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writes:hi im a young lad in my twentys and i have a female partner and a son. we were having sex a few weeks ago and she decided to slip a finger up my back passage, i didnt mind as i am open to try new things, but now im confused because i want her to do it all the time and its confusing me as to what my sexuality is. has anyone else had an experience of this or can anyone help in any way. kind regards anonymous Reply to this Question
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reader, gayguy16 +, writes (13 April 2008):
 yeah,,,a had to come bak to your question, thinking about a male sexually, is different to what your situation is,do u think ov other men like you do women????the you shoud get your answer
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reader, gayguy16 +, writes (2 March 2008):
like most things its like being stereo-typical ov something, enjoy, and don't worry,
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reader, AJ2000  +, writes (17 February 2008):
You liked it because it felt good - not because you're necessarily gay. But if you think That felt good, next time try cleaning up and having her doing some oral back there. Guaranteed you will be even more amazed.
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reader, jamiej +, writes (17 February 2008):
 think you're confusing sexually exciting and gay here mate.you don't have to be gay to like anal, and being gay doesn't mean you automatically like anal either - there are plenty of gay men out there who don't! Gay means being attracted to other men, you clearly aren't!you just found something you'd never done before to be exciting - if you enjoy it, and ur girlfriend does, then there's no problem.I'd stop worrying about your mis-conceptions of homosexuality, and worry more about enjoying yourself!
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reader, Dr Vendetta +, writes (15 February 2008):
 OH NO!!! YOU ENJOY ANAL STIMULATION!!!AHH A HOMO!! EVERYBODY GRAB YOUR FLAMING TORCHES AND PITCH FORKS AND LETS CHASE HIM DOWN TO THE OLD WINDMILL.You are like the above statement.Over reacting. why does the enjoyment of anal stimulation mean you have to be gay? thats pretty narrow minded.i know many people who are married and they let their wives proform certain anal acts. be it finger. toys or a strap on.Why do you HAVE to be gay to do that?
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reader, amber2328 +, writes (15 February 2008):
 I think you found something that makes you feel good and as long as you & your other are ok with it there is probably nothing more behind it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008): its normal because thats where teh male g spot is down that way, so I wouldn't worry about it too much. you would be amazed at how many guys like that sort of thing but then again like I said thats the way of the male g spot. If you've never had any desire to have sex with a man then don't worry about it.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (15 February 2008):
 Sweetness,
You are not gay. If you've never been interested in having sexual relations with a male, or engaging in any sexual activity - then you're not gay. Even if you've maybe thought about it once or twice, that doesn't make you gay, it makes you curious.
Let me tell you something. Did you know that men have a "g-spot" in their bums? That's right, having someone slip a finger in is AMAZING for men - my boyfriend loves me doing it! Your prostate is back there and it feels amazing when stroked. YOU ARE TOTALLY NORMAL!
And to assure you of such, I have hooked you up with some websites that can tell you more about it.
http://www.askmen.com/love/vanessa/23_love_secrets.html
http://sexuality.about.com/od/analplay/ht/htprostate.htm
Enjoy getting to know yourself, sweetness. I assure you that you're TOTALLY TOTALLY NORMAL.
xx India
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reader, findingme67 +, writes (15 February 2008):
 Well my friend is openly gay and he shows no sign towards wanting to have any sexual realation with a girl. He once told me that he has a friend that is gay who enjoys anal sex. I didn't think it was possible to like women, but like recieving anal, but there are some cases. You might be bisexual, but I doubt it. I think you would have started to consider men along time ago if you were even bi. Personally, I would stick to this woman, she obviously gives you EVERYTHING that you want ;)
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