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I'm just a regular guy (is there such a thing? hahaha) from the UK who is currently laying the remains of a 10 year marriage to rest, having come out of the other side wiser, stronger and far more accepting of people and the world we live in.
None of us are perfect, present company DEFINITELY included, but I have come on here to try and help others through their own dilemmas so that they do not have to endure what I did for so many years and that is to battle alone with the ups and downs of life.
If I can help someone even in a small way, then I have achieved my goal. I don't profess to be an expert in any field other than in my own life experiences and I will relate to these wherever and whenever I can.
Forgiveness, understanding and compassion are my standpoints all served up with a good dose of faith in God and the wonders of the world about us.
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Should I keep having sex with him? I'm 13!!!
Q. Hello! Basically I'm 13 and I have had sex with the same guy over 20 times. Is that bad cos if it is then I'm gonna stop doing it but we're madly in love and we're basically going out so I don't know what to do. thanks for the help! x...
A. 29 October 2008: I agree with the first reply. Stop this immediately. You are exposing yourself to so many potential problems here which could be life-changing.
- Do you want to get pregnant? Can you imagine what your life would be like if you had to look aft... (read in full...)
How can I forget my first love?
Q. I want just to forget my first love because she is getting married! What can I do please help me? ...
A. 29 October 2008: Our first loves always hold a special place in our hearts, without exception.
However, as we grow older, so does our outlook on life. Our needs, desires and what we expect out of life also change at the same time, although the rate of change i... (read in full...)
He wont contribute finacially and I am drowing in bills!
Q. I am having a problem with my relationship, me and my boyfriend argue all the time. He got sacked from his job 4 months ago. We have been together for nearly a year but he used to work abroad so I only seen him for weeks at a time. Anyhows after ...
A. 29 October 2008: Oh hon, I am so sorry. Sounds like the practical and honest approach isn't washing with this guy. I am staggered that he cannot see this situation for what it is and how serious it is! If he cannot see how this will ultimately end, then I thin... (read in full...)
I have a problem with my foreskin.
Q. Hello, I got a problem with my foreskin, since young i have had problems with it being to tight, when its un-erect it's easy to pull back ( and this is when i clean it) however when erect it can only go back a certain amount, for obvious rea...
A. 28 October 2008: Sounds like you DO have a genuine medical complaint here called phimosis which is an abnormal tightening of the foreskin which prevents it from being pulled down over the glans. Phimosis, if left untreated, CAN cause inflammation problems which t... (read in full...)
I suspect my husband is having an affair with his old girlfriend!
Q. hi think my husband is having an affair with his old girl friend who he has a son with hes 21yrs,I did ask him and he said no way she phoned him to ask about advise on buying a house and he only phoned her 5or 6 times so he said, i found his phone ...
A. 28 October 2008: Unfortunately, the timing and the frequency of the calls suggests something other than advice on buying a house.
I think you need to challenge him with these facts - if he has a plausible explanation, I'd like to see him talk his way out of it.
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He wont contribute finacially and I am drowing in bills!
Q. I am having a problem with my relationship, me and my boyfriend argue all the time. He got sacked from his job 4 months ago. We have been together for nearly a year but he used to work abroad so I only seen him for weeks at a time. Anyhows after ...
A. 28 October 2008: I agree! This guy needs to wake up and smell the coffee. He seems to have his head stuck in the clouds here and needs a reality check.
I think you need to lay it on the line that certain lifestyles can only be maintained with a proper cashflow... (read in full...)
My boyfriend finds me unattractive because of my small boobs and thin body structure...
Q. My boyfriend(for 3 yrs) feels that i am too thin for him and he is not that attracted to me since i have small boobs. It really hurts me when he comments harsh things about my body. He says that i need to become a little fat to carry on with the ...
A. 24 October 2008: I totally agree with everyone else. You are who you are. If your boyfriend cannot accept you for the way you are and is criticising your appearance, then he doesn't deserve to be with you.
This does smack of an underlying issue and the fact tha... (read in full...)
I am so angry and frustated about being ignored by someone I genuinly care about.
Q. I am so angry and frustated about being ignored by someone I genuinly care about. They ignore my calls, ignore my text messages. I sent them an email to tell them how I was feeling which they responded to. They said they would be back in touch soon ...
A. 24 October 2008: Hiya,
At the end of the day, it is all too easy to blame ourselves or find fault in what we do when we express or pour out hearfelt feelings and emotions which are not reciprocated. It is a natural reaction. WE feel one way and naturall... (read in full...)
He lives so far away... will this work or should I move on?
Q. So I met this guy online, and we both really like each other, but we both live so far. I'm not sure how to make this work, so I'm just wondering if I should just move on or keep on talking to him and see what will happen?...
A. 23 October 2008: Hiya,
Ok, first of all, it is really difficult (read: virtually IMPOSSIBLE) to get the measure of a person you meet online. A computer screen is no substitute for being there face-to-face with someone. It's all too easy to hide behind a screen a... (read in full...)
She seems so distant with me now...
Q. Hi. It has been 6 months since I worked and move to a different country. The first month I got here, the distance makes her miss me more and more. I feel great and for a moment, I think long distance relationship isn't bad at all. To save phone bi...
A. 7 October 2008: Hiya, I completely understand your position here. The outward signs are not good and do not bode well. Everyone handles and deals with LDR (Long Distance Relationship) separation differently. Some people can adapt quite easily and are conte... (read in full...)
Is a long distance relationship worth it?
Q. About a year ago, this girl moved from LA and we've been friends since. We met at a church which we attend very so often. She is absolutly amazing. She has great personality, she's very cute and has an amazing body. The thing is, she lives too far ...
A. 7 October 2008: Guys, I work on cruise ships and the last time I saw my partner was over two months ago! She works on a different ship to me so even maintaining basic communications is difficult due to time zone differences (depending on where the ships are in... (read in full...)
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