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I love her after two days, don't want to scare her, what do I say?

Q.   I really like a girl and i finally got the guts to tell her i like her she is a close friend and ex girlfriend to my best friend i don't talk to her at skool because we both hang around in different placs. she said it was sweet that i liked her and ...

A.   16 May 2009: Don't tell her yet. Give it time for you two to get to know each other a bit better over msn and if she will go out with you when you are done your exams... If you treat her right , make her feel like she is important and that you really care abo... (read in full...)

Can I date my best friends ex?

Q.   I’m in love with my best friends ex boyfriend, they broke up 6 weeks ago after a 22 month long relationship, and can I date him or not????? I have been her friend for 19 months since we started high school together. She was dating him since Gr.9. ...

A.   16 May 2009: It's a tough call. If the friendship is really important to you , you should talk to her first and see if she would be Ok with it.... (read in full...)

If we go on a date, should I shave my pubic hair, just in case?

Q.   ok i like this girl very much and i am sure that she has feelings for me bu the thing is is tha imsure if we every go out or even as friends she said t would be funto have sex together. as any boy im ok wih that but the thing is that i ...

A.   16 May 2009: Don't shave it unless she asks you to and if you don't mind doing it. I like when men shave their balls , and just trim the rest but then everyone likes something different.... (read in full...)

Why are older guys attracted to younger women?

Q.   Why are older guys attracted to younger women. And why are some younger girls attracted to older men? ANSWER MY QUESTION........PLZ!!!...

A.   14 May 2009: I'm not sure...but women mature faster than men do so many times it seems men a few years older have the same maturity as women a few years younger. ... (read in full...)

He loves me, but wants to be single....need advice to tame my alpha male

Q.   We have 4 kids and my husband wants to leave me :'( I am not looking for people to tell me he is not worth it so please just don't. I have heard it enough times and maybe it is true but I think he is. He sais he still loves me , but he wants...

A.   14 May 2009: We never had enough income to put some aside just in case like you always hear people say. Up until today basically he was paying the bills and supporting us , but around the time the other woman was texting me he said he was going to change his ... (read in full...)

Should be upset that after 2 years, my relationship was taken away just so that he could get his child back?

Q.   I need some advice. My boyfriend broke up with me only because his child's mother came back around and now the only way he can have custody of his son is to be with this woman. Let me remind you that she took him away from him by getting him ...

A.   14 May 2009: Yes , you should be upset but you also need to try and understand that it must have been a hard decision for him. It is very unreasonable of his ex to trap him like this and to have him arrested on top of that. (unless of course there was viol... (read in full...)

Oral sex problems....

Q.   my husband wants me to swallow but the taste is horrible...ive tried to get him to eat fruit but he doesnt like any kind of fruit...well here's the thing when he goes down on me he only licks my clit and never puts his tounge in me...if hes not ...

A.   14 May 2009: There are times I do it and I am so into it that I want that cum and am in full anticipation of it. Then there are times I just want to finish it and don't want to taste it , so when it is near the end I put it between my teeth and cheek so that ... (read in full...)

He had permission to get oral from somone else because I don't like doing it but now I'm having second thoughts!

Q.   Plz help. Ok this is my first time doing this,I really need some advice.So my bf of a lil over a year wants oral sex..I really don't like doing it,so I just tell him no bt we do have sex. Ok so a while back he had asked me to do it prior to u...

A.   14 May 2009: I would also be sceptical. I can't see a woman aggreeing to only do oral on him with nothing in return..unless he is paying her.. You should talk to him and let him know how you feel. If he is willing to stop seeing her if you start giving h... (read in full...)

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