I'm not sure if she likes me, but I'm very attracted to her. What can I say? What if she rejects me?
Q. Hello I am at presently passing through a very disturbed state of mind and I want a help from you. The reason is that I am in love with a girl whom I have started liking. I am in very deep love with this girl but she seem to never think abou...
A. 9 July 2005: You deserve the chance - that is why God allowed us same. You're inner spirit will tell you what is right. Follow Alison... (read in full...)
I think things went wrong right after I got with my friend's ex... Help. How do I fix things?
Q. I recently spilt with my boyfriend of 2 years (my choice) and got with someone else. We got on really well but then he dumped me due to problems with his ex. Anyway it all got sorted out and we said we would give it another go in the future. Whilst...
A. 9 July 2005: I can relate to the first part of your letter but to go with someone else in between events doesn't show loyalty. When things didn't work out you wanted back to what you saw as security meantime. Having your own security means no one else ... (read in full...)
I'm 14 and flirting with a married man
Q. Dear Agony Helper,
I am 14 years old and i work for my parents as
they own a chinese takeaway. There is also a guy who works for my parents
and he does the delivery. He is married and has 4 kids, he's in
his 40s....
A. 9 July 2005: Your feelings have deepened from flirtation to wanting and you are still so very very young. What a compliment for a guy like him but in reality if he were a man he would ward off any flirtuous behaviour by you and accept your age. To encourage ... (read in full...)
My wife won't give me a blowjob. She won't even talk about it!
Q. I am in a perfect relationship in every way except for one thing. I adore oral sex - nothing else quite does it for me - but I haven't had a complete blowjob for 3 years. When I first met my wife, she did it every time - she even swallowed. But afte...
A. 8 July 2005: All tells me if she has swallowed and has given the all something in her needs to please. Perhaps she feels she no longer wants to perform. She may want caressed and satisfied herself - rather than doing all the time. Pleasure is giving and ... (read in full...)
I'm tired of just lying there during sex. I want to know how to make it better for him!
Q. I am a 15yr old girl and I've had sex before and all but I still don't know what to do. I just lay there not doing any thing it was good and all but I want to know what way to move and how to pleasure a lad....
A. 8 July 2005: You know that you are breaking the law - perhaps that triggers unexplored emmotions like being under age - to know that making love is not an in thing - but a chemistry you have yet to feel. Pleasuring is for both sexes which you'll want when you ... (read in full...)
My partner manipulated me to feed gambling habit
Q. I have been in a relationship with a compulsive gambler for 21/2 years (I didn't realise until the past 6 months that he had a problem)
I am not a young and didn't think naive, I am a 37 year old professional but this man who I adore has mani...
A. 8 July 2005: His addiction is gambling - yours is a selfless love because of your needs which you should confront. When we go as far as to sell our homes to be with someone - we have a bigger problem than them. He left you. After all you did. But that ... (read in full...)
My bf is concentrating so hard, he can't climax. What do we do?
Q. My new boyfriend has trouble reaching orgasm with me. He claims that it is because he likes me too much and gets too worried during sex. He says he's focusing too hard or thinking too hard. I've told him gently that all I care about is enjoying...
A. 8 July 2005: I'd leave the actual sex act alone. Massaging is both erotic for the massager and the partner receiving a massage and relaxing for both. What bliss to be in second heaven with your partner with no performance to be expected. Just total ease ... (read in full...)
How can I find out if my friend's brother actually likes me?
Q. I've known my best friend since kindergarten and we are now in 9th grade. She is one of 5 kids and her oldest brother is a year older than me. I really like him and I think that he likes me too, but I dont know for sure. I don't know what to do. I ...
A. 8 July 2005: When we like someone we unconsiously or in some cases consiously act differently towards that person than we do with others. Our inter actions stick out a mile - perhaps that is why you think he likes you too. However, it's not such a good idea to ... (read in full...)
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