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I don't want to lose my girlfriend because I come too fast!

Q.   I am a healthy guy of 21.bt each time i wnt to have sex with my gf i always cum quickly b4 5mins.i am confuse i dnt knw what to do and i dnt wanna loose hes cos i love her so much..pls can some one help me?...

A.   9 February 2011: Perhaps try using a condom- if you are not using one currently. It deadens a lot of sensation. The other reason it could be so soon is cause of too much foreplay. I think you should talk to her. Open up channels about anxieties etc. Get comfortable ... (read in full...)

I treated her so well, why did she break up with me?

Q.   Okay my girlfriend and i have been together for 4 months since about September and we were amazing together i couldn't think about being with anyone else. She told me that she loved me and i loved her she didn't want to lose me and felt the same ...

A.   9 February 2011: It could possibly be that there is another person in the picture. Its not your fault and you shouldn't feel upset.. She has. It seems she is not even willing to return your calls. It's game over. You should accept it and move on. There are tons of ... (read in full...)

This girl lies to me all the time!

Q.   I and my girl has been for the past 1yr she still lie and cheat on me.She was dating a married man before i met her,we just had a little problem and she went back to him. but she still claims that she had nothing to do with him. She alway lie all ...

A.   9 February 2011: She is shallow, a cheater and lies! Warning lights should be going off in your head. She sleeps with a married man. Trust is everything in a real relationship. Get out while you can! RUN! She isn't worth what additional heart ache is in store f... (read in full...)

Together for a month and I can't get over my ex

Q.   Im having trouble getting over my ex. Im 16. My now ex i turning 19. we were together over a month, then he left me for his ex from before me who has currently been saying she is into girls not guys, but within 3 days of him leaving me, he ...

A.   9 February 2011: First off it has only been a month - I can't really say that is a huge relationship (although at 16 I know it seems like the world of time.) This guy is what I like to call a user. Here is where lights should be going off in your head. "He se... (read in full...)

Boyfriend is rude to me. Is it because he's comfortable with me now?

Q.   so me and my bf have been together for about 4 months and since then things have really changed. I feel like he doesnt like me as much and hes recently become kind of ruder to me. not exactly rude but he has gained a lot of attitude and i feel like ...

A.   9 February 2011: Don't play games! Tell him straight out what your standards are and stick to your guns. Do not ever lower yourself below those standards cause if you do - he will walk all over you. If he can't cut it, leave - it isn't worth the effort or time. Life ... (read in full...)

My friends make out in front of me and its very uncomfortable

Q.   My two friends are dating and when we go on outings together they just seem to go off and do their own thing leaving me and my friend in the dust. They constantly make out infront of us to our discomfort and always talk to themselves about inside ...

A.   9 February 2011: I would suggest hanging out with other friends. See if distance makes a difference. I knew people like this, and I just let them have at it. If they didn't want to hangout with me, I am not going to let it ruin my day. This probably is just a phase ... (read in full...)

My wife's ego-devastating details of her sex life with her former Latin lover have led me to have terrible feelings of inadequacy and resentment...

Q.   I am in need of some advice. Background: I have been married to my wife for 13 years. She ended things with her previous boyfriend to start dating me. Shortly after we became intimate she implied that her former Latin lover (almost every wo...

A.   9 February 2011: Alex74 - I went through a phase like this with my ex. (didn't work out for other reasons). I loved the girl and we were together for 4 years. I had the same issues - the other guy she was with before was bigger than me, not by much but still. I let ... (read in full...)

Says he's not having sex with her, is he using me for sex?

Q.   i have been dateing having sex with a man for 12 years he has been dateing his girl for about a year and a half he tell's me that he his not having sex with her but hs spen the night and go out of town with her is he useing me just for sex. ...

A.   20 December 2010: "Going out of town with her" and "spending the night" should be clues. He seems like he is using you. Tell him how you feel and if he doesn't do anything about it, you know what to do.... (read in full...)

I love my boyfriend but kissed another guy...what do I do now?

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half now. However recently I have been having feelings for another guy. I kissed him and find myself thinking about him, but I love my boyfriend. What do I do?...

A.   20 December 2010: If you love him, drop the guy on the side. It will only lead to more confusing feelings and can end up in break up with your current boyfriend. I speak from experience with one of my ex's. Best of luck!... (read in full...)

Advice for an ugly duckling?

Q.   im 14 yrs old i 've been made fun since i was very little. I was always the ugliest one the one who had a hard time making friend the one who everyone felt bad for. And the one who everyone picked on the one, who everone thought was gay. The one ...

A.   4 December 2010: It is normal to feel insecure about your looks at 14 and as for people making fun of you, I think most of us got that in some form in school. There will always be people to make fun of you in this life. The question is what do you do about it. It ... (read in full...)

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