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So, im Aunt Lola.

and i am from England.

I was always the person my friends and family turned to for advice, and most of the time it was pretty good.

But i decided i wanted to help other people with their problems.

Im currently in a happy relationship, but have had bad ones in the past and followed my own advice and found myself a good one!

So im pretty happy with that.

I have advice for most things:

relationships, sex, marriage, friendships. You name it and i'll have an answer.

Hopefully i can help some of you so send me a message and see what you think

Aunt Lola

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How to be well groomed.

This question has 1 answer by a reader of DearCupid.ORG.
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6 February 2009: Okay, so every girl or woman knows that keeping up an immaculate appearance every day is hard work.. So here is a few easy tips to make your self seem more well groomed without the cost and the effort. 1.Hygiene: An obvious necessity to app...

To invite or not to invite!

Q.   A person who I thought was a pretty good friend of mine had a birthday party recently, and I was offended because I was not invited. She admitted to me that she did not plan the party --it was a surprise!! I still felt that her husband, who I ...

A.   8 February 2009: In all honesty, i would also be offended. There could be many reasons for you not being invited to this party, but i doubt any of these reasons would be a good one. The simple truth would be they don't want you there. And also if they are asking y... (read in full...)

Threesome--to do? To not do?

Q.   My partner of several years and I have reached a little bit of a turning point in our relationship. Although we have a fairly good sex life; as happens with a lot of couples who have been together for a long time we don't do it as often as we used...

A.   6 February 2009: A threesome is proberly some what of a fantasy to most people, but i guarentee not even a third of people actually try it. The best that could happen is it turns out to be one of the best sexual experiences you have ever had. The downfall could b... (read in full...)

Questions about condoms, pills, my boyfriend and my Mom!

Q.   hey well here goes im real close to my bf and well i realy want to have sex with him but im 14 and so is he we've done everything else apart from having sex we both want it im just worried about geting pregnant or s.T.i and even worse my mum find...

A.   6 February 2009: Don't stress out, i guarentee nearly every girl your age is in the same situation. If you and your boyfriend are both virgins there isn't much worry about an STI. And your Gp isnt the only option to go to, im sure there are sex clinics you can go t... (read in full...)

Should I surprise him for V-Day and take him to a swingers place?

Q.   with valentine day comming i want to do something special. our sex life is great, i know a fantasy of his is for someone to be watching or even a threesome, i just don't want it to ruin anything, or no regrets, my question is should i surprise him ...

A.   6 February 2009: Well, if its his fantasy im sure he will appreciate the gesture of your trying to help whether it works out well or not. The best option is probably to pick a few places to go to that night, so if you go to one and doesnt seem for you, your next opt... (read in full...)

Her ex keeps giving her a hard time, what can I do?

Q.   I cant take this anymore. Me and my gf have been together 9 months im 16 shes 15. i dont care called it puppy love if u want but its really lol. anyways the prob is her ex. she loves me i know it she noes it and he noes it. and cos of this he keeps ...

A.   6 February 2009: Hey Just to clarify you don't seem like a moan at all! i can completely understand what your feeling and how helpless you must feel. But your girlfriend is right, you might be able to fight her ex, but im sure fighting his 30 friends wouldn't be ... (read in full...)

Her Facebook says "single", but she says we're together, what's going on?

Q.   well i am ( i think ) going out wit this girl we went to a disco not to long ago and she dumped me but the she wanted to go back so i said yea but now on her facebook profile it says that she changed her status to single (the time wen the thing was ...

A.   6 February 2009: Firstly, this girl sounds as if she is messing you around abit. But the only thing to really do is ask her. No harm will come of asking, but im sure its just a misunderstanding. It is only her facebook status, it doesn't really clarify anything and ... (read in full...)

Should I be worried or is he just too comfortable?

Q.   My bf has become quite distance lately, he only holds my hand if I grab it first and mostly only says I love you if I say it first. Should I be worried or is he just too comfortable? ...

A.   6 February 2009: okay, so i understand your worry. But surely this is nothing to worry about. But if its bothering you that much, just dont grab his hand and don't say you love him. If he says it to you because he is getting worried then great, you know he is just ... (read in full...)

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