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I'm back in contact with my ex and having feelings for him again

Q.   my ex and i have been back in contact for about 2 months now and i'm starting to have feelings for him again and i'm pretty sure he does aswell what should i do? any help/advice would be great...

A.   3 July 2007: i reckon if you should both think and maybe give it another try if you still have feelings for eachother but think aswell why you finished in the first place ... (read in full...)

The long distance thing is wrecking me

Q.   My bf and I had a long distance relationship for 2 years, but we spent one whole year together. Now, he went away again and we are having this long distance relationship again for the past month. We both agreed that i will be moving in with him ...

A.   3 July 2007: hey i think that if you love each other then it doesnt matter how far apart you are im in love with a lad at the moment and i dont get to see him even once a month but hes on the other end of the phone so if you are feeling needy or want to talk to ... (read in full...)

Update: I've caught out my boyfriend who was carrying condoms in his case

Q.   I posted a question already about my boyfriend who was carrying condoms in his travel case and I decided to give him the benefit of the doubt, play the waiting game and keep an eye on him. Well he was away at a corporate games weekend with his work ...

A.   3 July 2007: i think you should really speak to your boyfriend about this as it seems he isnt telling you the truth and you need to be honest with eachother in a relationship ... (read in full...)

I'm in love with a girl I've known a long time but I don't want to hurt my girlfriend

Q.   Hello, I Am in a realationship with my girlfriend for about a year now and i am in love with another girl i have know for over 13 years it is really making me confused i don't want to hurt my girlfriend any suggestions would be amazing thanks in ...

A.   3 July 2007: i think if your unhappy with your girlfriend then its best you let her know how your feeling its crap when you love someone else hope this helpx ... (read in full...)

Is she checking me out?

Q.   she at times stares, glances, or looks down at me......... somtimes when i'm standing with my friends or by myself or if i'm walking towards her or just standing across from her when she talks to me or i talk to her she looks down at my crotch and...

A.   3 July 2007: well then i think you should question her she may like you and its best you know if its making you feel indifferent hope this helps this time lol x... (read in full...)

He is still on about his ex...does he love me?

Q.   Hi, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years and we have two children together. He is a few years older than me and has two children from a past relationship, which he was in for 11 years. They broke up and a couple of years later we met. Ever s...

A.   1 July 2007: you should question him because buy the sounds of it hes playing back into her hands and it seems as though she wants to turn him against you and the kids whatever you do dont let this happen hope this helps from beck... (read in full...)

I really like him and we drunkenly fooled around; then he did the same with another girl

Q.   Please help me, i'm really confused. A couple of weeks ago, i was very drunk and at my best friends 15th, me and a very close friend got very drunk and ended upstairs and doing everything but sex. I do really like him, because doing that much ...

A.   1 July 2007: i think you should tell him really how much u like him as if you dont its just going to rip u up inside. he must have feelings for u if he did that with u he probley only went with that other girl coz u didnt tell im how u felt about him ,he probley ... (read in full...)

I feel stuck in the middle

Q.   Whilst on a weekend away with my friends, we met up with some of her other friends, one of which(lets call him Andy) admitted to my other friend (Lucy) that that he fancied me, I liked him too, and we french kissed on the Saturday night. However, my ...

A.   1 July 2007: i think you should tell andy how u feel about him and that how hurt you are and explain how sarah has got a boyfriend and shes cheating on him with andy so wa will she do if she got with andy cheat on him aswell, wereas you love him and u wouldnt do ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is wrongly convinced I fancy his mates

Q.   Ive been with my boyfriend for 18months, everytime i think our relationship is good he accuses me of fancying his mates, I get on well with people and i think it's good that i can chat to his friends but he always thinks i fancy them. When we go out ...

A.   1 July 2007: i reckon that he is being a bit possesive and if this carries on you should tell him that if he doesnt trust u maybe you should cool things for a bit you cant go on in a relationship when he doesnt trust you hun hope this helps lv beck x... (read in full...)

Is she checking me out?

Q.   she at times stares, glances, or looks down at me......... somtimes when i'm standing with my friends or by myself or if i'm walking towards her or just standing across from her when she talks to me or i talk to her she looks down at my crotch and...

A.   1 July 2007: hey i think that its flirtyness between the both of you i reckon that if you like her then start talking to her and maybe it can build into someting hope this helps ya x... (read in full...)

He says he had fun but doesn't want to date me; how can I win him over?

Q.   Last night i spent them most amazing night of my life with a guy ive liked for ages now. It was just like we were going out (although we were both drinking and he said he probs wont remember it in the morning) however in the morning he woke up and ...

A.   1 July 2007: hiya i think you should confront him and tell him it was th best night of your life and how much you like him and see what he says maybe he likes you but hes just to scared to say just see what happens when you say that hope it helps from beck... (read in full...)

He said he loved me then became distant

Q.   i have been in a sexual relationship with a male friend for approx two years after i moved from our hometown he told me he loved me, but after this incident i he has been very distant with me. did he mean it when he said he loved me?...

A.   1 July 2007: hey hun i think you should ask him again and if he means it because you need to know for peace of mind you need to know why he is being distant maybe he is just waiting for your response or maybe he is scared to say anything else incase he looses y... (read in full...)

I got a phone call from my ex's friend; I don't know what's going on

Q.   My bf finished things about 6 months ago, it had been a long distance relationship for 2 years. He really didn't give me a proper reason for the split and he did it by text. Anyway there have been times where I felt upset and on one occassion I ...

A.   1 July 2007: hey hun i think your ex is being an idiot with you hun ive been through this too aswell so you are not on your own if lads see you spill your emotions too much they will tend to take advantage, what you need to do is move on and find yourself so... (read in full...)

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