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Should I ignore her or keep being friendly?

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Question - (13 October 2009) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 October 2009)
A male Sweden age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hello,

i want to ask about something about a girl in my class

well i started my class month and a half ago then there was a girl i dunno i just felt it was good from both inside and outside

then we became friends and through that time she hits me sometimes when like she passes beside me or say hi to me when i come to school infront of all other classmates and the other girls dont do that usually,

she then said to me once that i dont like the class mates and they are not so opened like you.

anyway we became friends and i was right, she is so good and has a great personality which i like in girls

so someday we go in the same buss to the city and we had a lot of talk and we hugged each other and once we were sitting beside each other her body was like all touched my body even her legs! and i didnt start it

once i told her that u look pretty then she began to come to school more and more beautiful! wearing stuff she never wore before in the begining of school

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but i didn't even tell her anything like i like you cuz im not sure yet and i know her for only 1 month and a half

when i became a friend and started to giver her attention she became mysterious and changed a bit its like she is not like before i must start to say hi and she wont say bye unless i say it

once i told her why did u change she said im just tired this week?

its like she is saying i gave u attention and its ur turn to show me that!

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i dunno should i ignore her and do the same or keep friendly with her?? and then see how its going to happen?

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A female reader, Blackbird86 United States +, writes (14 October 2009):

It sounds like there are a lot of mixed messages between you. If you want to get some clarity just ask her out to do something. Her response will give you a good indication if she has romantic feelings for you, or if she thinks of you just as a friend and doesn't wish to get too familiar with you.

Ask her to a cafe for a drink or meal after class one day or whenever your not in class. See what she says. If she says no, then you will have your answer. And, if she does say no, realize it is not the end of the world...it is just one girl and she is not right for you anyways.

Be brave and good luck!

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