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How do I act around this guy that I've liked for a long time?

Q.   I’m a senior in high school. I have a class for the first time with a guy I’ve liked for a really long time. We’ve been out of touch for a little while now, but we use to text each other all the time. What should I do? Should I sit next to him or ...

A.   24 January 2011: Just act normal, treat him like how you treat everyone. Everything will fall into place. No need to plan your moves... (read in full...)

Friday the 13th message to ex?

Q.   Hi All Ok tomorrow is Friday the 13th, I want to know...should I send my ex the following SMS: Happy Friday the 13th...Wishing you all the misfortunes in the world!! Love -(my name)...

A.   12 February 2009: LOL thanx cat... Nokutenda I really don't care what he thinks coz it won't change how we feel about each other (Says he despises me) and frankly, the feeling is mutual LOL... (read in full...)

Friday the 13th message to ex?

Q.   Hi All Ok tomorrow is Friday the 13th, I want to know...should I send my ex the following SMS: Happy Friday the 13th...Wishing you all the misfortunes in the world!! Love -(my name)...

A.   12 February 2009: No TELLULAH...I don't like him, he's a cheater... (read in full...)

Friday the 13th message to ex?

Q.   Hi All Ok tomorrow is Friday the 13th, I want to know...should I send my ex the following SMS: Happy Friday the 13th...Wishing you all the misfortunes in the world!! Love -(my name)...

A.   12 February 2009: LOL LOl Thanks a lot Uncle_Phil, much appreciated ;)... (read in full...)

I'm not sure if confronting the ex is a good thing?

Q.   Hi Everyone My bf and I broke up like a month ago, he was cheating and just stopped talking to me so thats how we broke up.Anyway, the girl he was cheating with and still dating just moved in closer to where I stay and she has been confidin...

A.   9 February 2009: Thank you Gina, The girl isn't much of a problem, I can easily ignore her.The problem is my bf, why on earth is he discussing me with his gf...should I confront him or just let him be?... (read in full...)

I'm not sure if confronting the ex is a good thing?

Q.   Hi Everyone My bf and I broke up like a month ago, he was cheating and just stopped talking to me so thats how we broke up.Anyway, the girl he was cheating with and still dating just moved in closer to where I stay and she has been confidin...

A.   9 February 2009: Hi Gina, She is confiding in me, with other things though. She's a hypocrite.Telling me how manipulative my ex is and she just can't get him to stay away from her.....when she's with him, he listens to all the crap my ex is saying aboout me, inst... (read in full...)

I'm not sure if confronting the ex is a good thing?

Q.   Hi Everyone My bf and I broke up like a month ago, he was cheating and just stopped talking to me so thats how we broke up.Anyway, the girl he was cheating with and still dating just moved in closer to where I stay and she has been confidin...

A.   9 February 2009: CLARIFYING SOMETHING: She wasn't the one who told me, It's one of he girls who live where she's moved...I grew up with that girl and I know she isnt lying, She also told me to stay away from that girl.... (read in full...)

Why did he cause this scene for a common cap?

Q.   Hi everbody......So my boyfriend and I finally broke up about 3 weeks ago and I just found out he was cheating on me. Our break up wasn't official, we just stopped talking. I thought it was one of his silent treatments but then I found out he is ...

A.   2 February 2009: Thank you Girly69, We haven't been speaking for the whole of January and I'm so glad I'm over him Thanks again :-))))... (read in full...)

Have I been dumped?

Q.   i want to know what i should do about my boyfriend that hasn't called or texted me in 2 days. he has never done anything like this before. i dont understand what is wrong with him plz write back ...

A.   25 November 2008: 2 Days is a short time, u freaking out coz it's the first time. Just relax, don't assume anything, I'm sure theres a sound explanation. and why don't YOU call him? you do realize that you also haven't called in two days right? Now pick up t... (read in full...)

How can I signal him to start talking about our relationship without getting shy and stupid?

Q.   I have been very good friends with my boyfriend for 2 years now but we have only been dating for a little of that. It seems like longer, to both of us. We do the "normal" couple things, like movies and dinner. All of my family loves him. My mom ...

A.   25 November 2008: Yuo've known him for two years!! surely you should be comfortable by know. Just kiss him when you're alone, He'll get the hint. and get rid of the insecurities. Good Luck xxx Porsh... (read in full...)

How should I ask him if he still likes me?

Q.   I met a guy this summer and when he asked me if I liked him, I told him I liked him as a friend. The problem is that I find myself really missing him and wishing that I had told him that I really liked him. How should I ask him if he still likes ...

A.   25 November 2008: Just ask him straight out gal, he probably still does! Good luck xxx porsh... (read in full...)

Is there something I can do to strengthen the relationship?

Q.   I love my guyfriend who's 18 years older than me. He is very nice to me and very mature which surprises me that he's not already in a relationship. He seems to like me a lot. Last time he hugged me it felt a little romantic. I've known him for a ...

A.   25 November 2008: are you sure he's single, i mean you guys don't live in the same city. he might be in a relationship and thats why he's holding back. if you're sure then...what you can do is tell him you'd like to be more close, in that way he'll see hes not gonn... (read in full...)

Did I miss my chance? Should I tell her how I feel?

Q.   First of all, I'm sorry for how long this is! It would mean a lot to me if you would read it all and give me your advice, thanks! - - - I met this girl over the summer while on an outdoor experiential type program. Almost on day one I kn...

A.   25 November 2008: aawww: ( thats really sad, what i think you should do is go ahead and tell her regardless, tell her you were waiting for the perfect moment or something and that u feel like an idiot you did'nt mention anything earlier. Tell her how you feel and... (read in full...)

I feel really unappreciated and feel he wants to control me.

Q.   I have been with my bf for like 8 months now and it was a long distance relationship at first for a month and a half, he was in isolation and I was always there for him, emotionally since we were far apart and he told me he'll never forget the ...

A.   25 November 2008: Thanx for all the responds guys:)yes miss Porter i know i have to talk to him, and yes i DO try. I went to see him after work yesterday and he was fine and happy to see me, he always is unless hes doing the passive aggression thingy! Ok thers th... (read in full...)

He told me he didn't like me anymore but I think it was him being shy. What now?

Q.   okay, so there's this boy and he told my his best friend who's also my guy best friend that he liked me and at first i didnt like him at all and then i we started talking on the computer and hanging out. we hooked up whenever we saw eachother or ...

A.   24 November 2008: Boo, he always sees you doesnt he? so what i suggest you do is just keep on doing wat you doing, he'll come to you when he wants to, in the mean time you also hook up with other guys as he's doing : ). Don't mope around for him... (read in full...)

I feel really unappreciated and feel he wants to control me.

Q.   I have been with my bf for like 8 months now and it was a long distance relationship at first for a month and a half, he was in isolation and I was always there for him, emotionally since we were far apart and he told me he'll never forget the ...

A.   24 November 2008: Thanx talktoomuch, he is very moody yes and has been through so much, both with family and past relationships, once he's accused me of cheating and when i told him how shattered i was bcoz of his accussation he apologised and said he just don't ... (read in full...)

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