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Married with Children but in love with a friend...is it worth my marriage to be with him?

Q.   im married with two children but im in love with a friend of mine, im sure he would be with me too if i wasnt married and had my life sorted. i just dont no what to do i want to be with him so much. but is it worth losing my marrage?...

A.   6 December 2005: PERSONALLY, I THINK THAT WHEN YOU GET MARRIED AND MAKE THAT COMMITMENT, THAN YOU SHOULD KEEP THAT COMMITMENT!!! ITS OKAY TO LOVE ANOTHER PERSON, BUT DONT DO SOMETHING DUMB!! THIS IS SIMPLE ADVICE, BUT I HOPE THAT IT HELPS!!!... (read in full...)

My bf is physically abusing me and has threatened to kill me. My kids and I need to get away...I am terrified-please help me!

Q.   I have been in a relationship with my son's dad for almost 4 years now. After we found out that we were having my son, he started getting verbally abusive, and eventually physically abusive. I have tried to leave him but I can't get away. Now that ...

A.   2 December 2005: IF SOMEONE WANTS TO KILL YOU AND IS MAKING YOUR LIFE HELL, THEN MAYBE YOU SHOULD GET OFF THE COMPUTER AND CALL THE POLICE, AND GET THE HELL AWAY FROM HIM!!!! ESPECIALLY FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR SON!!! THATS NOT A HEALTHY ENVIORNMENT FOR A YOUNG BOY!!! ... (read in full...)

Should a 40 year old man want to date a 19 year old woman and then get her pregnant?

Q.   Is it normal for a forty year old man to want a relationship with a nineteen year old girl and then get her pregnant?...

A.   1 December 2005: WHAT THE HELL!!! NO THATS NOT NORMAL!!! THATS SICK!!! 19 ISNT REALLY A WOMAN EITHER, ESPECIALLY TO A 40 YEAR OLD MAN!!! BY THE TIME YOUR HIS AGE, HE'LL BE ON HIS DEATH BED!!! A 19 YEAR OLD GIRL SHOULD LIVE AND ENJOY LIFE WITH A PARTNER SOME-WHAT ... (read in full...)

He says she's just a friend, but I think there's more to it

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend for just over a year, but I've been worrying about our relationship. I don't know how to get him to open up.. We've been making an effort to see each other more regularily but now he cancelled on me to go ...

A.   1 December 2005: THIS IS THE ONLY ADVICE I HAVE FOR YOU, DUMP THAT CHUMP... (read in full...)

His gf-the mother of his child...deleted my phone number because she was jealous.

Q.   I got this guys number about two months ago. He's 22 and I'm 26. We've talked for about a week or so afterwards and then I didn't hear from him after that. Now last week we bumped into each other and he told me his "baby's mother" deleted my phone ...

A.   1 December 2005: OKAY, HES GOT A BABY, AND BABY MAMA, SO WHY ARE YOU EVEN INTERESTED? I THINK THAT YOU SHOULD JUST LEAVE THIS GUY THE HELL ALONE!!! I'VE BEEN IN THE SAME PRDICAMENT AS YOUR IN RIGHT NOW. ALL WAS WELL AT FIRST, THEN, AS TIME WENT BYE, I GOT MY ... (read in full...)

My partner wants to have sex with younger woman-he's feeling like he's missing out on the fun.

Q.   My partner and i have been together for 12 years. Just in the last year he has been saying to me he thinks he should go and have sex with younger woman as he feels he is being done in. He says he is getting older and has not had much fun, he ...

A.   30 November 2005: WELL IT SOUNDS LIKE HES BORED WITH THE SEX LIFE HES HAVING WITH YOU. 12 YEARS IS A LONG TIME TO BE WITH ONE PERSON, I UNDERSTAND THAT, BUT IF SLEEPING WITH YOUNGER WOMEN WILL MAKE HIM FEEL BETTER ABOUT HIMSELF, THEN MAYBE YOU SHOULD LOOK AT WHO YOUR ... (read in full...)

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