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Do you think we have a future??

Q.   I need to know if there is an answer to my question, me and my ex broke up last september because he cheated on me with another women with whom he is still seeing. He came here tonight and we had sex, not the first time, we do have sex regularl...

A.   15 February 2008: There is no future with him! He is using you!!!! You deserve a man who isn't going to get up and leave you to stay with another woman. You are better than that tell him to get lost and I bet you will feel a lot better...... (read in full...)

Help before monday please.

Q.   I have been seperated from my ex for a year. he has stopped paying maintainence and now he wants to take our 21 month old daughter out with his new girlfriend (who i do not know) do i have the right to stop him from taking our daughter out....

A.   15 February 2008: If the only reason you are keeping your daughter from your ex is because of the way he treated you in the past or because he hurt you and you have yet to move on then yes it is wrong! I am not saying that I disagree with you cause I have been there ... (read in full...)

Am I gay???

Q.   hi im a young lad in my twentys and i have a female partner and a son. we were having sex a few weeks ago and she decided to slip a finger up my back passage, i didnt mind as i am open to try new things, but now im confused because i want her...

A.   15 February 2008: I think you found something that makes you feel good and as long as you & your other are ok with it there is probably nothing more behind it! ... (read in full...)

Heartbroken and confused...

Q.   Hello. I'm finding it really hard to cope losing my girlfriend. She ended our relationship Tuesday because she was not happy but I really love her. If we were still together today it would of been 14 months and 2 weeks. I love her so much my heart ...

A.   15 February 2008: I agree with askeve you can't heal if you guys dont cut ties for a while. It's so hard to do believe me I know but time is what you need so do yourself a favor and take a step back you'll see that you are going to be okay. Best of luck........ (read in full...)

She is sending me mixed signals, EH?

Q.   there is a girl that in my class and i like her. my friends and her say she doesn't like me. but she always stares at me in class treats me differently, plays mean and makes attmempts to touch me. she smiles around me and yet treats me playfully ...

A.   15 February 2008: She digs you for sure!... (read in full...)

I don't want her to end up heartbroken like me

Q.   I have a big problem...my ex nows has a nice and very sweet new girlfriend...and it just breaks my heart to see him treat he wrong...i mean he has tried to sleep with my while he has been with her..and he says he's in love with her..but still texts ...

A.   12 February 2008: There is nothing you can do but distance yourself from him and her delete his number and hope she figures it out before he really hurts her.... (read in full...)

15 and wanting children

Q.   hey guys im 15 years old and i really want children, i have a part time job in year 10. when im not working or going to school im watchen childrena and i have been since i was 8 years old id cook dinner clean the house. the ages i normaly whatch in ...

A.   12 February 2008: What you want at fifteen will be a thing of the past at sixteen, seventeen, eightteen... I'm sure you see where I am going with this. I had a child at nineteen and I stayed with her father for six yrs mind you six yrs that I should of been in ... (read in full...)

Weak for him

Q.   i miss my ex.i see him everyday,everytime i see i burn inside.we'd never work out,i know i cant and i shouldnt go back to him,but im afraid ,everytime he decides he wants me back i always run back to him,always.if he were to come to me ,im afraid ...

A.   12 February 2008: You are a perfectly normal teenager going thru a breakup and you are learning as you go. There isnt much advice that I can give you other than with time these feelings will fade and remember you were okay before him and you will find new love! ... (read in full...)

Loving somebody who is afraid

Q.   Fear is one of the most potent human emotions that there is; it's one of the most pervasive there is because it is rooted in our survival instincts, in other words our subconscious mind. In the dim distant past fear would have saved many a early ...

A.   12 February 2008: Wow that was amazing... I am in a very loving relationship with a great person but I was in a bad one before. I am going to email this to my bf because this really is great great advise! Thank you so much... ... (read in full...)

Afraid what others will think if I get back with him

Q.   My boy friend broke up with me 4 days ago, but then called me. We had a long talk and he told me how much he missed me and how I was the only one for him. All my friends tell me to let go because I deserve a better guy, but I think I still like him. ...

A.   12 February 2008: My best friend of eleven yrs would break up with her boyfriend at least once or twice a week then she would get back with him. Every conversation we had was about him and how he was a jerk and she hated him then guess what? The next day they were ... (read in full...)

15 and Pregnant!

Q.   It was a thought that day the doctor gave me the news. I was sitting in the lonely waiting room there was about 4 or 5 people there. No one talking to anyone...just looking at the posters on the wall and glancing out the corner of their eye at ...

A.   12 February 2008: It sounds like you are on the right path now and your advise is good. Being a pregnant teen is lonely and scary I know I was nineteen and didnt tell my family for six months and everyday I was walking on eggshells and constantly stressed but I had ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend is perfect, how can I stop worrying about our relationship?

Q.   How do I stop obsessing about my current relationship? I am involved with an absolutely wonderful guy and I know part of the problem is ME! I sometimes feel like he's way out of my league. He's incredibly smart, funny, interesting and comes from a ...

A.   12 February 2008: I know exactly how you feel and rcn is right everyone looks at you differently! You are going to destroy your relationship if you continue to be so insecure loving someone so much is the scariest feeling in the world but also the best. Let him love ... (read in full...)

After 5 years together my boyfriend is losing interest, what can I do?

Q.   After 5 yrs together my boyfriend seems to have gone off me. I look the same and am the same person. We were so close once although we have had problems but now he says he no longer loves or fancies me but then at other times he shows me affection ...

A.   12 February 2008: Five years is a long time but he was going thru a serious situation and you happend to cross his path at the right time. When you love someone it's hard to let go but you should not let him treat you this way. You need to walk away and let him go ... (read in full...)

I used to love clubs , now I'm dating a muslim and have changed, but will I regret this?

Q.   i think i have a problem but i dont really no. me and my boyfreind have been together for almost a year and a half, i want to be with him for the rest of my life, he has changed my life so much for the better. heres the problem, before i met him...

A.   12 February 2008: You are young and have a lot to experience. The fact that you are having doubts already is probably a sign that you are not ready. I know that you are in love but marrige is a huge step and if you are not sure then maybe you need to re-think it. ... (read in full...)

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