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*abyPorsh
writes:Hi EveryoneMy bf and I broke up like a month ago, he was cheating and just stopped talking to me so thats how we broke up.Anyway, the girl he was cheating with and still dating just moved in closer to where I stay and she has been confiding in me, telling me she never knew I was the dating the guy. She's acting like my big buddy now.....thing is, I found out my ex is talking lies about me to her. Really awful things, like I couldn't get my hands off other guys, Used to give him lump sums of money, begging him not to leave me! I've never done any of those things, he tells her I disgust him and whatever, I really don't know how my name keeps coming up whenever they're together.My friends tell me to stop associating with the girl to stay away from her. I wanted to go tell my ex where to get off, I can say things that are guaranteed to crush his self-esteem and hate me but I'm not sure If confronting him would be the best thing to do.....What do I do?Thanks xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): You could just ignore it all and tell her to take a hike. Tell her something like 'I don't feel comfortable talking to you because you where the other woman...' Your ex just sounds like an insecure idiot and isn't worth the time of day. Just get on with your life, you don't need this crap.
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reader, BabyPorsh +, writes (9 February 2009):
BabyPorsh is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you Gina,The girl isn't much of a problem, I can easily ignore her.The problem is my bf, why on earth is he discussing me with his gf...should I confront him or just let him be?
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reader, BabyPorsh +, writes (9 February 2009):
BabyPorsh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHi Gina, She is confiding in me, with other things though. She's a hypocrite.Telling me how manipulative my ex is and she just can't get him to stay away from her.....when she's with him, he listens to all the crap my ex is saying aboout me, instead of telling me about it she goes and tell her room mates,one of them told me.
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reader, BabyPorsh +, writes (9 February 2009):
BabyPorsh is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCLARIFYING SOMETHING:She wasn't the one who told me, It's one of he girls who live where she's moved...I grew up with that girl and I know she isnt lying, She also told me to stay away from that girl.
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