I thought getting married would fix her insecurities, but she is still acting abnormal and crazy on a daily basis. Do I let her file for divorce or stay and try to work it out?
Q. Its been a while agony aunts since I wrote in. Same or similar story, same girl. This time I really did it though. I went and married her on December 21st, 2013. Didn't take the advice, I tried, unplugged for a whopping 4 weeks, thought I was doing ...
A. 7 April 2014: I have to say, thank you AA's for the tough love, for lack of better words. All, duly noted. I shouldn't have even asked "what do I do". I know what I need to do. But, you're right. I must have co-dependency issues. I'm confident in so many ways, ... (read in full...)
I'm back and in need of some more tough love. I do everything for her and she constantly curses at me and says I do nothing. I need help getting away.
Q. Well agony aunts... It's me. The one that moved to Tennessee to be with a woman I love, that turned out to be a rough ride with 3 kids... Bring back memories now. I wanted to provide an update and get more brutality thrown my way because it helps me ...
A. 14 September 2012: Well agony aunts., someone reached out and asked me to look up passive aggressive personality disorder. Describes her to the letter. I would guess to say 90 percent match.. Even talks about what it stems from. Describes her childhood to the T, and ... (read in full...)
I love her but our attitudes to our children differ. She resents the time I spend with my sons. Can we make this relationship work?
Q. I have this dilemma. I think I know the answer, I think I know what's right. But, damn. I really need some some brutal honesty. I have been dating this 45 year old woman for over 18 months. She has 3 boys, I have 2 boys. Started as long distance...
A. 3 August 2012: HoneyPie. Thank you for the response. I did plan with her when I wanted to bring my son in. I asked, sometimes I waited until the week before, because I was honestly not looking forward to the discussion because it generally was the catalyst for an ... (read in full...)
I love her but our attitudes to our children differ. She resents the time I spend with my sons. Can we make this relationship work?
Q. I have this dilemma. I think I know the answer, I think I know what's right. But, damn. I really need some some brutal honesty. I have been dating this 45 year old woman for over 18 months. She has 3 boys, I have 2 boys. Started as long distance...
A. 3 August 2012: HoneyPie....Thank you for the response. Everyone is spot on who has posted a comment. I have 3 boys. One is 20 and on his own, doing great. I have a very good relationship with him. The other just turned 15, and I have son that just turned 12. ... (read in full...)
I love her but our attitudes to our children differ. She resents the time I spend with my sons. Can we make this relationship work?
Q. I have this dilemma. I think I know the answer, I think I know what's right. But, damn. I really need some some brutal honesty. I have been dating this 45 year old woman for over 18 months. She has 3 boys, I have 2 boys. Started as long distance...
A. 2 August 2012: I'll be dead honest in regards to HoneyPie's response. What keeps me banging my head against the wall.. Let me give you an example. I was in Australia on business for 3 weeks. She moved out while I was in Australia. When I returned I immediately ... (read in full...)
I love her but our attitudes to our children differ. She resents the time I spend with my sons. Can we make this relationship work?
Q. I have this dilemma. I think I know the answer, I think I know what's right. But, damn. I really need some some brutal honesty. I have been dating this 45 year old woman for over 18 months. She has 3 boys, I have 2 boys. Started as long distance...
A. 2 August 2012: I have written a couple of questions before, I guess all very similar. I'm the type that when I commit, I commit. It's pretty much engrained in me to have that type of attitude. The answers are the same. Everyone tells me to run, don't look back. ... (read in full...)
Throwing in the towel is never been an option if you love someone, or is it???
Q. I've been in a relationship for over a year. I moved 700 plus miles to be with this woman. We both come from long marriages with bad ex'es. We both have custody of our boys. Needless to say blending a family is hard. Please tell me if I'm being an ...
A. 13 March 2012: Just to add more fuel to the fire of my ignornance...My lease ends in a few months. Trying my best to keep peace until then. Again, she had a cocktail, a long island tea. Something with a lot of liquor in it about 3 PM. Here it is 6 pm, everything ... (read in full...)
Very deep into a relationship but it's very hard to keep it going and even harder to end it
Q. We've been together 9 months. She's been living in my house most of the time, where I pretty much pay for everything. She has spoken several times about marriage and expects to be engaged sometime in the next year. I love her, and i like the thou...
A. 10 March 2012: I can relate to everything you just said..I'm in something similar. I'm 44 though, and she is 44. Same kind of stuff though. We can go several days and everything seems unbelievable...Then she turns into an absolute ass from hell to say the least. ... (read in full...)
Throwing in the towel is never been an option if you love someone, or is it???
Q. I've been in a relationship for over a year. I moved 700 plus miles to be with this woman. We both come from long marriages with bad ex'es. We both have custody of our boys. Needless to say blending a family is hard. Please tell me if I'm being an ...
A. 10 March 2012: Its amazing how things go...I've taken everyone's advice. I'm working on a plan to move on, move out.Trying to get along and create no drama at all cost...However, I worked this morning, make breakfest, went to store and picked up some things, got ... (read in full...)
Throwing in the towel is never been an option if you love someone, or is it???
Q. I've been in a relationship for over a year. I moved 700 plus miles to be with this woman. We both come from long marriages with bad ex'es. We both have custody of our boys. Needless to say blending a family is hard. Please tell me if I'm being an ...
A. 6 March 2012: Thanks everyone for providing such clear, and honest feedback. Its good to have a dose of reality from someone looking outside in to provide a clear perspective. What an idiot i've been, and how blind I've been not putting my son and his feeling in ... (read in full...)
I feel trapped! I married the wrong guy
Q. I married my now husband after 8 years of dating. We didnt live together first. So its been a year now and I feel trapped that i've married the wrong guy. I knew all about him before we married but only since we started living together did i r...
A. 4 March 2012: If you love him, then you talk to him and figure it out. There is always a compromise if you love someone. Maybe I'm just a romantic, but if you truly love someone you compromise. It goes both ways as well. Maybe one holiday you do what he wants ... (read in full...)
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