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We broke up but she told me if I give her space we'll probably get back together

Q.   Me and my girlfriend had been together since she was 14 and i was 15 i am not 19 and she is now 18 so we have been together for some time. Everything was fine untill about 8 months ago when i went to uni only 20 minutes away from my home. We had ...

A.   15 June 2009: Dear friend. It sounds like you favor this girl very much. However, it also sounds like your relationship has been a little too co-dependant and controlling. It is important that you get the best education possible so that you can find a good job ... (read in full...)

I want to give him some space then contact him to see if he really is interested in me...

Q.   I am a little confused. Have been seeing this man for a few weeks now and things were going really well until the last few days... he came late to a planned date and has not been texting me quite as much as usual. We were talking on the phone every ...

A.   15 June 2009: You are silly! If he just lost his daughter, that must be taking up much of his time, thoughts and energy! Give him a few weeks to grieve and get things in order. A new romantic relationship is probably not his priority this week. I recommend ... (read in full...)

Why is he being so mean to me now?

Q.   Please help, my husband and I have been married for 6 years and we seperated over a year ago right after we had a baby girl. I have a boy that is 9 from a previous relationship that my husband has raised since he was 2 years old. Neither of us have ...

A.   15 June 2009: Your situation is tragic. I grieve for you and your children. The first thing you need to do is find a good Christian church, meet with the Pastor and have him or her pray with you. Have him or her introduce you to some older women of the church ... (read in full...)

I'm in a relationship, I've liked a guy for 4 years, but he's not single either... help!

Q.   Hi, if anyone writes back thank you, i would be grateful for your help. I have known this guy "Ian" for four years, we used to work together and have been best mmates all this time, I really cherish him as a friend and I love spending time with him ...

A.   15 June 2009: I understand the lure of wanting to "have fun" with someone you care about. But since you are so young (and not married) you need to be very careful about making your bed available to so many older men. The fact that you are 17 and not living with ... (read in full...)

What do I do about him as I don't trust him but we have a child together.

Q.   HELP! OK so me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 and a half years and we have a baby I'm 16 years old 17 soon he is almost 20. we had some problems he tryed to ask another girl out. he kissed her and was at her school trying to find her...

A.   15 June 2009: You are young and he is irresponsible. Take care of that baby and seek support from parents, aunts and uncles as your strive to finish your education and make a good life for your little one. If you remain intimate with him, you will get pregnant ... (read in full...)

Are there any long term side effect from anal sex?

Q.   Hi Over the past few months my partner and i have tried anal sex. At first she was against it, but now likes it and enjoy the change. she is concerned if there is any long term side affect from doing it that way and if so what...

A.   14 June 2009: Anal sex can cause long term effects like hemmorrhoids and fissures (see wiki article on anal fissures). It can also affect bowel movements and cause spasm pain/bruising. Remember that the anus and rectum were designed for one purpose...expelling ... (read in full...)

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