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writes:My bf and I had a long distance relationship for 2 years, but we spent one whole year together. Now, he went away again and we are having this long distance relationship again for the past month. We both agreed that i will be moving in with him next year, since this year is going to be very busy for him and I also need to make arrangement for my moving. However, this long distance relationship is killing me...I can't stand the fact that i am only seeing him once a month, and what kills me the most is that he seems to be ok about meeting once a month only. I don't know what to do? I feel insecure, depressed, stress out about the situation. I don't know what to do? I would move in early, but I won't do it unless he asked me to or he shows interest on me moving... I am also hoping for him to commit to me.(you know marry me?) but nothing yet... He tells me to stop being so insecure; and to stop being so needy..( i did not like that he said that to me?).. what do i do? Do you think he loves me? if he does why would he said that to me? Instead, he should've been supportive.. help .. please.. help.. ..
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reader, YummyMummy  +, writes (3 July 2007):
 I live at the moment 80 odd miles apart from my guy and at times I can get a little clingy when I'm feeling low and I miss him. You need to keep yourself busy at those times and maybe see about moving in together sooner. Maybe not right now, but in a few months rather than a year.
Me and my partner are moving in together later this year and I feel a lot more relaxed knowing that.
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reader, becka4dale +, writes (3 July 2007):
 heyi think that if you love each other then it doesnt matter how far apart you are im in love with a lad at the moment and i dont get to see him even once a month but hes on the other end of the phone so if you are feeling needy or want to talk to him phone him or text or email.but one thing for sure just talk to him and ask him if hes still okay with you moving in and does he still love youi really hope this helps you outlove becca x
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