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How do I ask my mom about birth control pills diplomatically??

Q.   i need to get on the birth control pill, im seventeen. how do i go about talking to my mom about it? i really need it. ...

A.   23 April 2011: Hey, you don't have to talk to your mom about it, all you need to do is go to the nearest Plan Parenthood, or even a regular doctor, (WITHOUT AN ADULT) and he/she/they will give them to you no charge, trust me my sisters all had to go and my mom ... (read in full...)

I don't know if this means I'm bisexual

Q.   dearcupid.org, Hi, I am a young teen and I am confused. I always have liked guys, but since the past year I have had a... atraction to girls. Not a girl, but just girls in general. But i still like guys. Now I'm really confused. I don't know if...

A.   21 April 2011: Okay, I think I understand and I am Bi Sexual. It's okay with me because God made me this way, if that's how you beleive. I, on the other hand, am Non Donomenational which means I believe in God but am not a religion. To the person who posted ... (read in full...)

My parents are asking me to break up with my BF because he isn't white...

Q.   Hi, i need help with something. I'm 13 years old. i have a boyfriend thats 15. My boyfriend is black and im white. he isnt that dark he is light skin. He came to my house to meet my parents ( he wants to meet my family n all my friends). When he ...

A.   16 April 2011: Wow, that really sucks. I think you should stay with him. If you're not raicist like you're parents, not to be rude by addressing the word but its the truth, then love will last. It's OK to have mixed babies. I'm half white and half mexican and ... (read in full...)

Want to move on, date someone new but am afraid to ask someone out

Q.   i'm 24 years old with a 3 week old baby in a shitty apartment writting on an peace of crap labtop. with no job and zero friends due to the fact i lost them all because i was so wrapped up with my ex. who by the way i still love but f*** off when i ...

A.   14 April 2011: Girl, you can do SO much better than your ex. If he's acting like that than he isn't worth more than a piece oh crap. You just need to open up to the guy you like, just tell him straight up.(:... (read in full...)

I have had thoughts about girls. Am I going to turn into a lesbian?

Q.   HELP ME, im so scared and anxious. im not going to go into my crazy antics here, but i'm just gunna sum it up. i've loved boys forever. wanted to date them, be near them, impress them, make them like me. i formed friendships with guys based on th...

A.   12 April 2011: Hi, I know your scared of being a lesbian, but you can't just TURN into one, you're born that way. And obviously if you like guys but find girls attractive, you're probably Bi Sexual, or Bi Curiuos, which is fine. It doesn't mean you ever have to be ... (read in full...)

How do I get this boy to like me?

Q.   Okay, there is this guy I'm in love with, but he doesn't even like me that way. We used to be really close friends until another girl told him I liked him a lot. He told my friend that he liked me a little but not after that. He is really funny and ...

A.   9 April 2011: Thanks guys(: I understand now that there's nothing but being myself. I'll try texting him and telling him I like him later on(: I guess I can't rely on hope that he'll just magically like me out of the blue- Thanks again! b90219... (read in full...)

I find the thought of hooking up with guys repulsive. Does this mean I am gay or bi?

Q.   I feel like somethings missing. I don't know what it is, but I have an idea. It's just that every time I see couples, I wish I could have a girlfriend. I also am confused. I mean, I'm sure I'm Bi Sexual, but the sexual thought of guys is just... ...

A.   9 April 2011: thanks guys, i dont want to judge all guys and i feel dumb for even thinking i did. and when i said my perverted ex wanted to have sex with me he didnt mean by my choice. thank you all and i will try dating other guys and see how it works out(:... (read in full...)

We fought over housecleaning and he walked out. How do I make him understand?

Q.   Ok, living with my boyfriend is killing me! Lately we have been arguing because he doesn't clean up after himself. I do all the cleaning and I don't mind seen as I don't work as much as him but the guy does nothing and when he eventually does ...

A.   8 April 2011: Well, if he won't do any work, maybe you should just sit down and talk it out with him. It sounds as if he doesn't want to disappoint, but thinks if he tries and messes up, that's worse.... (read in full...)

How do I tell my cousin I love him?

Q.   Ok If i tell him i love me how do i know it wont ruin everything? i love my cousin. yes he is blood but he is always there for me and whenever hes around i just smile. when we were little he kissed me but he dosent remember. i still love him how do ...

A.   8 April 2011: You just need to come out and tell it to him straight, if he loves you, he will understand.... (read in full...)

Do girls like their space? Will she feel crowded if I request more of her?

Q.   Hi, I am middle aged guy in late 30's dating a 26 year old single mom. We met a year ago through a internet dating site and have been seeing each other for over a year now. I am a settled, educated, professional, who has separated ...

A.   7 April 2011: Dear LoveCanada, Girls like it when a guy takes action, but don't ever rush things. If she was recently in a bad relationship before you, I would definitely take it slow. If you tell her you love her, though, it will most likely make her ver... (read in full...)

I don't know if this means I'm bisexual

Q.   dearcupid.org, Hi, I am a young teen and I am confused. I always have liked guys, but since the past year I have had a... atraction to girls. Not a girl, but just girls in general. But i still like guys. Now I'm really confused. I don't know if...

A.   7 April 2011: Thank you so much, because I really am confused and don't know whether this means I am or not. ... (read in full...)

I love my first cousin what should I do?

Q.   I love my first cousin with all my heart and i want to tell him but wat if he does not feel that way about me what if he rejects me and we lose the cousin bond we have now.I live in conneticut so its legal could you plz help me tell me if i should ...

A.   7 April 2011: Dear UnperfectAlexis, If you really love him, then you should go for it, even if he is your cousin. If you are scared, though, that you may lose that cousin bond, then I would play it safe, maybe hinting every now and then. You should try telli... (read in full...)

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