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Will I bleed when I have sex for the first time?

Q.   I'm really ready to have sex with my man soon. The thing is he's done it loads before and I'm still a virgin, I've told him I'm not but now I'm wondering can he tell if I am or not when we are doing it? I know it's going to hurt but will it be ...

A.   13 November 2007: Everyone is different but from my own experience and when discussing with people who I know, yes there is going to be blood when you have sex, but you may not on your first time, as you are probably aware your virginity is a layer of skin inside the ... (read in full...)

I love my husband even though we've had our bad times but I feel I've missed out on other parts of my life.

Q.   I've been married 5 years and got together when I was only 16, I love my husband even though we've had our bad times but I feel I've missed out on other parts of my life. I know I'm being selfish but I can't shake this feeling that there's more to ...

A.   6 July 2007: I'm not to sure what to write as i don't know what you feel you have missed out on, being young free and single? flings?, nights out with friends?. You have a husband who you love very much, some people crave what you have so much that they settle ... (read in full...)

I have been on a roller coaster relationship, but I dont want to lose her

Q.   This is a complicated situation and I want to include as much details as possible. I met this girl a three months ago at a function. i'm 20 she's 18. After two weeks of talking every night on the phone for 5 or 6 hrs we finally got together and ...

A.   6 July 2007: This is turning into a repetative circle. Stop seeing her so much and move on.... (read in full...)

I want to tell her in a way that says I love you with all my heart, and make her feel really special that she is the chosen girl kind of thing but I just don't know how to put it all together.

Q.   Hey everyone, Sooo my girlfriend and I recently had sex for the first time. She is not a virgin. However I WAS but she does not know this. I would happily tell her but she has never asked and also I am a few years older than her so I thought it ...

A.   1 July 2007: I think its great that you want to be completely honest with her, you sound very much in love. Your age group being 18 - 21 is young so when you say you don't want to turn her off by telling her you were a virgin is a bit silly because not everyone ... (read in full...)

I like a guy who is only 10 years younger than my mum. Could this work?

Q.   Hi, I hope you can give me some advice. I am a single mum and I've been single since I split from my daughter's father 3 years ago. My ex and I get along well and he still is a fantastic Dad and my daughter loves his gilfriend, so I have no problems...

A.   1 July 2007: You can't help who you fall for, and after 3 years of no men and no sex anyone would be terrified of being hurt again. To me, age is just a number, you see plenty of women walking around with their toyboy lovers...they are'nt ashamed, they're happy. ... (read in full...)

I am having a few problems trying to overcome an abusive relationship and wondered if anyone can help?

Q.   I am having a few problems trying to overcome an abusive relationship and wondered if anyone can help. We split almost a couple of months ago. Within our relationship, though on occasion he could be thoughtful, intelligent and caring, he also had...

A.   1 July 2007: If you have already made up your mind about moving on then start now. this man sounds like he is never going to change for anyone. Even if he has met a strong, independant woman as you put it, that doesn't mean he won't break her down emotionally ... (read in full...)

I have been on a roller coaster relationship, but I dont want to lose her

Q.   This is a complicated situation and I want to include as much details as possible. I met this girl a three months ago at a function. i'm 20 she's 18. After two weeks of talking every night on the phone for 5 or 6 hrs we finally got together and ...

A.   30 June 2007: You obviously know what you want. You want her. The lady mentioned in your problem obviously does'nt have a clue. You have only known eachother for a few months and so much has happened that would be hard to recover from, such as getting angry with ... (read in full...)

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