She's pushing but it seems too soon
Q. Hi, I feel like my girlfriend is trying to inadvertently pressure me into proposing to her on her 21st birthday. Her b'day is at end of June and she has hinted so many times at me proposing eg. showing me ring a she likes and talking about it. ...
A. 13 May 2017: From what I am getting, I think she just wants to see that you are completely committed to her. This is the ultimate test here she is putting you through. Have you done everything in your power to prove that you'll always be with her? Are you doi... (read in full...)
What lessons must I learn to love myself?
Q. I just want to know how a young girl is supposed to love herself in a world where ideal beauty standards are plastered all throughout television, all different genres of music, and even in our family and friends through their language. How am I ...
A. 13 May 2017: It's a tough question, but it's also a simple answer. Firstly, Just do not try and care what everyone thinks of you. Secondly don't let the marketing industry ruin what you think of yourself either. That's all there is to it. . . . . I'll ... (read in full...)
Are there any ways of telling for certain whether he's into me or not?
Q. There's this boy that I really like from college, and I'm a bit confused because he exhibits ALL the signs of being into me in person but doesn't message me that often. I can't tell if it's because exams are coming up and he needs A*s for uni, ...
A. 13 May 2017: Two weeks? Well, you're going to have to get his attention somehow. If you don't, he'll be gone and it'll too late. Generally though, the only way I would say you can tell if a guy likes you is how much time is he willing to spend with you. The mo... (read in full...)
I obsess over him too much. What can I do to rid myself of dating anxiety?
Q. I obsess over him too much. I have a terrible form of dating anxiety and even though I do look good, I never dated before because of fear. A few months ago I met a guy and dated him for a short period of time. He was my first everything. We par...
A. 13 May 2017: Lovely, you've created yourself an anchor and it's getting really heavy in your lifeboat (and heavier by the minute). No one else is there to help you cut the anchor so you're going to have to cut it yourself before you sink into the abyss of your ... (read in full...)
I'm fixated on having a boyfriend
Q. I am 15, i have had boyfriends but not proper relationships. I am desperate for a boyfriend. It is on my mind all the time. I don't know any lads my age who would want to date me. I fall in love too easily and always think about boys I don't know ...
A. 11 May 2017: Generally, I like to play Devil's Advocate on a handful of advice to argue other aunts, but trust me... this is not one of those times I am going to completely do so. Boys around your age aren't mature enough to stay committed to you... and t... (read in full...)
What is considered the standard in talking to a girl in this modern day? Daily or...?
Q. I'm kinda new to dating after being out of it for the last 6-7 years... and I've been communicating to this one girl for the last 4 years as a friend. I'm trying to build our friendship into a relationship at someday soon(ish), and as of lately ...
A. 10 May 2017: Well, I think your all missing the real question I am trying to ask. Let's just say for argument's sake the information of 4 years of communication between each other IS IRRELEVANT. Let's just say HYPOTHETICALLY, we've only been talking for abou... (read in full...)
How do I converse with my crush? I'm shy. Should I try, or just let it go?
Q. So i have a crush on this boy at my school, he's in the same year as i am, but I've never talked to him, not like a real conversation. I'm very shy, and also his friends are like not the same group of people as my friends. I'm afraid that if i ta...
A. 10 May 2017: Well, back when I was in school, before we had technology and Facebook Messenger, we would use paper and pencils to write and pass notes between each other. We were probably the last year of students who had to hand-write our reports, so paper was ... (read in full...)
After 4 years, does she like me enough to go on a date with me?
Q. I've been talking to a girl for the last 4 years on and off and we have been friends. For the last 3 and a half years, we've messaged for something like 2 months on, and 4 months off. Just last August, we started messaging back and forth at least ...
A. 7 May 2017: Specifically, what more on details can I provide you to make it an easier question to answer?... (read in full...)
Really like this guy, but if he did like me wouldn't he really want to see me?
Q. hello, I have been speaking to this guy for nearly 4 years on and off. we have always said we care for each other and have a natural connection but haven't done anything about it due to my travelling and uni and his work. We text all day everyday...
A. 6 May 2017: I would argue AGAINST Honeypie's answer and say that if you both wanted to see each other, you would find a way to make time for each other. 4 years and not a lot has happened may seem like bad news bears... but if he's still single, it's not quite ... (read in full...)
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