. That boyfriend that I've been talking about? Yeah, we've been together for over a year now, (hurrah, huzzah, love conquers all!) and I couldn't be happier with him. I do have a little problem, though. Recently, my li...

A.   16 December 2012: I was on a birth control injection called Depo-Provera every three months these past three months- but after several nights of heat flashes, nausea and several other side effects, I decided to discontinue my prescription. I didn't think that a drop ... (read in full...)

How do I get my Bf to respect my opinions? And stop him telling unfunny jokes?

Q.   Hi, thanks for taking your time to read this! So, I've been with my current boyfriend for a little over seven months now, and overall; he makes me very happy. We click very well with each other and we have a lot of similar interests. Th...

A.   12 May 2012: Thank you all so much for your help! Especially person12345, I really loved reading the article, it helped me understand a lot more about myself and about the society I'm living in.... (read in full...)

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