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Help for the mentally abused...

Q.   I've made a few posts on here about my relationship problems and while the feedback was helpful I still look for other help. Read books, look at other websites and I've come to the conclusion being that my relationship is so unhealthy I decided ...

A.   7 September 2011: Yeah believe me I am trying. Haven't had any contact with him since last weekend and I am not going to contact him unless it's about clearing out the rest of my stuff. Until then I am just trying to let my mind calm down. I got plenty of things ... (read in full...)

Is it normally to feel physically sick after a break up?

Q.   Is it normal to feel ill, after being hurt in your relationship i nearly split up with my boyfriend tonight, and i started shaking feeling sick, going cold it felt like i had the flu. I had a cup of tea at the side of me and could hardly pick it up ...

A.   7 September 2011: I am going through something similar. My BF of 8 years and I got into heated argument last Saturday and I still feel sick to my stomach. I don't know where our relationship is going I just know that I do care for him a lot and feel as tho I've ... (read in full...)

Why is he so committed and so confident that our LDR can last the distance until we can be together?

Q.   I'm in an LDR relationship which has gone on for about two years. We have met and want to see each other again. Problem is, there is a huge distance between us, and it will be another four years perhaps even longer until we can live closer to e...

A.   4 September 2011: I don't know if this helps or not but I am in the opposite seat. I have been in a ldr for over a year and no plan on when for sure we'll be living together. I love him he says he loves me but I am more optimistic than him. We don't live as far ... (read in full...)

How to let go of anger in a relationship?

Q.   Question. Is it right to continue to hold onto hatred for someone in a relationship if you're honestly wanting to move forward? And any suggestions to help let go of pass issues? Dilemma's over an 8 year relationship has spread us in two. We...

A.   3 September 2011: Yes I completely agree. I have been trying to tackle the issues one at a time. Sometimes he's more receptive and I am openly understanding or try to be of how he see's it but he can't honestly understand why I see things the way I do. I don't ... (read in full...)

Its hard to fix a problem when we can't talk about it!

Q.   Me and my man have been together for 8 years. I've been posting different questions/problems to figure out some sort of clarity on what I need to do. He has 3 kids I have 2. Currently we live long distance. We have a huge communication problem. ...

A.   29 August 2011: Yes I completely agree with what you've said. I do feel as tho I have to walk on egg shells. There seems to be no way to bring up anything without him taking it the wrong way. I can try to bring up what we need to do to fix things or what I can ... (read in full...)

I feel like I'm losing my mind because of my cheating boyfriend!

Q.   I met this guy 8 months ago, things went really fast and I fell so in love with him and unfortunately still am despite the hurt he gave me. After a month of being with him I discovered he lied about a few things and I made it clear that I wan...

A.   29 August 2011: I agree with the previous posts. You have to move on no matter how much you really care for this person because if you put up with too long it's not only going to continue to make you crazy it's going to affect your health as well. There are plenty ... (read in full...)

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