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writes:Okay my girlfriend and i have been together for 4 months since about September and we were amazing together i couldn't think about being with anyone else. She told me that she loved me and i loved her she didn't want to lose me and felt the same way. once January rolled around we were happy about start the new year off together we spent new years day together and we were happy as usual. Then she wanted to go out again and she was really sick at the time and i said maybe we shouldn't i said i don't want you to go out if your not feeling good and she said okay then we won't go. Then she was getting better and i noticed she wouldn't hold on my hand anymore or kiss me. I want to go do something with her so bad but she turned me down every time and went with her friends instead. I was always calling her she never called me anymore. That continued until February then she called me and said my name in a serious tone and said i think we should break up i didn't take it so well i just broke down. I asked her why and she said she doesn't feel the same anymore and that we grew apart. Now i want her back so bad what should i do? (i treated her so good) Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2011): This happened, because she's not your 'one.' I thank God each day that a situation similar to this happened to me, because it was meant to free me such that I would be available for the most beautiful true love of all. The pain was well worth it, and if I had to relive the pain a trillion times over to unite with My Angel I would. Remember, everything happens for a substantially better reason. Know this. You are going to feel a love like you have never felt before...aaaahhh...le sigh. God Bless.
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reader, A_D_T_R +, writes (9 February 2011):
A_D_T_R is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i talk to her still but i dont talk about us breaking up. i talk to her in a calm tone i dont freak out and start asking a bunch of questions because i know thats the wrong thing to do. who knows one day she might realize what she lost and come crawling back because thats happened to me before. thanks for the feedback
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reader, answerlessdreams +, writes (9 February 2011):
It could possibly be that there is another person in the picture. Its not your fault and you shouldn't feel upset.. She has. It seems she is not even willing to return your calls. It's game over. You should accept it and move on. There are tons of women out there. If you know you did everything you could, it just wasn't meant to be. Keep being a man who treats women right. One will find you and will love you!
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reader, missyfit +, writes (9 February 2011):
 Hello,Your story reminds me so much of 500 days of summer (sorry, i was watching it today; maybe you should watch it!). I bet you treated her well, but feelings change as time goes on... I know it might be hard for you to move on because you're still in love with her... but you can't change her feelings if she already made them. You said she won't kiss or hold your hand anymore. That's a sign that she doesn't want to be as close to you as you were before. You are still young and there are so many great girls out there for you, but you just have to search! Trust me, you will go through heartbreaks and you might break someone's heart too. (that's a fact) Don't be scared to find another girl and fall in love again. Best of luck!
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