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writes:Hi everbody......So my boyfriend and I finally broke up about 3 weeks ago and I just found out he was cheating on me. Our break up wasn't official, we just stopped talking.I thought it was one of his silent treatments but then I found out he is cheating. I just forgot about him there and then...I felt so numb and empty, I didn't shed a single tear coz I felt he just wasn't worth it especially after all we've been through together he goes and cheat and just stops talking to me, such a coward.Anyway, I still have most of his stuff and yesterday I was wearing his cap, I had it from December.Okay so Im walking from a shop when I see him and his two friends parking in a car outside, As usual I just look right through him and pay no attention to him at all, He shouted "hey you, get over here" Ofcourse I didn't go, I crossed the street as I was going to the hair salon, well he decided to follow me yelling saying I must give him he's cap...I thought he was so disrespectful coz I was wearing the cap and instead of him asking nicely he shouts and wants to strip me of the cap in front of everyone like I stole it or something. I refused and he kept on yelling and pulling at me. I told him to leave me alone and he said he's coming back and he went away and did come back after an hour...much nicer and calm this time, I didn't have the cap anymore and he said someone has to be an adult about this and said just take the cap, I said thank you and walked away and he said god bless you...What I want to know is why would anyone cause such a scene for a cap when I still have many of his things just like he still has lots of mine?Can anybody tell me what happened here coz I don't know what to think
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reader, BabyPorsh +, writes (2 February 2009):
BabyPorsh is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you Girly69, We haven't been speaking for the whole of January and I'm so glad I'm over himThanks again :-))))
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 February 2009): Hi again As I told you before he is not good for you, and this is proof, he freaked out about the cap coz that’s the only thing he had on you, you had his silly cap, and now he had a reason to fight with you, I suggest you take all his stuff pack it all into one big box, pick up all the dog poo you can get and put that in the box with all his stuff, and right him a note saying here’s all the shit you’ve been making such a fuss about… lol im just kidding, ignore him but try and return all his stuff you don’t have to go and give it to him personally leave it outside his house, but as long as you hold onto that he will still be a factor in your life, and you don’t want that do you, he flipped out and acted immaturely but for how long has he been doing this the last time we spoke was in December….? You don’t need this, you know it, you can do better, this is South Africa sister, you will find a partner worthy of you.Good luck
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