Let him go and hope for his return or tell him how I feel and ask him to stay and chance ruining our remaining time or just let go?
Q. My problem is, I am seeing a guy, let's call him 'A', and he is moving to France (both he and I live in London at the moment). I met him through a previous boyfriend of mine, 'C', who I dated for several months, and this prevented me and...
A. 5 November 2009: Hi Lucy, I think that you should tell him how you feel, but because it is a new relationship, I think you are right in not asking him to stay. The bright side is that the move could be for less than a year. What I would do is make sure h... (read in full...)
Why do I feel a sense of rejection with her?
Q. Hi here's my problem -- I feel sick and upset even thinking about the fact that other men have slept with my girlfriend. She is 18 and I am 20. I fell deeply in love with her the day that I met her two years ago, but it took her 5 months to feel t...
A. 1 November 2009: I really understand. I think anytime your partner is significantly more experienced then you, it can be a little off setting. You feel like your are insignificant without rational reason, and I think this is a normal response.
However, don't ge... (read in full...)
Dating problems: covered in freckles, bi, and overweight!
Q. ok well I am 18 and I am having trouble dating I am bi and there are no girls or guys looking at me to date is there something wrong with me. I am a little over weight and covered in freckles but no one seems to like me...
A. 1 November 2009: Don't worry, I am sure it is not you. I know how you feel, I am 24 and I haven't ever had a steady boyfriend. I ask a lot of the same questions that you do, "why doesn't anyone want to commit to me?", "why are the guys I like interested in me?" I ... (read in full...)
Will he ever do anything?
Q. Men are so difficult to understand! Iv been trying to hint to this guy i like for a while now- i even tried talking to other people on a night out to make it look like i could be more than a shy girl around him. This worked well and had him coming ...
A. 17 October 2009: If he is giving out cold vibes then maybe you should move on. However, you said that he tried to touch your leg so I am guessing he likes you but is very unsure of himself. Your in a hard place because you are debating what you should or should... (read in full...)
Virgin having trouble getting it up
Q. Im a 19 year old virgin and i have went to have sex with girls recently and on both occasions my penis has failed to erect. On both occasions i had been drinking and i have no problem with getting erections otherwise. i also think i need to relax ...
A. 17 October 2009: Well, it is commonly known that alcohol and the male libido don't usually mix. Some guys don't have an issue, where others like you do. For next time I would suggest no more than one drink or nothing at all.
Also, you are right in your own asse... (read in full...)
Will he ever do anything?
Q. Men are so difficult to understand! Iv been trying to hint to this guy i like for a while now- i even tried talking to other people on a night out to make it look like i could be more than a shy girl around him. This worked well and had him coming ...
A. 17 October 2009: He could be really nervous. Imagine him saying to himself, "Oh my God...I really want to kiss her. Wait, should I? What if it is too soon? Wait, maybe just touch her leg...then maybe she will do something..."
I know it sounds funny but guys... (read in full...)
Why has my husband stopped being affectionate with me?
Q. I wonder why my husband stopped being affectionate with me. He never looks at me,or touching me. He also losing his erections,but no medical problems. I asked him why is that, but he says ,he loves me,and I have no reason to worry. But I do ...
A. 17 October 2009: If your husband is not able to have or maintain an erection it is considered a medical problem and you should go see your doctor. But men go through different points in their lives just like woman do. Is he under a lot of stress? Has he had any ... (read in full...)
Should I leave this job? I'm burned out.
Q. I thank all who answer here. I am working in a high burnout field and and have been for a long time. lately I have been feeling near burn out as well. Trouble is, lately I have had co workers snapping at me as well and I do not know how much ...
A. 17 October 2009: It sounds like there are a lot of emotions tied to your current job. But quitting a job can't just be emotional, you have to think about the financial consequences. I would definitely recommend looking for a different job. If you find something ... (read in full...)
What is sexual tension?
Q. What is sexual tension? Is it a feeling, that you have with someone and cannot stay away from them? I would like to know......
A. 17 October 2009: Yes, that is part of it. However, tension is not such a good thing when it is not released. If it is not released (acted upon) the tension grows until one of the people reaches a breaking point and either decides to remove his/herself from the ... (read in full...)
Should I ignore her or keep being friendly?
Q. hello, i want to ask about something about a girl in my class well i started my class month and a half ago then there was a girl i dunno i just felt it was good from both inside and outside then we became friends and through that time s...
A. 14 October 2009: It sounds like there are a lot of mixed messages between you. If you want to get some clarity just ask her out to do something. Her response will give you a good indication if she has romantic feelings for you, or if she thinks of you just as a ... (read in full...)
Never been kissed!
Q. My 13 year old friend hasn't had her first kiss yet, but all of her other friends have. She thinks there's something wrong with her. I want to help her but I dont know wat to say to help her understand its okay and that her time will come. When I ...
A. 14 October 2009: I remember being that age and dying to have someone I liked kiss me. No matter what you tell her she will probably continue to compare herself to all the other friends and people she knows that are kissing and cuddling. You can be supportive an... (read in full...)
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