Should I be concerned ? He came home from his class, wearing cologne
Q. My boyfriend is a self defense instructor at our gym. He teaches an hour class one evening each week voluntarily. I noticed this evening that he came home from his class, wearing cologne. This is the first time that I have ever noticed him wea...
A. 12 January 2017: Thank you!! He actually came directly home from the class. His colonge was at our condo...So it's not like he has it on him.... (read in full...)
My head is turning! how do stop this?
Q. I have been in a relationship for over 3 years. Our relationship has always been a bit turbulent. We have had issues as all relationships will suffer through from time to time, but we have always stuck it out and gotten through. We lived toget...
A. 29 November 2016: She captivated you because she's new and you have no issues or conflict with her...
The grass isn't greener. She might not have the same issues as your girlfriend but she will have her own set of problems. Pick your poison.... (read in full...)
He told me that he is falling in love with me but is he just trying to get into my pants?
Q. I've been friends and getting to know this guy for a month now. We hang out and he messages me everyday through text without fail. So two days ago we were texting because both of us were about to go to bed, before he says goodnight he say...
A. 28 November 2016: Honestly, and this is exclusively my personal opinion, love, true love, isn't a feeling, it's a choice, an action... something we do. A verb. The "feeling" of "love" is just a fruit of genuine love. Well, I also believe that anything is possible... (read in full...)
My brother's ex' has put a hook in me
Q. So here's my dilemma. I have fallen for my brother's ex-girlfriend. I am a 24-year-old male who has not really experienced a lot of romance in my life up to this point. However, I have never felt this way about a woman in my life and I feel terri...
A. 11 August 2016: There are over 7,000,000,000 on this planet...So I wouldn't go there. It's really not wise.... (read in full...)
Should I be offended by these comments?
Q. So recently I got a job offer in another city about five hours away from where me and my partner are both living together. Anyway so received feedback and I never got the job because I wasn't enthusiastic enough. Before my interview my boyfriend...
A. 11 August 2016: I would definitely not be offended. Was your boyfriend a little pessimistic, maybe, but I don't see his remark at all being one of not believing in you and your competency to land the position. It seems he was just making a logical comment, even ... (read in full...)
Has he used the "love" word too soon? Am I reading too much into his message? We've been casually dating for three months.
Q. A guy I've been casually dating for the past 3 months told me that he is thankful to have me in his life...and he has "nothing but love for me." This was in response to me messaging him on Thanksgiving letting him know that I'm grateful to have met...
A. 6 December 2014: Thank you so much!!! Both of you. And I completely and totally agree.... (read in full...)
I am not an ogler. I am a red blooded man who appreciates beauty, but only wants my partner!
Q. I am totally in love with my girlfriend of two years and we are both 35. The only problem is that when we go out she watches me like a hawk and if she sees me looking an attractive woman then she has a go at me. If a scantily dressed attractive ...
A. 20 January 2011: You actually sound like a pretty decent, well educated dude. And thank you for not bashing your girlfriend. It shows character. I too am in a VERY similar predicament. In fact, your entire question is practically an exact reflection of my ... (read in full...)
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