It's time to end this inconsistent lukewarm relationship, isn't it?
Q. My boyfriend of 1 year doesn't know I have a deadline in mind for him to really show me that he loves me. We HAVE talked, numerous times and I am always in control of myself and rational and non-accusing. He has had a "meh" attitude in the past and ...
A. 24 November 2011: You are an amazing girlfriend! You should not waste your time on this lazy, indifferent guy. He does not appreciate you and all you do for him. He is a freeloafer with little emotional attachment to you. You need to get out of this relationship and ... (read in full...)
Want to take pride in being myself and increasing my self esteem. Any advice?
Q. I have had self esteem issues since the age of about 12, and even though they have improved i still get so down about them and convince myself alot of the time "i'm not good enough". It doesn't really help that there are few people in my life who do ...
A. 24 November 2011: I know how you feel. I used to have really bad self-esteem, and now I feel much better but I still have awkward moments. I have a big nose and a "young" body (if you know what I mean) for my age. Also, I have a really good friend who is ... (read in full...)
Deep down my friend is as cold as stone, what should I do?
Q. I have a friend who is very outgoing, confident, and self-promoting. She is very loud and sure of herself. At first, everyone wants to be friends with her, because she is so bubbly and witty. She knows all the inside jokes and references that I know ...
A. 6 November 2011: You guys are right. I am jealous. I am super, super jealous of her!!! Everyone likes her more than me and she always gets special attention from the teachers. In middle school she always got awards just for being a good role model and an excellent ... (read in full...)
Thinking of asking this guy if he'll be my first kiss? What do I say to him? How do I ask him?
Q. I'm in my late 20s n never kissed a guy. I've waited my whole life for this one perfect kiss and guy and have well outpassed my expected timeframe. I really wanted to get this first before my next birthday, and before the new year. I talk to this...
A. 6 November 2011: I think that you should not talk to him about it and discuss it like adults, because you are still young and because kissing is fun and exciting and supposed to take you by surprise! Don't lead up to it with some stuffy discussion, just dive in ... (read in full...)
Deep down my friend is as cold as stone, what should I do?
Q. I have a friend who is very outgoing, confident, and self-promoting. She is very loud and sure of herself. At first, everyone wants to be friends with her, because she is so bubbly and witty. She knows all the inside jokes and references that I know ...
A. 6 November 2011: Everyone says that I should tell her how I feel, but I just can't do that because she is one of those people who can't talk about real things. It just doesn't happen. In middle school, she was the obvious "queen bee" of our "clique", but we could ... (read in full...)
Do I get a boob job and give up sensitivity?
Q. I can't decide whether or not to have a boob job! I have really small boobs and so does everyone else in my family and there's no hope of them growing anymore (I'm a 32A/AA). For ages now I've been thinking about getting a boob job but I still don't ...
A. 5 November 2011: I also have tiny boobs (I'm practically flat...sigh) so I know how you feel. It is really frustrating. Things don't fit like they should, people look at you differently, I get it. Men like big boobs, generally, it is true. But some men like small ... (read in full...)
Should I just become a womanizer so women will notice me more?
Q. I just don't understand why im single. When I was younger I was always over looked by girls as a potential date. Granted though I was skinny unkempt idiot back then but I was still a nice guy. Fast forward to today and alot has changed. 2 Years ago ...
A. 5 November 2011: That depends on what kind of relationship you want. If you want a bunch of one night stands with easy, submissive women, then sure. Become a womanizer if that is the kind of woman you want. I am not judging! But you seem like a nice guy and if you ... (read in full...)
I don't understand if this guy was genuine or not?
Q. I don't understand if this guy was genuine or not? I met him and we got along and both obviously were attracted to each other.. Then he disappeared during the night and i didn't see him again, so i took the hint he wasn't interested and bailed. ...
A. 5 November 2011: He sounds like a decent guy, and he seems to like you and your company. What came up at the party before is probably related to what is delaying his call now, so I wouldn't worry about it. If he took the trouble to apologize and get your number, it ... (read in full...)
What does he really think and want and why with me?
Q. So there's this guy, we'll call him D, he always flirts with everyone but he is always doin' sexual stuff to me in class, such as stuff like grabbin' my butt, pokin' me in my boob, runnin' his finger up across my butt, or vibrating it, all in a ...
A. 5 November 2011: He is probably a confused teenage boy who doesn't even know what he wants and thinks himself. He likes girls and their bodies, and has found that he can touch yours in public without major consequences. You really should not let him, though, because ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has put on weight, she thinks I have lost interested in her, how can I make her understand that I haven't ?
Q. My 4 years old Girlfriend has put on weight in recent months and she thinks I have lost interest in her. Yet I have told her countless times that I haven’t and it’s just that my new position in office demands me to work harder and extend my work...
A. 5 November 2011: Even though you personally cannot be with her as much as you both would want, you can do things for her while you are apart, like send her flowers from work, write her love notes, or prepare a nice meal or something for her before you leave the ... (read in full...)
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