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I have feelings for my cousins girlfriend. Please help!

Q.   Here's one for you... 6 months ago i was introduced to my cousin's girlfriend, no big deal. coincidentally, i started work at the same place as her, we quickly became friends, sharing all the same geeky interests like computer games. M...

A.   9 December 2007: wow... a year on and everything has changed, what a loser i was! she showed her true colors as a player in the end, and both myself and my cousin now look back and laugh! my advice for anyone in a similar situation: Girls come and go, fa... (read in full...)

What is the most romantic way to ask my GF of 12 years to marry me?

Q.   I want to ask my GF of 12yrs to marry me. What is the most romantic way to go about doing this? Thanks!...

A.   16 October 2006: oh wow good on ya mate, hope it all goes well, my advice for the proposal malarky is think about what really brought you two together, a certain hobby? a classic movie? draw inspiration from them, and come up with something that best symbolyses your ... (read in full...)

I really like him and can't stop thinking about him but he doesn't like me back!!

Q.   I like this guy and i cant stop thinking about him, but the thing is i know he doesnt like me back, but i cant get over him, no matter how many other guys i have found, i still only want to be with him, but he doesnt feel the same, i dont understand ...

A.   16 October 2006: u know what? im in the exact same position at the moment with a girl. my advise, is just get out there and do you best to forget him, it wont be easy, no one said it would be, but you need to turn your head away from him and look to the future, c... (read in full...)

When someone is drunk are they likely to be more honest or to lie? What do you think?

Q.   When someone is drunk are they likely to be more honest or to lie?...

A.   16 October 2006: my experience with drink usually amplifies my emotions so... i like you + drink = i lurve youuu i dont like you + drink = what are you lookin at? wanker! i have ruined a few early relationships with girls i liked but didn't want... (read in full...)

Does this all mean he is going to or want to take things further?

Q.   If a bloke fancies you and flirts with you from time to time when he sees you, does it necessarily mean that he's going to try and take things further. So far with this person I have experienced over the last two years (arm round the shoulder (on...

A.   16 October 2006: i wouldn't get too carried away if i was you, it could just be casual flirting, if you like the guy try and get to know him a little better, and find out if he's just being friendly. i myself am a flirty single bloke, and i flirt with all sorts o... (read in full...)

He is taking everything so slow but I want it to speed up abit!!

Q.   I have been with my boyfriend for about a year now--depending on when you count the relationship as starting. I don't see him very often because he lives 30 minutes away, and our schedules don't usually allow it. I see him about 1-3 times a month. ...

A.   16 October 2006: wow. i have to say there aren't many men on the planet that like to take things slow, has he been hurt greatly in a past relationship? if so he might be worried about messing things up. He must care alot about you, if it was anything siniste... (read in full...)

I really like this girl but my friend has liked her for longer...what do I do??

Q.   i like a girl n she might like me but one of my friends has liked her longer what should i do? and when i mean like her i think about her non stop please help me ...

A.   16 October 2006: i was in the same position as your friend once, i was absolutly crazy about a girl, then like a punch in the face, my best friend started dating her. not only were my feelings for her shattered, but i began to question my 'best' friendship, mont... (read in full...)

Does anyone have any tips on how to swallow?

Q.   Hi everybody After a conversation with my bf he mentioned that he would like me to swallow. i have never done this before and was wondering if anyone has any tips. When i take him in my mouth i sometimes gag a lil bit he makes me feel really r...

A.   11 October 2006: hang on i read something about different foods changing the taste, healthy foods are best, like bananas. other than that, it just takes practice i guess? i used to hate the taste of brussel sprouts, but you get used to them, right?... (read in full...)

My bf can't control his expenditures and I end up bailing him out! This is getting to me..what can I do?

Q.   I am in a great relationship with this man. It has recently dawned on me that since day one of our relationship, I've had to pay one thing or another for him, sometimes his car has a problem, debts from people, put fuel in the car, buy lunch, buy ...

A.   11 October 2006: it seems like he needs financial advice, and you need relationship advice, i think it would be best if you sat down together and added up all your incomes and outcomes together. If marriage is on the line he needs to realise that he will have a f... (read in full...)

I have feelings for my cousins girlfriend. Please help!

Q.   Here's one for you... 6 months ago i was introduced to my cousin's girlfriend, no big deal. coincidentally, i started work at the same place as her, we quickly became friends, sharing all the same geeky interests like computer games. M...

A.   11 October 2006: had a chat with her, and i suggested we put alot of space between us, it hurt her alot i know, and doing that to her felt cutting off my own arm, but i know its for the best, thank you for your replies. i guess this space will tell if my feelings... (read in full...)

Got turned on watching two dogs making out. Am I zoophile?

Q.   Felt kinda horny when i saw two dogs making out in a local park. Does this make me a zoophile? :S...

A.   10 October 2006: dont really know myself, was it the dogs that turned you on, or just the thought of the sex?... (read in full...)

Why can't I find a boyfriend? Maybe I should try girls instead.

Q.   Hi eveyone. I've got a bit of a problem. Well I'm 18 and I've NEVER had a boyfriend. However, I am not a virgin. I have only been with 4 guys since losing my virginity last year. The guys I have been with have not been my boyfriends. As I said ...

A.   10 October 2006: hey, i myself have had zero 'proper' relationships, i realise that both of us must be doing something wrong, but through all my experience the internet isn't allways the best place to find respectable people. i think maybe your rushing into things ... (read in full...)

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