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Sensitive new age guy vs Cocky and Arrogant

Q.   Do women like men who are a bit cocky and arrogant? Or do they prefer snesitive new age guys? Some women, I've heard, like men who exude confidence. Is this a dumb question? Help me out here. I want to get women on side, so they stop pulling faces ...

A.   8 May 2010: Sorry mate blame all you want, won't make a damn bit of difference if all you want to do is sit and blame, 'cause that's all you'll end up doing. Okay so you want to know what women want? First of all I'm a member of the fairer species and ... (read in full...)

My husband will not have sex with me

Q.   This is difficult for me to accept because I have always consider myself a hot person, very confident, and very comfortable with my physique, but in the past year my confidence level has gone done a notch. I'm married and I am sexual and I wan...

A.   7 May 2010: Hi! My opinion is emasculation! You say YOUR getting him in the mood and YOU'VE got a good job! What about him? Now don't get me wrong I'm all for ladies on top but maybe if you gave him a chance to come to you, give him a chance to assert his ma... (read in full...)

Is my co-working seeing me only because I'm convenient?

Q.   A male co-worker of mine (a good looking, fun loving, church going, very nice guy) was having major issues with his marriage. His wife had become a hypochondriac, never wanted to do much of anything, and was basically boring. He had brought his ...

A.   7 May 2010: Hi I'm really sorry your going through so much uncertainty right now. There is so much on your plate emotionally that you can't see the forest for the trees. I honestly don't think it makes a difference how your co-worker feels about you, you... (read in full...)

Mother accusing me of having sex! Should I just have it since she thinks I am anyways?

Q.   Well I'm 15 years old and my mother continues to accuse me of having sex. She is really paranoid because she had me at such a young age. The more she accuses me, the more I feel like I should just do it because she thinks I'm doing it. I really just ...

A.   7 May 2010: I totally agree with kc100 it's unfair that your mother is punishing you for something you haven't even done. You need to sit down and have a proper chat with her about it and tell her how she's making you feel. You don't need to promise her that... (read in full...)

Need advice on dating women. I'm starting a bit late at 25!

Q.   I'm a 25 yr old from India and work as a software engineer. I'll be moving to the US for grad school (Computer Science) soon (by Jan 2010 or Jun 2010). I've had a pretty interesting and different childhood. I've got an extremely strong i...

A.   3 December 2009: I'd say tell the truth about the porn, it's not like there's anything wrong with it. I don't know any girl that would be turned off by it! As for not getting taken advantage of I wouldn't let on that you've never had a real girlfriend until... (read in full...)

I thought I got over being raped, why is it now all comming back again?

Q.   This has been really getting me down so I'm just wondering if anyone has any advice... 7 years ago a boyfriend raped me, I was 16 at the time and I took it pretty badly, I didn't speak a word about it until about a year ago when I told my best fri...

A.   22 October 2009: Thanks for the answers guys I'm going to look into therapy to see what it'll entail and I will definetly see if I can help the local rape centre xx Also caring guy if you have any insight on how I can make this as easy as possible for my boyfrien... (read in full...)

Need good remedies and/or painkillers advice for menstruation!

Q.   Hey, this isn't really a relationship problem but I know all the aunts have great advice. The thing is, next week I'm off do do work experience for the whole week during my half term, but I'm due on my period either Sunday/Monday. Like many girls I ...

A.   22 October 2009: Hey I find solpadene is the best for period pain, also what's great is hot drinks, tea/coffe anything like that but also if you take a tablespoon of whisky or brandy in a glass of warm milk. Tastes disgusting but it does the trick by warming up y... (read in full...)

I feel awful and don't enjoy the hookers I visit..how do I rid myself of this sex addiction?

Q.   Hi Im from the UK and just want someone to help me about a sex addiction before it gets out of hand. I am a 21 year old guy who has never had a girlfriend and just feels lonely. I have hobbies that i do (gym a lot) but for some reason recently ...

A.   22 October 2009: That's really bad that your feeling lonely, from experience I think bottling things up makes them a million times worse. I think everyone is right, doesn't sound like a sex addiction to me either, but I wouldn't recommend looking for a F**K bud... (read in full...)

My father acts like I don't exist, how do I get him accept me?

Q.   I feel like I don't have a father figure in my life as my dad ignores me, and doesn't want to spend time with me. He is my biological dad by the way, I don't have a stepdad. He's more interested in pursuing a feud with someone else than spendi...

A.   22 October 2009: Hey Jason Join the club, both my parents are like that, the only attention I ever got was to have a go at me because I wasn't good enough or smart enough! Don't let his selfish, selfcentred attitude make you feel like you're not good enough, bec... (read in full...)

My father acts like I don't exist, how do I get him accept me?

Q.   I feel like I don't have a father figure in my life as my dad ignores me, and doesn't want to spend time with me. He is my biological dad by the way, I don't have a stepdad. He's more interested in pursuing a feud with someone else than spendi...

A.   22 October 2009: Hey Jason Join the club, both my parents are like that, the only attention I ever got was to have a go at me because I wasn't good enough or smart enough! Don't let his selfish, selfcentred attitude make you feel like you're not good enough, bec... (read in full...)

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