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36-40,
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writes:Hey everyone,Sooo my girlfriend and I recently had sex for the first time. She is not a virgin. However I WAS but she does not know this. I would happily tell her but she has never asked and also I am a few years older than her so I thought it might turn her off. ANYWAY.. I want to tell her in a way that says I love you with all my heart, and make her feel really special that she is the chosen girl kind of thing but I just don't know how to put it all together. The point I'm making isn't that I just want to tell her that I was a virgin. I want her to feel really special, because she really does deserve to feel that way. Could someone please help me. Thanks guys! =)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (2 July 2007):
 I would have my doubts whether she didn't know you were a virgin. That isn't exactly something that you can hide. So, she knows and she doesn't care. Is there anything better?
Now, onto the important matter, if you show her how important she is to you with your actions, not your words, well, that will be all you need.
You're a lucky man. Enjoy.
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reader, love-him  +, writes (1 July 2007):
 Hey babe, when i met my boyfriend, a year ago, he was a virgin i wasnt. he told me he loved me and said i want you to be my first, because you mean the most to me, baby i love you etc.. maybe something like that? make sure she knows how special she is to you.. mail me if u wanna talk x x x x x
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reader, Agony Aunt Saskia +, writes (1 July 2007):
I think its great that you want to be completely honest with her, you sound very much in love. Your age group being 18 - 21 is young so when you say you don't want to turn her off by telling her you were a virgin is a bit silly because not everyone has had tonnes of experience by your age, if anything i think she will be flattered that your telling her something so personal because you love her and want her know she's the only one. You may feel very nervous about telling her but try not to be, she won't run a mile, your taking the next step in your relationship and it's best to be completely honest with your partner all the time, it prevents arguments and builds a foundation for a healthy relationship.
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