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*erry1
writes:with valentine day comming i want to do something special. our sex life is great, i know a fantasy of his is for someone to be watching or even a threesome, i just don't want it to ruin anything, or no regrets, my question is should i surprise him and take him to a swingers type of place? i was checking them out online and they seem as though we'd be able to choose what to do. i also don't want him to think i'm strange for taking him there help!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2009): An unsual Valentine's Day present, to be sure.
The previous poster said it best.
Be careful.
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reader, perry1 +, writes (6 February 2009):
perry1 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionGreat advise, thank you Lola. I do have something planned, but I was just trying to spice things up a bit.
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reader, AuntLola  +, writes (6 February 2009):
 Well, if its his fantasy im sure he will appreciate the gesture of your trying to help whether it works out well or not.The best option is probably to pick a few places to go to that night, so if you go to one and doesnt seem for you, your next option is still there and then at least you know what to expect.The only thing to be careful of is who your taking home and if its safe.In my opinion threesomes should never be with someone you know well, but you know them well enough to know the consequences.If it turns out you don't fancy another person, you could always video you having sex, and as you said the idea of someone watching turns him on.This may just be something to consider.hope this helpsAunt Lolax
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