Why are my feelings so up and down about my friend?
Q. I have a really weird problem with a guy friend of mine. We have been friends for over two years now, and we decided to become friends with benefits a few months ago. We promised each other that we would always stay friends no matter what, since we ...
A. 12 June 2008: Sounds like you two are in love. Yup funny old fashion thing. Actually that is exactly what I found love is. First you liked him, then you had sex, the sex is good but not so good it overwhelms you. You aren't seeing him with rose colored glasses, ... (read in full...)
My wife wants me to watch her with another man! What do you think?
Q. my wife wants me to watch her with another man. It really turns me on, but I don't want to ruin things. What do you think?...
A. 12 June 2008: Can I be the other man? LOL. Seriously though it really depends on what you as a couple want/need. I have known where this worked, although I think the husband was bi and they were really sharing lovers. But reality is different from fantasy. If ... (read in full...)
Is she being too friendly?
Q. Is she being more than friendly? My sister-in-law always hugs me whenever she greets me. While this is common among our family and close friends she seems to press tighter, and hold for a little longer than the other women do. While one of m...
A. 7 June 2008: Thanks to all who replied. I have always had close female as well as male friends, several for many years. Yes they hugged me as well. Have I been hoping that she is flirting? Maybe. Perhaps more so that she wasn't. Lovers come and go friends are ... (read in full...)
Long distance love is tiring me out! Any tips?
Q. Hi. i am in a long distance relationship. my other half lives 150 miles away. we had been together for 2 years and then split, but realised it was a mistake. by then he was 150 miles away in a new job earning a good wage which he enjoys. our ...
A. 7 June 2008: We had a few weeks together then she went home, 4000 miles away, thought it was over. We missed each other and stayed in contact. I flew to see her 4 months later, know how you feel was just weary, thought it was over then. Two months later She took ... (read in full...)
What do I need to do to see a positive ending to this situation?
Q. I have read a few articles on here but i dont feel like any are the same as what im going threw so please read this and offer your opinion. My girlfriend and i have been dating for almost 2 years. A month ago she broke things off with me before s...
A. 7 June 2008: Cake and eat it too. Write this one off as experience, you're only feeling the way you do cause you're the leavee, angry, hurt, pitiful. She is the Leaver but likes manipulating and controlling your emotions. Take a cue from the song 'I gotta brand ... (read in full...)
He wants me to just forget about his cheating...
Q. my husband of 13 yrs, had an affair with someone I know, lasting 18 months. I always knew there was something going on, but was told bt=y him, that I was mad. He physically abused me, continued to want sex, and told me I was ungrateful, and had ...
A. 7 June 2008: Simply, you can forgive but not forget. Throw him out and collect the kids check. This wasn't an affair of passion, he dragged you into his gutter.... (read in full...)
I've tried everything but can't find my pc muscle!
Q. I'm a guy and I've tried everything but can't find my pc muscle :( I dunno what to do :( I mean i've tried locating the muscle when i stop my urine but can't feel a thing Are there any exercises i can do that doesn't involve actually finding...
A. 7 June 2008: Dude you are worring too much. It all comes with time and practice. You connect with the right lady and it will work itself out. If it doesn't she is the wrong lady!... (read in full...)
I can't cope with his porn habit-Could our marriage survive this?
Q. Ok, deep breath, here we go. I'm in a lot of pain at the moment and don't know where to turn so I hope someone out there can help me. I've been married for nine months. Three years ago when we were due to move in together I found out that he'...
A. 7 June 2008: You didn't cause this problem, you know about it before you married him, he had it then. Addiction? Substituting? Most addicts are copying with insecurities. If you knew he was an alcholic before you married him, then found his bottle stash would ... (read in full...)
Would my erotic show help put a spark back into our relationship?
Q. My boyfriend seems to have a porn habit and says he enjoys the visual stimulation he gets out of it. Problem is, over the last few years our sex life has dried up - to the point where we both don't even make an effort for each other anymore. I ...
A. 7 June 2008: Several issue; 'dress up' will probably help interest him, works for me. Do you just have intercourse or do you make love? Do you explore his body and he yours? do you perform oral sex on each other? massages, lotions, showers together? Guys produce ... (read in full...)
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