My husband wants a three-some. Is that normal?
Q. My husband of 15 yrs and I always had great sex. Two years ago he made a statement that upset me. He said he wanted to have another woman join us because he has been with the same girl for 13 years. He says he loves me and just wants to add ...
A. 15 June 2010: he said it 2 years ago and its still on your mind, i think its time for a good old chat with your husband. i think he needs to know how you are feeling and hopefully he will reasure you. i wouldnt say its normal. my dad has had 2 relation... (read in full...)
I feel guilty about him being in jail for choking me
Q. I am trying to figure out why I feel guilty, Makes no since other then I have feelings. I put my X-Boyfriend in jail for choking me,come to find out he had been doing Meth and cheating on top of all the mental abuse. He would tell me that I had pr...
A. 12 June 2010: i went through this same thing a couple of years ago.
the thing is at the time i felt the same as you. i even helped him out by saying i forgave him at his hearing. the thing is i was in love with him then. ive had time to heal now and im not any ... (read in full...)
Husband wants to attend ex-father-in-law's funeral!
Q. My husband wants to attend the funeral of his ex-father in law. I feel very strongly that he should not. He wasn't particularly close to him but says he should do it out of respect. I would feel very uncomfortable going with him as I have met most...
A. 10 June 2010: i actually see your point about you not being allowed to go. but its an impossible situation. if he was friends with this man then he should go, but as his wife you are not welcome which isnt nice for you, add to that it is his ex wifes dad i feel ... (read in full...)
Husband wants to attend ex-father-in-law's funeral!
Q. My husband wants to attend the funeral of his ex-father in law. I feel very strongly that he should not. He wasn't particularly close to him but says he should do it out of respect. I would feel very uncomfortable going with him as I have met most...
A. 10 June 2010: you have mentioned bad feeling between all but the dead man and your husband. is there a chance that the person who is being buried was good to your husband over time and there was no bad feeling during the divorce. if so then there is no reason why ... (read in full...)
Do I dig and dig and get to the bottom of it all, or leave it for an easy life?
Q. Should I tell my fiance what I know, or leave it? OK this is a bit convuluted so bear with me. I met my fiance James through a friend from work called Lisa. I knew Lisa for a few years before meeting her friend James and, as you do at work, she ...
A. 9 June 2010: dont dig, instead focus your energy into friendships that you and your husband to be can involve yourself in that are not questionable.
this man is likely to be a cheat if you trust your friend. a husband with a friend that is a cheat is a disc... (read in full...)
How do I know whether to believe my fiance?? I found 100's of porn and dating sites, but he blames a virus!
Q. Well basicly last night i accidently stumbled across porn that had been viewed on the computer...I had to know where it had come from so i looked and it was from my fiances acount...hoping i'd made a mistake i checked again and to my horror found ...
A. 9 June 2010: since my pornaholic ex husband left i got a new computor and to be honest im astonished at what i didnt realise . what these people say is true . you dont get pop ups without going to the sites first.
i abandoned the net for 2 years thinking it was ... (read in full...)
Terminate pregnancy by unknown father?
Q. hope i can get some advice here as hav no1 to talk to and am a bit embaressed...i am a singal mother ov 2 kids who are 9 and 6 we have a great life go away all the time and very settled i work as an escort to pay 4 our gud life as there dad left us ...
A. 9 June 2010: dont terminate your pregnancy on this basis .
you dont owe your family the truth , simply an explaination. you are a grown woman , what you do is your business.
keep your child. tell your family you were dating and it was an accident and you left... (read in full...)
Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 7 June 2010: i also want to mention that i didnt mention my ex for sympathy , i was trying to point out that i know violence is wrong as ive been on the recieving end, and i labelled him and thought i was better than him and to all ends i wanted to know if i am ... (read in full...)
Wondering if I could get a second opinion?
Q. I was wondering if i could get a second opinion on a situation that has just happened to me. I told my boyfriend i was upset that he was staring at a girl and asked him to stop. He got very angry at me saying that he had not. I remained calm and...
A. 7 June 2010: wow! erm well im a little taken aback by the assumptions made. and even more so at the depth of fire made at me based on those assumptions.
where to start , ok well first i dont constantly acuse him of looking at other girls. i get upset if i thin... (read in full...)
Will someone interpret the Bebo dialogue I had with this boy?
Q. Okay so there's this guy, well we would flirt a lot, then again he flirts with a lot of girls. So he texted me for the first time the other day, this is kind of how it went: W= him B=me W: hey B:hey W:how's your summer been? B: fun so f...
A. 6 June 2010: he likes you , you are a tough cookie :)... (read in full...)
What is the fastest way to get toned?
Q. What is the fastest way to get toned? I have 2 weeks to get my entire body toned and I was just wondering what are the best exercises to do to target everywhere on the body, how long/many times should I do them? And should I run? Thank you!...
A. 6 June 2010: heavy wieghts will get definition even under fat . use short bursts of heavy wieghts.
but any wieght loss will be good if you are not already under athlectic fat mass. either way cardio will help get you fit and lose the fat covering any toned musc... (read in full...)
Why do most men like big boobs so much?
Q. Why do most men (especially guys my age...) like big boobs so much? As I see it, it's just extra fat! And last time I checked, for men, too much fat is bad. I have small breasts and feel so inadequate. Breasts are so "out there" (unlike a penis ...
A. 6 June 2010: ive got bigguns and i wish they were small, not because "men stare at them " blah blah blah but because im slim and they look wierd on me and i wish i could wear fashinable clothes without looking like a tent . i also think they dont look cute and ... (read in full...)
Do some women have their menstruation while pregnant?!
Q. Hi all! :) I would just like to know.. According to teachings about the menstrual cycle.. It was clearly stated why women can not have their periods while they are pregnant and now on the internet when its asked.. People say its possible to have you...
A. 6 June 2010: in my first pregnancy i had my period for the first 5 months so i didnt have a clue i was pregnant .
if you eat lots then you can gain wight faster than the pregnancy develops . if you eat right then you stomach beomes firm without gaining more... (read in full...)
Is this cheating or what?
Q. i have a girlfriend and shes amazing i love her, but this other girl kinda likes me and i like her back but thats not the point, with this girl i can talk freely because a few weeks back something happened and it stuck its funny but i think now its ...
A. 6 June 2010: yuo say something happened and now its getting worse. whatever it is you are talking about im sure your girlfriend will see it as cheating.... (read in full...)
Why is she keeping me away from her friends?
Q. My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost 6 months now and have a strong, loving relationship. We live in a small community (both work within the school corporation), so alot of people in the community know we're dating. Yet, she refuses to ...
A. 6 June 2010: its been a year for me and my boyfriend still hasnt introduced me to his friends. and i have an ex who used to swing backwards and forwards between me and his friends like a man with an affair .
what ive learnt is that either they like to talk down... (read in full...)
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