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Im one of those people who is usualy out spoken about everything i do. but there are sometimes where i hold it in. so if u need any advice i will try to give it as best as i can.

Why all the tension???

Q.   I dont quite get this. Ok theres a guy in my class and when we're alone we talk fine, we're along some morning if we;re there before the others. However when other people come in the room he goes quiet n doesnt talk to me like he used to. He will ...

A.   28 July 2009: thats sounds like the guy i was crushing on. i hate it to dont worry! like we were totally fine when we were by ourselves but when his friends or his brother would come around he is a total jerk.until he wants something. and when our friends are ... (read in full...)

She wants to have sex with no strings but I'm not sure I can do that.

Q.   A girl i met and have been talking to as friends wants to be my first time having sex but doesnt want a relationship and just wants to be friends with benefits at least for the time being. She has said she would possibly date me in the future but i ...

A.   28 July 2009: ok first of all is she a virgin too?... (read in full...)

Will I ever get over the fear of being intamate? I can't kiss

Q.   Ok, i dont know whats wrong with me! I hate getting close to dudes, like being in a relationship. I cant stand the thought of having to be intimate with another person. Like ye sex looks good, but i can never imagine myself doing that kind of stuff ...

A.   28 July 2009: of course you will. you just have to meet the right guy. that you trust completely. and you and just relax and be comfortable around. thats you. you just havent meet the right guy yet, but he is out there.... (read in full...)

I'm scared that my friends will hate me if I date him.

Q.   i am really in love with this guy, and he really loves me. but we're not together because i am scared. he split up with his girlfriend (one of my best friends) a few months ago, and i am scared all my other friends will judge me if we start seeing ...

A.   28 April 2009: date him! its your choice not their's and if they are your true friends they will understand. and if you guys brake up then they should be there for you and if not than they are not your true friends.... (read in full...)

Why do good things always have to end?

Q.   Hi, well i was wondering and i don't think there is a right answer to this but how come a majority of good things end? Like everything will be going great and then all the sudden everything goes bad....

A.   3 April 2009: well thats how i feel about life all the time... like u wake and say "hey this is going to be a good day" than everything goes bad.... or like u go out for a night of fun and then the next day is just the most shittiest day of your life....... (read in full...)

I want to enjoy sex with my bf...But it hurts!

Q.   Hi - got a sex problem. Not a long one, kinda simple really, but it kinda prooving to be a bit of a big problem. Have been going out with a new guy and we've started having sex. I really like him. The foreplay is really good and I get really ...

A.   3 April 2009: okay well ive been sleeping with this guy who is 6ft 2inchs. and im only 5ft nothing. and im about a size 9-11. what we do because he has a really big dick too is when do alot of foreplay! like ill suck his dick and he'll finger me until he can get ... (read in full...)

How do I put my daughter on birth control without looking as if I'm OK with underage sex.

Q.   I am I single father of a 16 year old daughter. Last week she had her "boy"friend over and they were watching a movie, she calls him her boyfriend but I never seen them as a couple because she is so young. I left to do some work outside and when...

A.   13 March 2009: i wouldnt go with the shot,the ring or the patch! go with the pill...or even the stuff they sale at wal-mart its called Encare...it works really good. but yeah dont do the shot,the ring or the patch...but how u get her started on it is u tell her ... (read in full...)

Should I ask him if he's single?

Q.   This guy I like flirts with me all the time and I flirt back because he is cute, funny and brainy, he has asked me round to his flat next weekend to watch a DVD, kiss and a cuddle he says, the problem is I thnk he has a girlfriend and she is out of ...

A.   16 January 2009: ask one of his friends about it... or just flat out say hey are u single or not and be like [if ure fine with it] than be like im okay with it if u are i just want to know... (read in full...)

Fishy smell?

Q.   if i have a fishy like smell what to do...

A.   17 December 2008: do buy your self some douche and summers eve feminine wash and if that doesnt help see your dr.... (read in full...)

How can I masturbate better?

Q.   How can i masturbate better? i mean i cant look on anyother websites to find new ways to because my mum will look on the history and see it. I was hoping you could tell me some ways to masturbate without sending any links. thanks for the help. xxx...

A.   14 December 2008: watch a porn while you masturbate... it helps me out alot... (read in full...)

This relationship has me so messed up! HELP!

Q.   i really need some help im in year 12 and i had a boyfriend for 2 years who im pretty sure was my first love in the first year of our relationship we had so much fun and couldnt get enough of each other and spent all of our time together and he...

A.   13 December 2008: honestly it sounds like he has a control issue... but thats the drinking and sex talking.... when he starts getting nasty with you about that one guy through it back in his face about the other girls he was fooling around with while you too we... (read in full...)

Is it the guy's fault?????

Q.   Is it really a guy's fault when you cry even if they're not around or even know it... even if you haven't hung out with them for a really long time... and thinking about your guy's past you had together... Does it get sad/stalkerish if you have to ...

A.   13 December 2008: thanks alot... from what u told me about boys waiting for a girl like me im going to start looking :]... (read in full...)

How can I attract guys? What's wrong with me? Am I that repulsive?

Q.   My name is Kristen and I havn't had a boyfriend in so long ever since freshman year of highschool (I'm twenty years old and a junior in college). Ever since then,my self-esteem has gone even lower than before. I'm think I'm too short (I'm 4'5"),I'm ...

A.   12 December 2008: well im with you on the self-esteem i dont have any... im only about 5'1" and i weigh alot more than i should for my age...im only 15 and not all guys or actaully none do, they just want down my pants & thats it...but when i feel hard for this one ... (read in full...)

I opened the bedroom door and found my boyfriend making out with the birthday girl!!!!

Q.   I'm at full time work and because of it I don't get to see to my boyfriend very often. Well one night I went to a friend's party. I didn't ask my bf to come because he doesn't really know my friends and I thought it would awkward for him. Long story ...

A.   12 December 2008: Straight up comfront him about it and if he tries denying it say yeah well I saw you doing it!!... (read in full...)

Do girls like giving oral sex?

Q.   Do girls actually enjoy giving oral sex? Or do they feel obligated to do it?...

A.   28 October 2008: i dont mind it. expect when a guys sperm tastes sour. thats when u know you have something wrong.but normaly i only do when its that time of the mouth or because we need to lighten up our fourplay... (read in full...)

Can someone please tell me what I really am to him? "Occasional" girlfriend? What should I do?

Q.   hi.. there's this guy that i've had something going on with, on and off for a while .. a year or two? and i mean 'going on'as in physically.. he was my first kiss and i was really into him BUT we never dated. he never asked. i never asked. and the ...

A.   28 October 2008: i have to agree with the one below me it sounds like a friends with benefits.ive been in one of those realtionships...its like youre in an actual realtionship but not.its not considered cheating.... (read in full...)

I think the only reason we havent hooked up is fear of rejection.

Q.   I have a boyfriend as of few weeks ago, but I like this guy who has a girlfriend of a few months, and I think he likes me too. I think the only reason he and I didn't hook up yet is because we're both afraid of rejection by the other, and we're ...

A.   28 October 2008: well you could start by telling your boyfriend that youre not happy and see where that goes, also he needs to do so with his girlfriend. than ask him to meet up with you somewhere and put all your feelings out there. or if youre too shy write him a ... (read in full...)

I really care about him but I am scared to love him because of what my ex did to me.

Q.   I was in love with my ex I cared deeply for him we broke up because he cheated on me... well one month later I moved on and I found someone new, I really care about him but I am scared to love him because of what my ex did to me... Why do I feel ...

A.   28 October 2008: you most likely feel that way because youre scared of having your heart and feelings/emotions played with. like when your ex would lie to you. youre probaly afriad that it might hpappen again. but some guys are different and some arent. but if you ... (read in full...)

Why do people get jealous of other people?

Q.   Why do people get jealous of other people?...

A.   28 October 2008: people get jealous of other people because they think that the other person has something that they dont. say like if you like a guy and starts flirting with someone else right infront of you and you just sit there like a good friend. but when youre ... (read in full...)

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