Why cant I look him in the eyes?
Q. Why cant I look him in the eyes? There's a guy at school who always tries to catch my eye. I can always feel him watching me from across the room and stuff, if I'm honest it scares me stiff even though I like it.He does things like sitting clo...
A. 17 October 2010: There is nothing wrong with you darlin, This is simply an "intense emotional interaction". Most people call it Lust some go on to call it Love and some simply call it infatuation.
You will get used to feeling like it find ways of dealing with it.... (read in full...)
I refuse to be with someone who would be into that stuff!
Q. Ok so im dating a guy for about 3 months now. I moved with him and everythng seems fine. Except one thing. We got a computer from his friend and downloaded limewire. A few times i caught him downloading porn. I didnt make a deal about it. But then ...
A. 17 October 2010:
There is a very rare possibility that he picked up a web site what had no porn on it at all but got your computer to link to lots of child porn sites.
I'm an IT man in my day job and its a pain in the arse.
Most new web browsers hav... (read in full...)
He said I'm way to young for him at the moment... what do I do?
Q. hey, im 14 and i met this boy, ive known him for around a year now, and everday i just become more and more in love with him, he likes me to and hes told me that im way to young at the moment. what do i do, the age difference is 5 years....
A. 17 October 2010: Wait for him until you are old enough or at least legal, the poor bloke could go to jail if you did anything.
If you care that much for him, keep being friends until you are old enough and see how you and he fells then.... (read in full...)
What can we do about his jealousy problems stemming from his past relationships?
Q. My boyfriend's marriage ended due to his wife cheating. His next 2 girlfriends also cheated on him. Now in our relationship, I can not go out with my friends or visit my son who works as a bartender without it starting verbal fights. If I look too ...
A. 17 October 2010: I agree with person12345, I was in the same situation ie being controlled and that marriage ended.
If you don't nip it in the bud, it will cripple you and the more acceptance you give the more he may take, until there is nothing left of you.
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Wanted men's opinion... Is a silk or woollen scarf a good gift for men?
Q. Men... What do you think? Is a scarf especially a silk or a woollen scarf a good gift for a man?...
A. 17 October 2010: Depends on the man, if he is down and dirty action man then I would think a woolen scarf, if he is more reserved well groomed and likes wearing suits the silk.
you should be able to tell by the type of clothes he wears .. ie just like a woman, w... (read in full...)
Am I really the fool they want me to think I am?
Q. I'm feeling pretty crappy these days after 11 years of marriage. Both sides of our family insist on pointing out what a tramp my wife was as a teen and the things she did in bed with her ex HB. He apparently made things known. I knew a lot about my ...
A. 14 October 2010: Ask yourself this, Do you love her, is she kind to you and your kids.
What matters is how your relationship works for you both, if you have felt secure and loved in it.
rather than ask yourself have I been a fool as they say I have, ask yourse... (read in full...)
My lovely little ball of stress takes out her stress on me!
Q. Hello, I am currently 19 and I have been with my girlfriend for 2 years. I have noticed she is an extremely stressed out person. Everything seems so hard for her to do because it usually requires her to complain a little or anger her. As our ...
A. 14 October 2010: A question,
Do you find you are spending all your time, energy and thought on her.
That you are begining to lose who you are, your not going out anymore etc.
These ocurrances of 'Stress' are increasing
She is... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is possessive and controlling!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year and we got engaged when we were together 7 months. Everything was fine at first, we had fun and we did lots of things together. We also got on well with each others families. About 2 months after we ...
A. 14 October 2010: You have definately made the right choice.
Sending the letter is the perfect starting point, send it registered mail so that you know he has recieved it.
As for the harrassment that may come and I'm sorry to say it quite probably will, y... (read in full...)
How do I stop this crazy crush?
Q. I need help!! I've been married for 8 yrs, he has a younger brother that doesn't really get along w/his own family so when I do get to see him he never speaks to anyone. He usually comes home, showers and leaves, I usually love when I get attention ...
A. 14 October 2010: you need to some how change the 'Tag' you have for him, so rather than being the "ultimate sex god" to being a bad taste, an image that makes you feel sick, a thought that makes him repugnant to you.
Basically its self brain washing, very sim... (read in full...)
I don't understand how he can say he was hurt just because I didn't meet up that night...
Q. Recently i was talking to a male friend, who used to kind of be a FWB a while back. He has a girlfriend now. He asked if i wanted to meet up for a drink a few weeks before and i said i would if i was free. That was 2 weeks ago and i didn't hear ...
A. 13 October 2010:
Ignore him, he's playing emotional minds with you.
He wants you to do something for him and thats it. he will say anything to get you to do as he wants. and quite frankly I would be somewhat concerned as to his intentions after you got up there... (read in full...)
I want to enjoy a weekend away without worrying about the potential actions of an abusive ex.
Q. I broke up with a guy back in January after being together for about a year. He was mentally, emotionally and verbally abusive towards me, but I loved him a great deal and it took me a long time to get over him. I can honestly say now that I am ...
A. 13 October 2010: I really feel for your situation, my expereince of my ex is that I have taken it to the police.
You need a safe zone were you can go whilst on holiday and I', not talking about a physical location but one for your friends that you can confide ... (read in full...)
Why do teenage boys go for the popular girls???
Q. Why do teenage guys always go for the popular girls??? Does no one realize how bad it makes every other girls feel cause they always come in second place to the girls who make us feel unattractive. Why does this happen??? ...
A. 13 October 2010: I think firstly, they do not do it on purpose.
Sexual attraction is a very complex thing. I think you will find that the guys that are attracked to you, are not the guys you are after.
So my question to you would be, what do you see in these... (read in full...)
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